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I really would like to make more guy friends. Guys talk to me and stuff, but how do I develop a friendship with them? I'll give all 5's. Thanks

ok well im not really sure how to answer this question, cause all my frends except for like..6 are guys. haha
but ill try!
ok well .. if you already have guy friends then try hangin out with them. like get some of you girl friends and some of your guys friends and plan to all do something together.
then theyll have fun and invite YOU to more things and youll meet their friends.
thats basically what happend to me i guess?
but yea.
also DONT act all girly and be like "ohhh em gee..i so broke a nail just now!" haha i know no one says that..i hope...but trust me guys dont care. so just be normal and not as girly if you are already!
but me..im not like girly at all so thats why they like hangin out with me i guess? thats what they said at least. :]
so yea..try doin something like that!
or..also what me and my friend do is we go up to random guys our age and just..say random stuff & talk to them. its seemed to work! haha so yea. try stuff like that.
good luck!
and i hope i helped a little..?

michelle

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So baiscly I was told flat out never in a million years would my crush ever go out with me. I'm really upset; and now that he knows I like him he treats me like a little baby. I wanna move on and like another guy, and I want to get back at him, but part of me still likes him.
What should i do?

yea that kiiinnddaa happend to me too.
sept my person WOULD go out with me he just chose a skank. :]
anyways.
tell everyone including him your over it.
and that your over everything and him.
and that you dont like anymore.
trust me he'll stop treating you like "a baby" or however he treats you.
when the person i liked knew..and we hung out..it was kinda awkward and stuff but once i told everyone i was over it everything was back to normal.
just remember that he doesnt deserve YOU.
you can do much better then him..and its his loss, not yours.
of corse some of you is still going to like him. you can just flat out stop liking someone.
but try what i said and then find someone else who would treat you better then that.
just start hangin out with more guys.
good luck hun. and sorry about what happend! i know it hurts. :[

michelle

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I am 13 and have never had a bf. All of my friends laugh at me behind my back. I found this out after we had a school dance a couple of nights ago. I danced with this one senior who is kind of on the geeky side, but he's a really nice guy. He's also the only guy who asked me to dance, all the guys in my class don't really like me. Well I found out from one of my nicer friends that all these girls that I thought were my friends were laughing at me at the dance and saying that Lee (the guy I danced with ) was the only guy I could get. They were also laughing and saying what a geek I was for never having a bf.
I was really hurt and felt like crying. Since when is it a crime to have never had a bf? I know girls a lot older than me that arent dating.
What should I do?

aww your friends are BITCHS!
no offence.
but that is mest up.
theyre obviously not your frends if they do that kinda stuff.
theres nuthing rong with you not having a b/f.
absolutly nuthing.
so dont let them bring you down for that.
your only 13!
trust me. you still have aalloott of time to have a b/f. dont worry about it!
but what i think is that you should confront them.
and basically theyre not your frend if they do that to you.
so start hanging out with your nicer frend more and make new frends! but yea.. try and confront them. and if you like that guy..dont miss your chance with him just cause your friends are being dumb. :]
good luck hun!

michelle

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Hey ok i know this is very steryotypical but i am i emo girl and mah frinds say im a goth and i try to tell them goth and emo are totally differnt.... arent they... could u give me the differnt of the two or like a deffinition of each???? thanks!!

yeeaa theres a BIG differnce.
but i hate when people say "im emo"
no offence.
cause if you think about it..
it makes you sound like one of those preppy people who are trying to be cool and turn "emo"
nooww dont get all mad im just saying my opinion.
and i have nuthing against preppy people or yourself.
just telling you how me and also my friends see it. :]

anyways..
heres basically the best deffinitions of both..

emo= http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=emo

goth= http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=goth

hope that helps.

michelle

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hey, i was wondering if there was anywhere you could get that bare mineral makeup, or something like it for relatively cheap. i went to sephora.com and it was wiked expensive.
thanks

i got my begginers box thing for 60$s.
the only thing you need to keep buying is basically the foundation stuff.
i still have my warmth&mineral veil from when i first got it! and i got it last year. :]
so yea.
i just went to a locall beauty supply store in my town.
maybe you can go to one (if theres one in your town) and ask if they have it.
if they dont ask if they know where you can get it!
you can always go to their site

http://www.bareminerals.com

or order it from tv.
well good luck!
and i hope i helped a little. :]

michelle

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What does it mean "to make woopie"

I was reading a poem my mom wrote after her baby shower. Is this some old expression about sex?

to make woopie means to make love.
or have sex. lol
hope that helps! :]

michelle

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My mom is making me get braces soon and i think i have a choice of colors. What color would you pick and why?

Thanks

basically what me and my friends did was go with the holidays that were coming for each month.
hah. i was in like 6th-7th grade though so thats why. its pritty lame but it works so your not sitting there for like..5 years trying to think of a color.

but mainly i got pink alot. and baby blue. umm. what else...idk my orthodontist had a bunch of diff. colors so i just picked one that i felt like wearing that month. so yea. just pick what you feel like wearing!

but mainly i picked pink and baby blue. :]

michelle

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I know this is really stupid...but some people have been saying things like "PWNED NOOB." or "I PWN U." What does that mean exactly? Especially the word Pwn?

I'll rate and thanks.

"pwned" is basically the new way to say "owned"
and noob means new. or new person.

idk who came up with it but i think its annoying. haha. anywho..

pwn=own
pwned=owned.

:]

hope that helps!

michelle

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My cat is in heat...what can I do to stop her from bleeding/cuming...or being in heta for less time?

well i know for sure you cant stop it. or make it shorter.
so basically just let her do what she needs to.
what we did when our cat was in heat was put her in the bathroom with a big cat bed with a bunch of towels and stuff.
so try that.
try keeping her in one location so she doesnt get anything everywhere!
also get her spayed. like..soon.
unless you guys wernt going to. then your gunna have to deal with that all the time!
but yea get her spayed. itll be much easyer on everyone!
good luck. :]

michelle

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hello fellow advicenators :]

i haev a lyric question. ive noticed in a lot of aim profiles and aim icons, a saying. and the saying is: "There's beauty in teh break-down"

and i realllyyy need to know what song that is from! If anyone can tell me the title & the artist ill be SO happy! will rate!

its called "let go" by frou frou.

and also they could have gotten it from a band called the scene aesthetic but i doubt it cause theyre not very big yet. :] but i love them!

hope i helped!

michelle

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I need to know what this song is: It's like California themed, lyrics go like "California, California, it's such a wonder that I think I'll stay in bed...so much to plunder that I think I'll sleep instead"...
Please help, I hate having unidentified songs on my playlist!

its called "california" and its by rufus wainwright. :]

michelle

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who sings it and what this song called?
it goes someting like...

"when im down i want you about me"
"when im forgotten i want you to love me"
"when i think about you i touch myself"

THANKS IN ADVANCE.

its called "i touch myself" and its by eve 6.
:]

michelle

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anyone know who sings this song???

goes something like this........


....these are the moments these are the times...let's make the best out of our lives....

that would be great! thanks!

its by the calling and its called "our lives".

:]

michelle

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what does it mean when you hold up your pinky.

as like an insult?

its basically what the middle finger means but in chinese. :]

michelle

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hey! okay, i'm 15/f and i'm allowed to get my belly button pierced after our last cheerleading competition, which is around march 13. but, we are going to mexico for spring break on march 24, and i don't know if i should get it done before spring break or not. i want it when i'm laying on the beach and stuff but will the water in mexico and all the chlorine be bad for it? i don't know if i should get it done before or after mexico. any ideas? any info on belly button piercing would be great too!

um i just read someones answer and they said there will be bruising..
well dont worry there wont be any.
i got mine done.
but i deffinatly dont think you should get it before you go.
itll be sore and if your doing all that fun stuff itll just irritate it and itll take longer to heal and might even get infected.
so just wait!
good luck. :]

michelle

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Okay I was wondering if you could show me a link to this music video by "The starting line" Called "Bedroom talk"
I know they have a video, I just cant seem to find it anywhere.

Thanks
♥ Your super pretty by the way

aw thanks hun. :]

and yep here it is!

http://videocodes4u.com/song.php?file=44357

heres another one..

http://www.videocodezone.com/videos/t/the_starting_line/bedroom_talk.html

hope thats what you meant! lol

& i love them..and that song. :]

michelle

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Are there any ways to pierce your own bellybutton without it getting infected?

nooo dont do it.
i deeeffiinatly dont recomend it. AT ALL.
ive tryed before.
but then got it profesinally done and im glad i did.
so yea. get it proffesinally done mine only costed 40$s.
dont do it yourself!
it wont be as acurate either if you do it urself!
good luck. :]

michelle

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Mmkay.. I heard this song over the summer that would be perfect for my jazz routine. But the problem is, I don't know the name of it or who sings it. It's something like "..Girls, rock your boys.."? or something like that. Sorry to be so vague! It sounded like an 80s song or something.
Anyone who can give me the name / artist will earn a 5. :)

well oasis and quiet riot sing it.

and its called cum on feel the noize.

and they dont sing it together. they sing it as seperate bands.

but yea heres the lyrics..

Come on feel the noise
Girls rock your boys
We'll get wild, wild, wild,
Wild, wild, wild

So you think I got an evil mind, I'll tell you honey
I don't know why
I don't know why

So you think my singing's out of time, it makes me money
I don't know why
I don't know why anymore
Oh no

[Chorus]:
So come on feel the noise
Girls rock your boys
We'll get wild, wild, wild,
Wild, wild, wild,
Come on feel the noise
Girls rock your boys
We'll get wild, wild, wild,
Until dawn

So you say I got a funny face, I got no worries
And I don't know why
I don't know why

So I'm a scruff bag well it's no disgrace, I'm in no hurry
And I don't know why
I don't know why anymore
Oh no

[Chorus]

Well you think we are the lazy type, you should know better
And I don't know why
I don't know why

So you say I got a dirty mind, I'm a mean go getter
I don't know why
I don't know why anymore
Oh no

Come on feel the noise
Girls rock your boys
We get wild, wild, wild,
Wild, wild, wild...

michelle

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hey you said you love music so i thought you might be able to help me out. im looking for 50 cent lyics to "bestfriends" but the remake of it with Olivia. thanks!

hii. heres the lyrics. :]

-Yeah! It's my tape man, listen to my tape
WOO!!!

I've waited I've waited
Time went by
All I did was cry
Sillyyyyy

[Chorus]
If I was your best friend, I want you 'round all the time
(I want you 'round me all the time)
Can I be your best friend, if you promise you'll be mine
(Girl promise you'll be mine)
Please say he's just a friend (Uh huh)
now girl let's not pretend (Come on)
Either he is or he ain't your man (Ha Ha!)
please say he's just a friend
If I was your best friend,
I want you 'round all the time
(I want you 'round me all the time)
Can I be your best friend,
if you promise you'll be mine
(Girl promise you'll be mine)
Please say he's just a friend (Uh huh)
now girl let's not pretend (Come on)
Either he is or he ain't your man (Ha Ha!)
please say he's just a friend
If I was your best friend

[Verse 1]
First we get the talkin, then we get the touchin
If we get pass the phone games we'll be fuckin
I kiss like the french therefore my tongue in your ear
Do it like the dogs do it girl and pull on your hair
For me a different scenery just mean a different position
In the tub or on the sink I improvise now listen
In the chopper or on the jet join the mile high club
I'm no fool I know money can't buy me love

[Olivia]
You said that I could call you whenever
I needed some one to listen to me
That's why
I'm here standing by your side cause your always come thru for me
So many others tried to be were you are but they just wanted to do me
But you took your time and now
I'm satisfied that's why I want you all to me
Cause if you were my best friend id want you round all the time
Can I be your best friend I promise boy you'll be mine
I said he's just a friend baby its not pretend either
he is or he aint my man
I said he's just a friend

[Chorus]
If I was your best friend,
I want you 'round all the time
(I want you 'round me all the time)
Can I be your best friend,
if you promise you'll be mine
(Girl promise you'll be mine)
Please say he's just a friend (Uh huh)
now girl let's not pretend (Come on)
Either he is or he ain't your man (Ha Ha!)
please say he's just a friend
If I was your best friend,
I want you 'round all the time
(I want you 'round me all the time)
Can I be your best friend,
if you promise you'll be mine
(Girl promise you'll be mine)
Please say he's just a friend (Uh huh)
now girl let's not pretend (Come on)
Either he is or he ain't your man (Ha Ha!)
please say he's just a friend
If I was your best friend

[Verse 2]
While you in your bubble bath I'll come wash on your back
When you puttin on your lotion I can help you with that
I sit and think of things to say that may make you smile
Or give you gifts from my heart to reflect my style
Or slang I use when we build may change how you talk
And if I'm focused while I'm strokin I could change how you walk
There's a swagger that you calm but when you come from New York
I'm a hustler I just hustle in the things that I bought
Separate Cmon

[Olivia]
Im not affraid you explore my body
Oo give me that feeling now we can watch some tv
Or play a cd mabye that sexual healing
You try to sing to me but your never on the key
But u do it just to appese me
Id rather spend my time wasting time with you
You ooooh you make it so easy
Cause if you were my best friend id want U round all the time
Can I be your best friend I promise boy you'll be mine
I said he's just a friend baby its not pretend either
he is or he aint my man
I said he's just a friend

We been better then friends
For a long time
Aint no need to pretend
You'll always be mine

We been better then friends
For a long time
Aint no fibbing or faking
You'll always be mine

[Chorus]
If I was your best friend,
I want you 'round all the time
(I want you 'round me all the time)
Can I be your best friend,
if you promise you'll be mine
(Girl promise you'll be mine)
Please say he's just a friend (Uh huh)
now girl let's not pretend (Come on)
Either he is or he ain't your man (Ha Ha!)
please say he's just a friend
If I was your best friend,
I want you 'round all the time
(I want you 'round all the time)
Can I be your best friend,
if you promise you'll be mine
(Girl promise you'll be mine)
Please say he's just a friend (Uh huh)
now girl let's not pretedn (Come on)
Either he is or he ain't your man (Ha Ha!)
please say he's just a friend
If I was your best friend

(Chorus x4)-

michelle

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do guys like if a girl has her belly botton peirced? why or why not

im not a guy but when i got mine peirced all my guy friends said "omg thats so fuckin hott!"
haha so yea im deffinatly assuming guys like it.
but some guys might not it just depends on a person.
but if your only gunna get it to impress guys dont do it. never do nething to impress someone!
be yourself. :]

but yea hope i helped a little!

michelle

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