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I love my boyfriend soo much and i dont wanna lose him!
Okay I have a b/f and hes goin into High Skewl and im still in 8th grade. Im 13 and hes 14 and alot of my friends and sum of his friends think that we'll make it thru the first year. He thinks that we'll last at least half the year. But i dont think we will last, is that wrong???
I mean i love him soo much and i really Dont wanna lose him. i wanna make it last but its gonna be really hard for him in High skewl with all the new gurlz and stuff! Please HELP me!!! Oh yea is there a way i could make it last and if so HOW??? PLEASE tell me!
-Kaila
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its not wrong that u think you 2 wont last..but try to think positive, cuz if u dont, things most likely wont work out, and its only a year, and make sure u 2 c each other a lot, and just try to keep it together
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The highschool/middle school difference can be really huge. Not being in school with your bf is going to be a big change. It is ok for you to doubt it, you're only being realistic. If you want to keep it going,t hen you have to make a sincere effort to see him outside of school, plan things in advance and also be willing to make a few changes and meet new people. he's goign to make new friends and you should accept that and encourage him. If you trust him and you don't break his trust in you, scheduled calls and hanging out can keep it alive logn enough for you to make it into highschool.
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well if yooh dont beleive its gonna last then it wont .. yooh need to beleive that it will .. nd thats wats gonna help some .. also keep him surprised .. keep him guessin bout wats gonna happen next .. how him yooh love him nd yooh never wana let him go .. show him how much yooh care .. well i hope ihelped nd if yooh need to talk im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
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i guess you should just spend as much time together as possible and call hiim.. (( not TOO much)) but often.. and if you guys dont make it then it wasnt meant to be.. thats the way life goes.. well good luck!
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um..a bit of a tuffy..lets see..
1- call him atleast once a day
2- try asking him to hang out once or twice a night
Since it is High School..you may break up and then again you maybe not..you just have to keep the relationship strong and all. It's just the way the dice roll sry sweetie - hope I helped
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You just have to trust him. If he loves you as much as you love him then he wont make any mistakes, but if you really feel you can't make it then just "take a break" for awhile.
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well savor the time you guys have together. Dont always be together you guys will get sick of eachother. Dont make out right away save it for like a really good time for the both of you. And dont always be kissing b/c you'll get bored and you'll be like forced to take things to a level you might not want to. If hes a good guy he wont ditch you for some girl in the high school. If he did dump you for another girl, hes a jerk and you dont need him, but he sounds like a good guy so you shouldnt have to worry. Everyone feels nervous about lasting or not here and there so basically just keep things new and exciting and stuf.. just you have to believe in this relationship if you worry so much about breaking up you wont enjoy
1. your life
2. the time you guys are having together
see what i mean? you'll be fine sweetie just enjoy life and relax. Dont over analyze. Nuah xoxo
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i guess if your really scared that he would cheat or sumthin take a break for that year and still be friends and once you get to high skool then try and hook up again. just remember there will be lots of new boys in high skool too.
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*Kaila*
Hey! My friend went thru this, her N her boifirned has been goin out for almost a year or suttin now, i kno it's more than 6 months*lol* well it's not wrong dat u think this, ur juss stating the obvious! It won't be hard, because if he feels da same way, N u guys trust eachother fully, then therre's nuttin to be worried bout! U guys can still flirt, therre's nuttin wrong wit dat, but don't get to touchy touchy, u kno?Yes therre are alwayz ways to make things work! don't give up, ppl nowadaes be givin up to damn easy! People who has hope N beliefs, get thru a lot! i have!*lol* my xperience wuz bout muh Ex. i have hope! Well for u tryin to make it last, talk on the fone like almost everydae, cuz hike skewl would be busy N maybe middle but i doubt dat*lol*, well if u boi does sports, then go to them, u kno? on weekends hang with eachotha! dat's wut muh friends did! They talked on the fone like everydae, N they hang out like all the time when they can! my friend be goin to her boi's football games! N bball games N stuff like dat! try to talk it out, ask his friends to help two "love birds" hang out! if things are meant to be then let it happen!U kno? Hope i helped, if u need anything else, feel free to stopp by da inbox! tell me how things go! GOOD LUCK, take care
-Phuong
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