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Hey im sorry i picked a gay name its just i coudnt think of anything and im a really big Zelda fan so it was the first thing that came to my head...I love Playing my Alto Sax and Piano but saxophone more yeah i know im a music nut. I'm 16 years old.
I had alot of other stuff here but now i realize that it was just basically me bragging about being smart so i took it out i tried putting a pic of me in here but it takes to long to load so if u wanna see what i look like go to the url for myspace
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I'm doing some research on what teenage boys find attractive in girls, both in looks and personality for a creative writing paper. If anyone has any information for me, I would appreciate it. (link)
honestly i think personality is a little more important than looks like i would rather go out w/a cute gurl that has an awesome personality than a hott gurl as so to say that has a horrible snobby personality..hope i helped


I know that to stop drinking soda is good if you want to lose weight. But is it okay to drink diet coke? (link)
diet sodas are actually worse than normal sodas because artifical sweetners are extremly bad for your body...hope i helped


this is gonna be kinda long..sorry but me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month! and went out last year off and on for a while! but anyways..there was this girl that was suppose to be my "friend" over at my house the past 2 days! she has done nothing but bad mouth my boyfriend and say how he treats me like crap and i always have to tell her to stop and it got to the point we'd start screaming cause id get so mad! well then today she decides that she thinks its ok to sit there and send my boyfriend all these pics of her..and i would think if she was my friend she wouldnt! but i was upset and called my friend well she didnt answer..so she calls me back and was like whyd u sound upset and i told her because that girl was trying to send my bf her pic and i didnt like that! well i guess my "friend" that was here heard me and got all mad and started cussing at me like crazy! and telling me how she was leaving and how my bf treats me like crap and everything else! so we really got into it then and shes sitting there laughing going just wait im gonna mess up your relationship and make ur life miserable and lie and everything else! i told him about all this but the thing is im so scared that hes gonna believe her..i love him more then n e thing in this world and ive never felt like this before! and i wouldnt lie to him ever again ( ill admit i have in the past but i never would again) this girl is just sayin how shes goin to mess it up and have her friends say stuff to him when i know none of her friends cause they r all like 12-13 cause she got held back twice and i dont even go to the same school as her and im 16! my question is..what do i do about this? i dont wanna lose him and im so scared of it..does anybody have any idea on what i should do? i love him more then anything and i would never do n e thing to mess this up!! (link)
honestly ur friend dosent sound like a good friend..i think that if your b/f loves/likes you then he wouldnt let one of your friends mess up your relationship he probably likes you alot and wont listen to what your friend says..well if i was him i wouldnt listen to what your friend says


My boyfriend wants me to do more with him than just making out. I guess I'm kinda prude & clueless. What else is there to do besides having sex/oral? (link)
hand jobs and having him finger u that is all else so ya ok and he can feel you up but whatever


if your 16 and you slept with eight people is that slutty? my friend is 16 and she slept with like 8 people and i think thats pretty slutty because most of them she wasnt even going out with them..people call her a slut and she asked me sometimes if i think she is a slut but i dont want to tell her yeah your a slut cause i think thats rude. so whats your opinion on it? is she a slut or not? (link)
ya she is a slut hello she screwed 8 guys and she wasnt going out w/most of them come on....im sorry if im a little blunt or if it sounds mean but its late and im tired and i dont feel like buttering up my answers so they sound nice...


y do guys like sex so much? (link)
uk wut some guys might like sex alot..but gurls get all the benifits 4 the most part if they guy knows wut he is doing then the gurls prolly would end off orgasming...and when gurls orgasm they can last alot longer than guys can...tecinally for themost part if u dont give into pressure you have all the benifits in bed u choose when you have sex and you can for the most part feel better than the guys can


Please only answer this question if you have read the book!!!

I was wondering how many people liked the book(Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince) because i work at a bookstore and we have really been wondering what people think of the book!!!

thankees

(i rate high!!) (link)
dumbledore dies it sucks snape kills him...i hope only ppl who havent read the book read this b/c im mad about how dumbledore is killed i want to like complain to J.K rowling


What colour does it turn your hair if you have black hair? (link)
blonde


okay, im in love with the guitar.. i just learned to play it and im like obsessed with it! anyway do you guys know any places that i can get it for cheap? like.. 80 or under? (link)
if u were to buy a guitar for under 80 dollars i would give it a week be4 it is dead u need to spend at least 200 or so to get a good quality guitar


O.K., Im thinking about downloading AIM onto my computer, but Im afraid it will give me a virus. If I get a virus my parents will KILL me! Does anyone have it and can tell me whether its ever given you a virus or someone you know? Thanks! All my friends have it and they've never gotten viruses before, but I need to make sure. THANKS! (link)
no it has never given anyone i know a virus


I have to ask this question, out of pure and utter curiousity. Is Targets running somewhat of a scam? The Ipod Minis are on sale, well, they give you a $15 gift card with the purchase of the mini thats 4G, but every store is "SOLD OUT", and I find this HARDDDD to believe, due to the fact the sale just started, and every store is like "WE got a HUUUGE shipment yesterday, but they sold out". (link)
No it isnt a scam i know this b/c my brother and my brothers g/f work at target trust me when they have a sale on something like this ppl are like animals they fly in there and take them trust me it isnt a scam ppl just like things at a bargin so they get there quickly honestly if you want to take advantage of these sales get there when they open...


Ok, listen up, as most of you know this school year is just about over right exactly so in the beggining my grades was all coo, but then third quarter was horrible check this I had five f's man. So My step-father told me that he was 1oo percent postive that I wasn't graducating I'm in eighth grade. so I was like i am graduacting watch you'lll see and he was all pissed and shit he's not even my real father, i thought he was was but then he got a Dna to see u know so now like a week ago I got my report card it was not great but I had 4c's 1 b and 3 d's the school year isn't even over I have time to bring them up and he told my teacher yesterday at conference April 18, 2005 that he;s gonna flunk me because i had all year to bring my grades up but ok I'm not veryy very smart plus I go to a private school and its way harder then public school which i used to go to and get straight A's plus I'm a black gurl and i think the teachers are raciest but still he;s not my bibiliogal father he can't flunk me what should i do only one month of school left i want to tell him also that i don't want him to think that I'm his daughter, and I'm fourteen so also do you think I'm old enough to decide? Well anyways also I have been workin so hard when I was in the hole with f's teachers and my parents said i need to work garder when i did and proved to them i'm capable he gon go say I think you should repeat eighth grade and my mom didn't say anything just left it up to him to decide who is he to tell me i don't even live with Harold he is my moms boyfriend for like 14 years and I called him daddy because I was used to sayin it since I was little but now no I don't want to what should i do? I'm also gonna tell him cause forgett what he say i'm going on that stage
and when i do I'm tellin Harold since you doubted me all this school year don't come to my graduaction and also he be tellin his son my brother my mom had him that he's goona flunk me it bothers me so much because I have been working hard and because my mom doesn't say anything i'm just gonna work extra hard so my grade will be pasiing and not just adverage u know? I have been cryin so much do you know what it means to work hard have teachers personally help you and your parents say, '' alexis you need to really buckle down so you can graduate.'' And when i do this is what he says well if i pray and I really do want help in school and has been working hard then who knows My father meaning (Jesus) will work a miracle. Do you think my step father has the right to tell me if I can pass or not.

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Well in any school if ur parents dont want you to then they can make it so you dont pass a certain grade see what i am confused about is if harold is married to your mom then yes he does have jurisdiction over you but if he is just dating her then no he has no power over you but by the way you put it. it sounds like he is married to your mother honestly if you ask me i think your step father is just trying to scare you so you will do better on your report card i dont beleive he is being serious but then again there is the chance that he is a real asshole and he is being serious... you know what talk to your mom and harold about this tell them this is the best you can do ok..... i hope it works out


My friend's b-day party is on Saturday. I also have a very important softball practice that same day. They are both at the same time. I (link)
Go to the b-day party tell me what is more important to you your softball or your friendship trust me go to the party i dont think your coach will care if you miss just one softball practice... hope i helped :-)


my best friend is pregnet. i dont know what to do. i know she wants to keep it but she hasnt even told her boyfriend and she wasnt going to tell me but i found the strip in her room. I'm afraid that she wont be able to handle it and that her parents will be mad if they find out I've known this girl since i was 7 and were 14 now and she is so young that her parents would probly just kick her out. i dont want this to happen to her and i dont know if i should tell anyone she's not ready to have a baby at all and she cant get enough courige to go tell somebody about it so now im realy worried about what will happen if she doesnt tell. should i just go ahead and tell ppl and make things easy or should i just let her do it her way? (link)
Ok well first her parents cant kick her out it would be against the law b/c she isnt 18 or older... honestly i think you should talk to her about this and convince her to tell her parents and her b/f and after trying to convince her she still refuses then tell her parents for her b/c she really needs to talk to her parents about this..... hope everything works out


Let me start off by say, I have a boyfriend. Have been with him for 7 months and it's been.. hard. It's hard to express my feelings. I get all wordless and unable to think. It's really hard to write this because I don't understand myself anymore. Another guy in my life is Jacob. I don't like him, but he likes me. He tells me he likes me and then goes off getting mad at me. He's called me so many things.. bastard, bi***.. everything. I get hurt so easily. Sometimes I want to run away and never come back. I've been wanting to leave my b/f for a while.. I just don't understand my feelings.. I need a guy's outlook.. please help (link)
I cant understand why you cant express your feelings for your b/f. but what i dont understand is if this other kid supposedly likes you then why does he say stuff like that.....
ok well if you really truly want to leave your b/f as in you dont have feelings for him i would suggest that you do because if you dont have feelings for him then you shouldnt be in a relationship....As for the other kid jacob the next time he says anything like that to you again i would say you should just hit him b/c he cant hit you back and after a while he woul shut up... im sorry i cant help more but this is the best i can do


everyone keeps tellin me i don't need to lose weight but i still feel i need to. does anyone know of someway to find average weight for height? (link)
go to www.am-i-fat.com and click am i fat and enter your height and your weight and it will tell u everything you need to know... please rate im begging you i havent had ratings in soo long and i dont like when ppl ask me to rate them but please rate


i have two HUGE hickies on my neck..does anyone know a way to make them go away faster..my mom CANT see them!
thanx =] (link)
There is really nothing you can do for hickeys b/c they are basically bruises all i can suggest is you try to cover them up with makeup..


okay so my ex-boyfriend cheated on me, but i still love him and i wana talk to him again cuz its hard to jus forget bout him. and this new boy that im feelin, i feel like hes just using me. he says he loves me though. what should i do? (link)
i wouldnt talk to him he cheated on you once hewill do it again if he betrayed ur trust once he will do it yet again.


So this one boy tells me that he loves me. And I don't love him. But he really seems to mean it. How do I respond to that statement if I don't love him back and I don't wanna lie? (link)
just be blunt and say i dont love you sorry thats all you have to do but dont sound mean when you do it say it nice dont say it angry.


ok, well i'm an 8th grade girl and i really like this 7th grade guy, and he asked me out and i said yes, but i'm wondering if that's weird or not.. idk, i'm just confused, please help me!
~mandy (link)
how the hell is that weird he is only a year younger than you if ur friends or anyone u know says it is weird then punch them in the face because they are retarded




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