So Ill try to make this as short as I can, but I've liked this guy name Jamie for a while. Like a year and a halff. He liked me back for a while also and we kind of hooked up and were supposed to go on a date. but ever since then it never went any further because he said he thought my "pussy smelt" but just because hes never done things like that with other girls before and he thought it was "weird" so he randomly started ignoring me even though he was always reallyyy nice. Well after a longg time and fights and ignoring etc. we started talking like normal againn, and he even started calling me alot and stuff. But then, randomly on the phone he's like " Oh, well I gtg, well not really but, I want to" so I said okayy? fine byee. After that we were talking a lott on msnn, and he was flirting with me and stuff and being really nice. And I told him I liked him and he said :O I thought you liked sam? (This other guy I liked). So I told him yeah but he keeps calling me and stuff and I liek guys that are hard to get (half as a joke half not)much after that and he stopped talking as much on msn. And when I saw him on the city bus he just smiled? when I said hi.When I asked him about it he said oh sorry I didnt mean to ignore you, I smiled? With my sleeve over my mouth. I dont know if he was joking or what? Do you have any advice on thiss? Or anything you think about it all would help, thanks :).
he kinda sounds like a jerk. no offense, but if i were you, i wouldn't like him as much as you do. he could be a good friend possibly, but i wouldnt go any further than that. hopefully, you'll think the same way i do and find someone else, because it just doesn't seem like it'll work out with him.
but if you really think it will, plain out ask him. cutting to the chase is always the best thing to do.
good luck :D
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for a week now ive been feeling distant from my boyfriend. some days ago on zwinky he met this girl named rose and rose fell for him pretty hard. and ever since then we havent been talking like we usually have. hes like distracted and its even worse now since rose's friend is after him too. and when i try to talk to him about it he laughs it off like its not important. what should i do?
he probably just likes the attention. but besides that, be upfront with him. let him know you notice the distance and that you think its important. make sure he knows you're serious and that it isn't a laughing matter. if he doesn't stop, let him know its not okay. don't let him walk all over you just because some girls that he met off zwinky like him, that doesnt mean he can just forget all about you. you're his girlfriend, you should come first. and if you don't, he doesn't deserve to be your boyfriend.
good luck :D
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Well theres me and this guy and were kinda like best friends but with benefits i think. Hes a year older than me and im not quite sure if i have feelings for him, i think i might though. We have had conversations before like how he said nothing more than friends would work out right now and i asked if it ever would and he said yeah maybe. We talk every night on the phone and hang out every weekend, we have only made out though.
Im not shure quite what we are and if we will ever be more than friends & idk if i feel comfortable asking him, what should i do ?
before doing anything, discover how your feelings are. if you like him as more than a friend, then you should find out what you are. if you don't, then i would just stop making out with him, unless you're both okay with there being no meaning behind it. if you do like him, and you are scared about asking him straight up, then hint around to another guy liking you, see if hes okay with it. ask him if hes alright with it. or you could just take the easiest approach and ask him. thats what i would do. that way you can say you tried. ask him how he feels about you, and if the makeout sessions were just lacking emotion and if you are just friends that mess around. with whatever answer he gives you, let him know how you feel about it. if you're comfortable with just making out and no feelings being there, then keep doing it. if he tells you that they mean nothing, and you don't feel the same way, let him know how you feel. don't hold things back, it'll just make things worse.
good luck :D
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so ya me and my bf like having oral and i was wondering, he likes to stick his tounge all the way up my vagina, and i mean ALL the way! is that normal?
also, my boobs are huge, theyre D's, and i have a friend who isnt my bf, but he really likes to squeeze my boobs and touch my when im naked. is that cheating?
yeah, not to be mean but thats cheating.
i doubt your boyfriend would like you being naked around any guy but him,
and i doubt he would like the guy touching you.
especially on your boobs.
and there is no correct way to eat a girl out.
maybe he just likes sticking his tongue all the way in you,
but if you don't like it, tell him not to.
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heres what he said:
My idea for my flier/poster is a myspace train.
And you hvae the look I like
the whole, not mainstream but still good looking thing
so I would like your permission if you I could put you on my flier thing?
what does it mean
i know what he wants
but when he says "the whole,not mainstream but still good looking thing"
it means
you don't blend in with other girls that are pretty,
your looks arnt the same.
but you are still good looking.
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so this guy was fingering me a few days ago, but i do not know if it was fingering.
it was on the outside, like he never actually stuck his finger IN there. so he was like fingering me on the outside of where the hole is. so is that considered being fingered?
also, he pretty much ....... could not find the hole. like his finger was moving to different places but like he could not find the hole. why couldn't he?
it also hurt when he did start poking at the hole area, and when he [barely] tried to put his finger in. why did it hurt?
if you're a virgin, thats probably why it hurt. and i wouldn't consider it fingering unless it actually went in. and it could either of been his first time fingering someone or he didn't know what he was doing very well when he was trying to find the hole. it'll get better though, lol trust me.
good luck :D
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okay so i saw alot of pictures of people kissing in which the girl kisses the top lip of the guy's, is that what your suppose to do? im never really romantically kissed a guy before so im really unsure. please help, thanks.
lol it can be done, but its not what you have to do. you can kiss either lips, or both.. you just do whatever feels like in the moment.
good luck :D
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how do i get my girl to have a threesome, we are real confortable with each other and everything but i am ready to go farther and i think she is too but idk how to get her to have it and i want it to be with one of her friends but idk how to do that either i am 16 in 10th and she is 16 in 9th i would like some help thanks and no one really has to answer this
just ask her. but don't pressure her. just let her know that you are up for it and if she is too then that is great, and if she isn't then thats fine too. just make sure she knows you care about her feelings and just because you want to have sex with her and her friend doesn't mean that you like her friend, it just means you are up for it.
haha good luck :D
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I know because Im Fourteen Im not saposed to have sex, and I dont Im still 100% virgin but everyone seems to be doing it, and its weird because I stayed back and there all younger then me and not virgins.. when is the average of losing it and Ive been offered.. a couple times with some VERY hot guys but I said no which Im very proud of but because i keep saying now am I not interested in guys?
i am the same way honey! i'm fifteen and a virgin and completely proud of it. the most a guy has done is fingered me and its perfectly okay that you haven't done anything. i actually feel better about myself because i haven't done really anything at all, because it doesn't matter what others do, you do whatever you are comfortable with. where i live, a lot of girls started doing it at 13, and i'm sorry i just think that is way too young, and i feel sorry for them. but others wait until they are 17. it just all depends on the girl, just do it whenever you are ready, it doesn't mean you are not interested it just means you have high morals.
good luck :D
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so i cant fit two fingers "down there" and i might hook up with this one guy. do guys automatically use two fingers or one?
okay sorry if this is too much detail, but i don't finger myself any, i only have like three times and i can only fit a finger. but my boyfriend has fingered me multiple times and the first time he used one but then while in the middle of it he used two.. but i still can only get one, haa its kinda weird. but many guys are different though, my guess is that they would atleast start out by using one. but i wouldn't worry too much about it.
good luck :D
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so i'm getting mine done for my 14th birthday. cute i know. okay so can anyone tell me how bad it hurts in comparison to getting your cartilage on your ear pierced, cuz i got that done and it wasn't bad at all.
i got mine done in septmeber, and my catilage done in january, and really its not bad. the only part that kind of hurts is when they put the clamp on your skin to kind of numb the area. and that part is just like someone pinching you. the cartilage piercing takes a shorter time, but you don't even feel the needle going in when you get your bellybutton pierced because they tell you to take a deep breath before sticking the needle in, and then you breathe out as they are pushing it in, you can't even feel it really. its a fun feeling lol i hope everything goes okay (: i love mine, and after like a month you can twirl it and it doesn't even hurt anymore.
good luck :D
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13/f
Ok I have a crush on this boy. He talks to me sometimes. We only have one class together though. He asks to borrow stuff and so on but I mean he jokes around with me and he has a nickname for me like a little thing he made up today. He says I'm his "buddy" haha I love it. He talks to a few other girls but I just want something to happen like every other girl. Any help would be appreciated. He used to come leave his friends and come up and talk to me while we are walking to class but now me and my friends walk another way and they don't know I like him. I really don't feel like I want to tell them right now anyways. Please help thanks.
it sounds like he likes you. you should just tell him how you feel, you don't have to be point blank about it, you can just say "i really like being around you." or flirt with him whenever you get a chance and tell him things like "your eyes look so pretty today" or "that shirt makes you look so hot" haha just have fun with it and make sure he knows you like him.
good luck :D
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14/f
Latly ive been suffering from alot of body issues. The first thing you will probably tell me is to tell my parents, well I live with my mom and she doesnt care at all, she will just call me a hypocondriac and tell me im faking it. Trust me I would fake a illness that was severly hurting me.Ive never missed a day of school and I always go to school when im sick. Even when everything is plugged up and you cant here people talking to you.
So latly the issue is whenever I sit down or get up from relaxing, the minute I get up I have the worst headache and I want to pass out. My rib cage has been hurting like other. My knee always snaps not crack, snaps and its hurts so bad I dont want to move my knee. Right now im having trouble breathing like my air passage isnt wide. My back is also hurting to, like deep pressure points. Im really young, and fairly active, not over doing it and not under doing it. I have tried pleunty of sleep and fluids. I dont know what to do. I can take medicine cause we have nothing. Litterally nothing, or my mom keeps it all with her. Im at a loss here, I feel like im going to loss my life over a diesease I may be suffering from all because my mom doesnt care. What can I do?
Ill rate for anything. I just need help what can I do.
beg your mom, i know you said she won't listen, but try anyways. if that doesn't work, go to the school nurse, and if something very wrong is happening to you, she will tell your mom to take you to the doctor, and if that still doesn't work, then get another family member to help you. you seriously need to do anything you can to go to the doctor, especially because of the not being able to breathe well enough thing.
good luck :D
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Last summer i dated this boy. his name was franklin. i know sounds funny but. i really liked him. i met him at my bestfriends house. we went down to this pond by her house and we seen them and just started talking. then after we got to know eachother he asked me out. i obviously said yes. because he was sooo cute and sweet. then when i left my bestfriends house. for about a month me and franklin were talking alot. then out of no where my bestfriend left a message on my cell phone telling me he said it was over. i had no idea why. then i went on his myspace and seen this girl first on his top and her name was."i love franklin" so i added her being all nosey. we were good friends. until she told him i was talking to her. he called me up telling me to stop blah blah blah. and now he hates my guts. i still really really like him. and i see him everyother weekend when i goto my bestfriends house and he smiles at me and talks to me and stuff. but online hes a total asshole to me. and he tells my friends were friends. but idk what to do. i really want him to like me again. even though i really like him way more then a friend. what should i do?
i would not talk to that girl anymore, and i would stay out of that part of his life. but whenever you go to your bestfriend's house, talk to him and ask him if you are friends or not because he is sending you mixed signals. make sure he knows you arn't just joking around and that you want a serious answer. or if you're scared of asking in person, do it on myspace. but i seriously think you should talk to him about it. and if the conversation is going well, you might even want to tell him you have more feelings for him than just friend wise, but that is all up to how you feel on the situation at hand. if the conversation doesn't go well and he is a complete ass about the situation, i would just forget about him. and don't feel stupid for asking if you're friends because it isn't stupid, he's the one being stupid by sending you weird signals. just do what you feel is right.
good luck :D
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Ohkay 14/F
I can't decide if this guy likes me or if hes a player. He always text me and uses like a ton of smilie faces. He talks to my friends about me and tells them how im hot and how he wants to make out in a hot tub with me. He tells me he loves me but then we will have like an awkward silence and he wont text back for a while. Or hed rather talk about me to my friends then text me. Im lost with signals.
in a way it sounds like he is a player. the whole "make out in a hot tub with me" thing and how he'd rather talk about you to your friends than text you. or maybe he just doesn't know how you actually feel about him and he doesn't want to get rejected and maybe he's just faking a player act to hide himself from getting hurt. your best bet is to call him on it, ask him if he really cares about you or if he just wants someone to hook up with. that's the only way you will completely know the truth.
good luck :D
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I am in a bad situation and I need strictly guys help on this one.Okay,so my bff has admitted he is in love with me,like I am in love with him(I am a girl by the way).Well,he told me he doesn't want to risk ruining our friendship by us dating.He told me he doesn't want to hurt me that way.
Well,that isn't really my problem.My major problem is,I found out his cousin has a major crush on me.Well,I like his cousin,too.Mabey not as deeply as I LOVE my bff,but this is a good crush,and his cousin is sincere and sweet,and my age.My bff is two years younger than me(turning 15 in June) and his cousin is only four months older than me.
I want to date his cousin,but I am scared that if I do,considering they are room-mates now,that I'll upset my bff and ruin all chances with him.What should I do?Should I try dating his cousin?Or should I just hold back my feelings and wait the possible years until my bff is ready?
[xxxSimply,Becca]
this is basically how my situation went,
my bestfriend was in love with me but i just thought he has a small crush. and for the longest time i thought i was in love with him. but anyways, his brother and i had a class together because we were the same age and we started dating, and its been five months since then, and we are still together, and i really love him but sometimes i regret how i ruined my friendship with his brother. we still talk and all, but it just isn't the same as how it use to be because of all the complications. and my boyfriend still gets jealous every now and then that i can tell his brother certain things that i just can't tell him.
now back to you. your situation could end up nothing like mine, i'm just saying, they are similar. if you truly love your bff, then i wouldn't date his cousin. but if you think your love is not strong for your bff, and that your crush on his cousin is a lot stronger, then date him. if he is really your bff you will stay friends, but idk if anything greater than that will ever happen.
just make sure you know how your feelings are before you jump into a relationship with either.
but if you are IN LOVE with your bff, then tell him. but if you arn't... theres no reason why you can't date his cousin.
good luck :D
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ok so me and this guy have known eachother for almost four years.
we go to different schools so the distance thing is a huge problem, but we text every day.
he has been getting real upset with me bc i hook up with a lot of guys and he said he cant be friends with a slut.
tonight he told me he wanted to end pur friendship and stop talking compelely.
i cant stop thinkign about him, and its really hard not to text him but i know i have to let him be the first one to text.
i love being around him, i think i may actually like him more than friends.
he has already told me he wants more but i always tell him friends is what i want.
im scared to committ, so i think that may be the reason that i dont want to tell him i actually may have feelings for him more than friends.
im so confused on what to do, because i really really want him in my life.
so how can i get him to want to be friends again?!!
tell him how you feel, explain everything. tell him that you feel bad for making him think you are a slut, and that you don't want him to see you in that way anymore. stop hooking up with alot of guys, if you truly want to save your friendship. make sure he knows how much you value him and that he means way more to you than any stupid and pointless hookup with a random guy. just tell him how you feel, and don't feel stupid or regretful or say sorry for telling him your feelings because there is no reason to feel that way. you should feel proud that you went after something you wanted (: and as for liking him as more than a friend, make sure of what way you really want him, make sure you are 100% sure. and if you like him, tell him. if you don't then don't.
good luck :D
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so i went out with this guy, let's call him D. so i went out with him a while ago. i did some really bad stuff to him. [[i got some guys to call him and be like "ur girlfriend's a good kisser. etc]] so like. we still hang alot. but he's my ex. so like now. im going out with this guy, lets call him. JG. so. i broke up with him yesterday. becuase he was being a dickhead. so now im going out with another guy. lett's call him, J, i still like D. but like, he likes me as a friend. i wanna telll him i like him. but im not sure of what he's gonna do. how he's gonna react. i don't wanna mess up our friendship. i really don't. what do i do
like. what do i do about my ex. [[D]]
i really do like him. alot.
well since D is the one you really care about, first start showing that by not worrying about the other guys. break up with your boyfriend if you really don't care about him. this will show D that when you tell him how you feel that you mean it. if you really want him back, nothing is standing in your way of telling him. so tell him! make sure he knows you mean it and that you are not just kidding around. also let him know that its okay if he doesn't feel the same and that you can still be friends, because the only thing that really matters is that you still hang on to him, even if it is just being friends.
good luck :D
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ive been going out with this guy for awhile now and he just yesterday broke up with me out of no where and whats worse is he dosent really have a reason he says he still cares about me and has feeli for me but if he dosent break up with me now it will just be harder later i just dont understand and i dont know what to do do i try and win him back and make him realize we really had something or just move on and if i should move on please tell me how
tell him how you truly feel about him, tell him that you think he is making a mistake and that you still really care about him. let him know how you feel completely, don't hold anything back. don't feel stupid for doing this because it isn't stupid to tell someone the truth or go after what you want. don't regret doing it if he turns you down. if he does turn you down, move on. i know it'll be hard, but if he wants to make stupid choices and not take you back when he should, then he doesn't deserve you.
good luck :D
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ive had my best friend since kindergarden and weve always been really close but now that were in high school its kinda change and i know that friend change but some of the things that have happened are kinda ridiculous!
1.one of her ex's was cheating on her and i told her and at first she believed me and then she started believeing him and the other girl and turned it into that i was jealous and was just tryin to break them up and she told everyone this and that i was such a bad friend and then when she finally found out that i was really telling her the truth they broke up but she still told everyone that it was all my fault.
2.like two years ago she dated this guy on adn off for about 3 months and last summer he said he liked me but i didnt know if it would make her mad so i just never said anything to him until SHE told me that i should date him and stuff and he turned out to be really cool and stuff and he was my first love. we dated for like 7 months and then we broke up and a week later she started dating him and got mad at me when i told her that it bothered me.
3. we were at a sports thing and infront of everyone she and my ex were making out and just all over each other infront of everyone and my new bf and i were just talking about stuff and her mom heard that people were all over each other she asked my friend about it and she told her mom that me and my bf were the ones doin it and that it was really embarrassing for her bc she would never do that infront of people.
4.we went bowling and she was talking to these random guys that she didnt know and stuff and wanted to stay later then we had planned and told her mom and when we got home late she told her mom it was my fault because i was talking to a bunch of guys
everytime we do something she always has to turn me into the bad guy and make it seem like im a slut and i do all this bad sutff and i dont like people thinking im like that and stuff bc im really not. i dont know what to say to her and how to make her realize that shes doing this bc it just really makes me uncomfortbale.
also my ex would always so these things to me and play certain songs and stuff and most of the time she was there and i always told her what he said and stuff and now everything that he used to tell me and the way he used to look at me and just certain things we did has now all converted over to things he does to her and says and she always tells me these things and stuff and when im with them(already really uncomfortable) he says these things to her and looks at me with that evil grin. i dont know what to do!
oh my goodness. she is a sucky friend. i'm sorry but it pissed me off to read that! i use to have a friend that did all that, and we are no longer friends. i realized, we once had a lot of fun moments, but you can't save people unless they want to be saved. and apparently she doesn't, she just wants you to take the fall for everything. don't do it anymore, tell her she is a horrible friend and just uses you to bail her out of her troubles and that you are not going to do it anymore because you don't deserve it. and truly you do not deserve it, don't let stupid people and their stupid drama ruin how you feel about your life. sorry if this was rude =/
good luck :D
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