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please help me
ive been going out with this guy for awhile now and he just yesterday broke up with me out of no where and whats worse is he dosent really have a reason he says he still cares about me and has feeli for me but if he dosent break up with me now it will just be harder later i just dont understand and i dont know what to do do i try and win him back and make him realize we really had something or just move on and if i should move on please tell me how
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i think you deserve to know why this guy broke up with you, but i wouldnt keep asking him for the explanantion.
Maybe his feelings changed and he thought it wasn't working, im not really sure. Or since it was a long time, he may be one of those guys that are scared of commitment.Only he really knows why.
I think what u need to do now, as hard as it is, just have some space, and just try and be friends for the time being.
If you's were going out for a long time, i wouldnt want u's to lose friends over it.
It's up to you if you want to move on, but still be friends with this guy. I cant tell you what to do, as you know whats best for you.
In time, you never know, your boy may start to feel like he wants you back again, but dont wait around. :) Just take any oppurtunity, if it feels right. :)
Just take everything as it comes and follow your heart. :)
Hope this helped :)
good luck
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If he did that then that probably meant he had lost interest in you for some reason, but if he doesn't tell you why, means he's a jerk and not really worth obsessing over, let alone to be loved.
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tell him how you truly feel about him, tell him that you think he is making a mistake and that you still really care about him. let him know how you feel completely, don't hold anything back. don't feel stupid for doing this because it isn't stupid to tell someone the truth or go after what you want. don't regret doing it if he turns you down. if he does turn you down, move on. i know it'll be hard, but if he wants to make stupid choices and not take you back when he should, then he doesn't deserve you.
good luck :D
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