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At My Age.
I know because Im Fourteen Im not saposed to have sex, and I dont Im still 100% virgin but everyone seems to be doing it, and its weird because I stayed back and there all younger then me and not virgins.. when is the average of losing it and Ive been offered.. a couple times with some VERY hot guys but I said no which Im very proud of but because i keep saying now am I not interested in guys?
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That is something to be proud of! I suggest you keep it up :) You shouldnt have sex just because everyone else is doing it. I think you should wait until YOU are ready. Be sure to pick someone you love though. Don't be like everyone else. You will probably regret it later.
If you have sex with someone and later on you get in a serious relationship with someone you really love and they are a virgin, you will probably feel bad.
Just because you pass up a few hot guys, it doesnt meant there wont be any later.
Save it for when you really mean it!
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If you are a 14 y.o. virgin, that is great. Just keep in mind that no one can persuade your judgement and make you do what you don't want to without your consent. I'm 18 and still a virgin, I had be very self-controlling to remain this way. If a guy doesn't appreciate what you are, forget them and move on. There are plenty who appreciate a young lady who knows how to uphold themselves. Follow your own lead, forget everyone else if they don't respect you for that.
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Yeah, what the last person said. I'm 15 and I felt that I was 100% ready to do it with my long term boyfriend. Wait until you're ready and do not let ANYONE sway your decision.
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it seems that most teenagers start exploring with it around 14. but if i remember correctly, the average age to lose your virginity is 16.
i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and i waited a long time to do it with him. but in all honestly, i wish i had waited until i was 18. that's my only regret, but it's not a huge one.
my advice, wait until you have found someone who treats you well and that you've been with for a while. don't worry about anyone else doing it.
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i am the same way honey! i'm fifteen and a virgin and completely proud of it. the most a guy has done is fingered me and its perfectly okay that you haven't done anything. i actually feel better about myself because i haven't done really anything at all, because it doesn't matter what others do, you do whatever you are comfortable with. where i live, a lot of girls started doing it at 13, and i'm sorry i just think that is way too young, and i feel sorry for them. but others wait until they are 17. it just all depends on the girl, just do it whenever you are ready, it doesn't mean you are not interested it just means you have high morals.
good luck :D
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heck no....I am 15 just turned 15 infact and I said no to many of guy untill my 15th birthday and a few days short of my 4 month aniversary...
what i mean it i waited untill i was ready and it was with the guy i really loved thats all your doing...
dont worrie i did the same thing wondering if i lliked girls or guys but you could like both
most likly your mind is just waiting and you dont relize it ^_^ its ok
and dont have sex to find out if you like a guy or a girl do it when you ready and when it time for you
love always funsize
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When your friends make a mistake and get pregnant through their recklessness you'll know you made the right choice. You will have waited for the right person. You're not missing out by waiting as you've got the rest of your life to experience sex.
They're rushing in to it and will in the very end regret some of the decisions they made. Does this mean you're not interested in guys because you turned down sex a few times? The answer is no. You're just not interested in those guys but are interested in finding the right person.
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that does not mean you don't like guys it's just you know whats right and what's wrong and what you are doing is RIGHT. and whenever you feel ready to lose it then go ahead. its your body and no one can tell you how to control it
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Your virginity is the only thing that is completely yours and that nobody else can take. You would be better off is you didn't have sex at this age. You're a lot more unimmune to getting sexually transmitted dieases, and sex is not really worth it unless you're in love. I'm not virgin but I'm also 14. My boyfriend loves me and he waited for me. But still I think you should wait because if it happens too soon then you'll most likely regret it.
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It doesn't mean you aren't interested in guys. It means you must be using that melon-shaped object that rests upon your shoulders called a "head."
Good for you! You receive the GOLD STAR.
Yah, so everybody else is doing it. So? My momma always said if everybody else jumped off a bridge...
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