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A friend
Okay theres this guy. hes my good friend.. and i think i like him more than a friend.- pretty sure he only likes me as a friend. he is getting over my bff rite now. and um im scared my friends like him and im 2 scared 2 mention it to them cuz i kno they will be all like ya i like him 2. and i hate that mor than ne thing. i wanna be the onli 1 too like him yaa know? and like i just dont kno wut 2 do cuz i cant tell him and i cant tell my friends cuz it just will hurt me. cuz like my friend she gets whatever guy she wants ussually and i dont get that guy (she ussually likes tha same guy) what am i to do, keeping this 2 myself duzent really do ne good ya know??
PLeaZe Help ME.. i saw your site and im sure u can give me grate advice.
age 14, Tatina
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wow, thiz if a tuffy! well lemme c... no one ever wants to get hurt in life, but sumtimez we just have to. It makes us such stronger ppl whether we kno it or not. I kno it sumtimez reali sux, but itz tru. well ne wayz, baq to the point... sumtimez u just gotta have the courage, and just tell ppl how u feel! it reali works! and if yur close enuff to that friend of yurz, just tell her exactly wut u told me, and she will listen, especialy if she's yur bff. but just keep in mind that some of the things that u don't like about her, she may not be able to control. i kno she myte get a lil defensive or mad about the stuff u say, but still just tell her. if she's realli a good friend, she'll still listen and alwayz do her best to support u sumhow sumway no matter wut. whether she just makes u laff wen yur feeling down, or w/e. oh and and r u positive yur frenz all like this same guy? if yur not totalli sure, u need to go make sure! oh yah, and i kno that yur frenz liking the same guyz as u is reali annoying, but itz just 1 of thoze things u gotta deal w/. itz just how life works, we never realli get wut we want. and yah, it wud most definitely seem that yur friend myte get w/e she wants, but she duzn't. no one ever reali duz. well, it loox like u and yur friend need to talk w/ each other a bit more, so go do that! ne wayz, about the guy... i think u definitely need to just tell him how u feel, maybe give him sum more time to get over yur bff if he reali needz it, but if yur ready, u just need to tell him. it may seem reali awkward, him being a good friend of yurz and all, but u just gotta do it. just take the extra step! and because he's a good friend, he's alwayz gunna try hiz best to not hurt u ne wayz. so u just gotta go for it and tell him! he may even like u baq, he just can't tell u cuz u guyz have gotten to be such good frenz... hey, u never know... and if that izn't the case, oh well, u'll find more guyz! just keep wut friendship u have w/ him now, and make it even stronger! i am soo sry this iz so long, and i bet i didn't even help u that much, but i tried my best. if u want more advice, or just want to comment on how i did, feel free to. well, best wishes and good luck!
*xoxo*-nina
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