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I have 2 best friends who are leaving me out a lot lately, we used 2 b extremely tighht but now they're bein kinda mean. One of them is very controlling and the other is a follower so the follower follows the controller and they do stuff against me. I really hate it. I always feel like the second choice or the third wheel. What should i do... i rate high!
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I know this pRobably isn't what you want to heaR, but just talk to them about it! Tell them you feel like they'Re leaving you out, and you'd appReciate it veRy much if they began to include you moRe! I suggest just coming Right out with it; don't beat aRound the bush - this way theRe's no confusion. It shouldn't Really be that haRd, and if they don't undeRstand and don't change.. then scRew 'em. Why be fRiends with someone who doesn't want YOUR fRiendship!! I hope things woRk out!! Best wishes!
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eh i know how that feels...well honestly they rnt worth it.. i mean find sum other ppl 2 hang with. they dont wanna hang with u, thay r missing out. soo juzt dont let them get 2 yea.. juzt maybe talk 2 them and tell them u dont like being treated like tha 3rd wheel..and if thay dont care, u shuddnt care and juzt find sum new friends 2 hang out with and act like u dont care any more. but if thay do care and they didnt realize they were leaving u out.. dont ignore them or ne thing like that, give them one more chance 2 prove that thay r ur friends..
Hope that made sense and i hope it helped u out!
~NICOLE~
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i kno how that feels they are just like that and i think you shuld find better friends because they are not treating u like a friend and next time they ask u to do sumthing just tell em that u are gonna hang out with ur real friends that day but if u really want them to be ur friends ask them why they are so mean to u all the time. some ppl are just like that and u dont need them to be your friends.GOOD LUCK.
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talk 2 them if they ignore u ignore them.
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you need new friends sweetie. Im sorta experiencing what you are and I promise things will clear up. Talk to new people. Your feeding their ambition by still hanging out with them b/c they want you to come back to them like a puppy dog after they treat you crappy. Ditch their sorry little @$$es .. lol.
good luck sweeeets
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Yea ik wut ur goin through it happened to me. I think you shoudl talk 2 them about it and give them a few days after u talked to them n if they still leave you out i think you just wokr on tryin 2 get new friends.I Hope i helped!
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I had the same problem. What i did was is got other friends basically. I still talk to the 2 other girls, but now when i know they're having a sleepover or whatever i know have other friends to hang out with. It sucks feeling like the second choice, and what happened to me, if one of my "friends" were mad at eachother they would suddenly act like i existed. It sucks feeling that way. You don't need to totally forget about them, but look for other people to hang out with! Maybe sit down with different people in lunch or something, get to know someone else! &maybe they might get jealous and start including you more..hope it works out!
xoxo
ali
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I think you should go for some new friends if they wanna leave you out maybe there tryin to give you a sign that they dont want to you around.. but its there loss so i think that you should find new friends and show your old friends what there missing out on....++
Thank You for your question please rite em another question so i can help you again so please give em the feedback on how it went with your friends....
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Hey. i would sit them down and ask them why they are being so mean lately and leaving you out. i kno i say this alot but its better to tell them straight up that you kno i feel left out and i wanna be tight with yah again...why is this happening? did i do something wrong...???and see wut they say. Take Care. Hope I helped x3 SweetStar.
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