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Okay theres this guy. hes my good friend.. and i think i like him more than a friend.- pretty sure he only likes me as a friend. he is getting over my bff rite now. and um im scared my friends like him and im 2 scared 2 mention it to them cuz i kno they will be all like ya i like him 2. and i hate that mor than ne thing. i wanna be the onli 1 too like him yaa know? and like i just dont kno wut 2 do cuz i cant tell him and i cant tell my friends cuz it just will hurt me. cuz like my friend she gets whatever guy she wants ussually and i dont get that guy (she ussually likes tha same guy) what am i to do, keeping this 2 myself duzent really do ne good ya know??
PLeaZe Help ME.. i saw your site and im sure u can give me grate advice.
age 14, Tatina (link)
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wow, thiz if a tuffy! well lemme c... no one ever wants to get hurt in life, but sumtimez we just have to. It makes us such stronger ppl whether we kno it or not. I kno it sumtimez reali sux, but itz tru. well ne wayz, baq to the point... sumtimez u just gotta have the courage, and just tell ppl how u feel! it reali works! and if yur close enuff to that friend of yurz, just tell her exactly wut u told me, and she will listen, especialy if she's yur bff. but just keep in mind that some of the things that u don't like about her, she may not be able to control. i kno she myte get a lil defensive or mad about the stuff u say, but still just tell her. if she's realli a good friend, she'll still listen and alwayz do her best to support u sumhow sumway no matter wut. whether she just makes u laff wen yur feeling down, or w/e. oh and and r u positive yur frenz all like this same guy? if yur not totalli sure, u need to go make sure! oh yah, and i kno that yur frenz liking the same guyz as u is reali annoying, but itz just 1 of thoze things u gotta deal w/. itz just how life works, we never realli get wut we want. and yah, it wud most definitely seem that yur friend myte get w/e she wants, but she duzn't. no one ever reali duz. well, it loox like u and yur friend need to talk w/ each other a bit more, so go do that! ne wayz, about the guy... i think u definitely need to just tell him how u feel, maybe give him sum more time to get over yur bff if he reali needz it, but if yur ready, u just need to tell him. it may seem reali awkward, him being a good friend of yurz and all, but u just gotta do it. just take the extra step! and because he's a good friend, he's alwayz gunna try hiz best to not hurt u ne wayz. so u just gotta go for it and tell him! he may even like u baq, he just can't tell u cuz u guyz have gotten to be such good frenz... hey, u never know... and if that izn't the case, oh well, u'll find more guyz! just keep wut friendship u have w/ him now, and make it even stronger! i am soo sry this iz so long, and i bet i didn't even help u that much, but i tried my best. if u want more advice, or just want to comment on how i did, feel free to. well, best wishes and good luck!
*xoxo*-nina
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Hey I really wanna run for pres. of student counsil. But I'm not the most popular girl in school...im like the second. And the most popular girl is one of my friends. Should I still run? and if so what should I do to secure my spot in teh position? thanks for ur help!
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U shud go for it! If the popular girl iz one of yur friends, then tell her yur running, and ask her to help w/ yur campaign! Cuz it reali iz pretti much a popularity contest, so it'd be great for U to get the most popular gurl to help u. It wud definitely increase yur chances of winning. and if she duzn't wanna help, or she's running too, then u shud still just try yur best, and tell everyone yur ideas, and just hope for the best! Good Luck! Hope I helped!
*xoxo*-nina
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eck. this guy likes me, i hate him. but i mean i cant do ne thing about it. he bugs tha hell outta me though. wut do i do?? i mean he touches me and stuff 2 its sick. eeww.. its so annoying.. plz help! (link)
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haha! tuff luck! no, i'm j/p, well, um...have u tried tellin him to stop? if he duzn't, then just slap him if he touches u again. if the guy iz a total retard, then threaten to kill him if he still keeps touchin u...lol no. duz he kno u don't like him back? maybe u need to tell him that u don't like him more than a friend, or even as a friend at all. tell him that it's sick, and that u want him to stop. and if he still duzn't get the message (which means he's a total idiot), then just stay as far away from him as possible. and if that still duzn't work, just file a restraining order from him...haha lol. and if it's so annoying, just tell him to leave u alone, and to get away from u. hope i helped!
*xoxo*-nina
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besides drinking milk wut can i do 2 get taller.? (link)
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um...lemme c...i think pretti much u just gotta have the height or u don't. there's nothin u can realli do to get taller, except there are these pill things that can make u taller i think, but they're suppose to be kinda expensive. and milk duz help along yur bones too sorta, cuz it makes yur bones stronger and stuff, and longer i think. but if u don't have the height, standing up straight and holdin yur head up when u walk, instantly makes u and inch taller. oh, and there's alwayz the option of buying shoes that can make u taller, instead of wearing reali flat ones. well, hope i helped a bit.
*xoxo*-nina
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Ok hi!! umm i really wanna know wut i shud do if sum1 like is all flirty like saying omg ur buns look hot! hahha! lol but if guys say that and stuff like bout my body and sexual things.. wut am i supposed 2 do? or say? ussually im quiet and umm well im emberesed... (however u spell it) is that normal for guys 2 say that stuff... or juzt guys who think they are p-i-m-ps and stuff... i hate it.. but i think i shud calm down and be happy they are complimenting me but it grosses me out!! plz help and im sorrie this is kind of long! BYE (link)
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k, well i kno it may make u feel uncomfortable, but if they meant it as a compliment, then just be happy they took the tyme to notice, and say thank u, and maybe give em a compliment too. um...well about if it's normal for guyz to say that stuff, i'm not sure. i'd say usually it's prolly mostly pimps or players and stuff, but deep down all guyz r thinkin that stuff too, cuz all guyz are pervs in sum way or another. and if the compliment grosses u out, just say thank u, and forget about it. u prolly shouldn't tell em it grosses u out, cuz they may never give u another compliment again, and that would prolly suck. if they make a sexual comment to u, maybe just say "eeewww..." and laff, and take it as joke kinda. but if it realli makes u uncomfortable, then u just gotta tell em to stop. it may be a lil embarrasing, but pretti soon u'll get use to it, and it'll all be kewl. well, hope i helped a lil bit. sry, it wuz so long.
*xoxo*-nina
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wut do u think about boyz who only think about sex.. shud u date them? even if u dont wanna have sex until ur ready... wut if they pressure u into it..I really dont know wut i would do. and dont most guys have that on there mind?
Alwayz,
*very curious angel*
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yah, unfortunately most guyz have sex on their mind a lotta the tyme. if he makes u feel uncomfortable or pressures u into having sex, just tell him no, and that yur not ready. if he duzn't respect that, then just forget about him. he's not worth it. oh, and b4 u have sex w/ anyone, u gotta think about if u honestly and truly trust him, if u have even 1 doubt about him, then u guyz aren't readi yet. another thing that myte also help iz if u tell the guy yur dating from the beginning that yur not readi to have sex and are not planning to, and if they're kewl w/ that, then go for it! hope that helped a bit!
*xoxo*-nina
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Randum advice needed!!
Do u think love is ussually at first site?
or after u get to know them?
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I think true love usually izn't at first syte, cuz to truly luv sum1, u love who they are on the inside. looks don't even matter when yur in love, u just luv the person that they are and just the dumbest things about them that only u could like...for instance the way they walk or the way they look at u, just stuff like that. cuz when it's luv at first syte, u see the person and yur just reali reali attracted to them. but it prolly turns in2 luv once u get to know them. and i will finish this later...ok? k, till next tyme...
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Heyz Nina!
Ur awesome chic! good ole friend!! lol yea well i like ur site! itz cute! and i wanna ask u a q. DO u think i shud ignore *b.t* cuz hez like being a jerk. i asked 4 advice 4 this and ppl sed i shud. just wondering wut u think...
Thx much, i'll rate u!!
alwayz, nicole
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well, i don't think u should ignore *b.t* cuz it's alwayz mean to ignore ppl, but if he's being a huge jerk, then maybe u should just let him kno, and if he duzn't care, then just still be chill w/ him. cuz if u told him and he's still acting like a jerk, u'll kno that it's not yur fault, and that he realli iz just a big jerk. and if he iz, the best thing to do iz..if u still like him, just try yur best to think of him as only a friend. but if u don't like him at all anymore, just forget about him and move on. hope i helped!
*xoxo*-nina
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do u think that mature guyz wuld get married sooner than immature guyz?
sorry im juzt coming up w/ randum qz lol.
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well it all depends...i think a mature guy myte get married later cuz he took his tyme and found his special sum1. while an immature guy myte get married sooner cuz he just felt like getting married or thought he wuz in luv or sumthing, but really wuzn't. but then again, an immature guy myte also get married later, cuz he myte just wanna go out with a bunch of gurlz and stuff, cuz he duzn't wanna settle down and live a happy life yet. i'm sry if this iz confusing, but there's so many different possibilities. anywayz, hope i sorta helped...
*xoxo*-nina
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why, why cant guyz understand us gurls? (link)
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guyz can't understand gurlz just cuz... they're dumb immature jerx! no, i'm j/k, but actually sum of em are. but anywayz, like i've sed b4, they don't realli care and prolly don't take the time to even try to understand. like if a gurl iz too hard to understand to them, they'll just be like well i can just go find another one...so they just forget about her, and move on. most of em don't wanna understand, they prolly just like the idea of being in a relationship. thank god, not all boyz are like this tho, so u just gotta find him! it may take sum tyme, but eventually u'll find that special dude!!! well, hope i helped a bit!
*xoxo*~nina
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i dont have a long distance relationship or ne thing but i was wondering, do u think they work out like most of tha time? or no?
CuRiOsItY iS KiLlInG Me
YeW nO WhO i Am (link)
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i've never had a long distance relationship or anything, but i don't think they would work out too well. like most of the tyme they prolly wouldn't work out at all, or it just wouldn't last very long, u kno? u wouldn't be able to see em in person as much as u wanted. and u definitely wanna keep yur options open at home or wherever u are, so u can flirt...or do w/e u want! lolz... well yes, i mean if u realli care for the person, then it myte work out, but i dunno...in my opinion, long distance relationships would be realli hard to handle. but anywayz, hope i helped u a lil bit!
*xoxo*-nina
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Do u think that gurls end up hurt more in tha end of a relationship than guyz???
PlZ aNsWeR (link)
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yes, gurlz definitely get hurt A LOT more than guyz. it sux, but guyz usually just don't care. i'm not saying all guyz are like this, but unfortunately most of em are. and when u come across one of those guyz, it's best to just leave em alone, and find a better one! this prolly duzn't seem like very good advice, but it's quite true! well, hope i helped u!
*xoxo*-nina
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