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Ok so i just called my boyfriend, and all of the sudden it feels like i cant even connect with him anymore. (I'm 13 and hes 16) I called him and asked if he was going to the football game Friday nite, and he said probably not. I was trying to hint to him that I was going and that I wanted to see him, but he would'nt really talk. so i lied and told him I needed to do my homework so I could get off the phone w/ him. What do you think we should talk about? (link)
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Well, try not events necessarily but things that interest you. I've gone on for hours about politics and I will tell you right now that if you even keep slightly updated on politics you can go on for hours. But interests are like music (bands you like, songs you like, lyrics you just love to hear, etc.), movies (favorite movies, actors, actresses, etc.), or even some issues that matter something to you (your friend got harassed by a guy, how lame it is to call people bitches and sluts, how full of labels today's world is, etc.). I'm sure there can be something that interests you. Now I am a debator so I could go on forever with topics that matter something. For instance, did you know that a law was passed that prevent schools from saying the pledge of alligiance, but no one really enforces it. I could go on and on.
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ok, i really think i love this girl, but i kinda asked her out last night, and i talked to her, but she doesnt trust me, she thinks that im the kind of guy who will just go out with someone til the next girl who comes around, and really thats far from the truth, but i have no idea how to prove to this girl that i am not lying and i never would especally to her, and that i would devote all my time and effort toward her well-being? (link)
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Well, sometimes girls don't want words. She may not trust you now, but hey you are supposed to earn it. Patience my dear friend, patience. You will earn her respect and trust in time. You just have to prove you are trusting. If you don't do anything stupid like lie to her then she'll learn to trust you. But every girl has some emotional barrier. She obviously doesn't want to get left. Now its your duty to not be another guy that leaves. So go for it...and I hope it pays off.
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theres this boy and he liked me last year and asked me out.i told him i was taken but i would still like to talk to him.i broke up with my boyfriend over the summer and he knew about it.then he agian asked to go with me.i told him that i see him more s a friend.now is the new school year and my friend Diane thinks this boy is kinda ugly.i dint think he's ugly and neither do my friend Brittany.now i kinda like him and he's is still trying to go with me.even though looks arent important to me at all i dont want my friend Diane saying shit about him or me. should i just forget her and go for it or do you think a friends opinion is important (link)
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Okay, I've learned something...I went with one of my boyfriends because my friend said that we'd look cute together. I ended up dumping him 3 days later because I just didn't mesh with him. Now in matters of the heart, friends opinions do not matter. Now you friend only commented on his looks and as you stated looks don't matter. If he's a great guy, then she'll warm up to him, besides you're the one who has to date him. You better like him. So I say go for it, otherwise you could later regret missing an opportunity.
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can you get a disease by kissing aand making out like only makeing out witht he tounge and nothing else? (link)
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I believe colds, cold sores, herpes if they have it in their mouth, and I also think mono. You might want to ask about mono more, I'm not sure what it really is. All I know is its famous as "the kissing disease." And bacterial infections like sore throats. Oh! If you are worried about STD's well you can't get HIV unless you exchange like a quart of spit, now that's a lot of spit.
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I grew up in a christian home. I'm almost 18 and still everything in my life is God this God that. I believe in him but that doesn't make my problems go away. I'm always crying, have the blues, feel alone, feel anger, sad, somedays I just don't feel like doing anything but lay around. But everytime I try to show to my parents that I have a problem I get God shoved in my face. Sometimes I just want to run away from home...but I know that won't solve anything. What should I do? If I stick around home anylonger I'm afraid that I'll do something to myself again. (link)
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You need to talk to someone outside of your home for awhile. I suggest friends but if they just won't listen I have MSN messenger and you can add me lindsey@cpaz.net. I'd love to listen and I won't shove God in your face. As for the parents, tell them that you do believe in God but that you would like some help from parents right now. You are a human being and do need help from other human beings once in awhile. Tell them how you feel and if they won't listen keep talking. If you yell loud enough they'll listen.
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hey or the past couple days my voice has kind of been like cracking, but i am a girl. and my throat doesnt really hurt or anything, and i havent been screaming or shrieking a whole lot. any ideas what it is? or is it just normal? thanks!
~*jaimee*~ (link)
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Soda can do this to your voice. Sugar products and also dairy products will do this to your voice. Mucus will be in the back of your throat from the dairy products which can do this. But mostly I'm guessing soda. Some water with lemon should help.
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my boyfriend's friend keeps hitting on me even tho he know im in a relationship with his close friend. the other day we were at this party and he pulled me up to this room and he raped me. he grabbed me and touched my body. im really scared and he hurt me. i feel strange. i couldnt do anything hes a football player and he held me down and i couldnt stop him. he shove something in my mouth so i couldnt scream. wut do i do?? i cant tell my boyfriend or he will kick the living shit out of him.the guy said if i tell anyone he will do it again. i know i can get some reasonable advice here.
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Tell people. The more you get involved with this the less likely he is to do it again. For one the more people that know the more people can help stop it if it happens again. Tell your boyfriend. I'm sure once he knows he will keep you away from him. Get the police involved. This is your body and he has violated it. He can go to jail honey. He has done terrible things and he used a scare tactic to keep him from trouble. But the fact remains he won't be able to do it again if people are there to stand between him and you. I went through some of your same situation only it was my step-brothers. By telling my mom what happened we got them out of the house and a restraining order put on them. I haven't seen them since. They too threatened me. But they are always empty threats.
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i have this rly good friend. but now....shes different?? she always blackmails me. 'if you dont tell me this i'll tell everyone ....' and now shes like best friends with my worst enemy!! she always talks about my enemy behind her back even though shes friends with her. and i have a feeling she talks behind my back too. i dont really wanna loose a friend, but if i talk to her about it she woould just make up excuses or say something rude. 'oh? so what i blackmail u? at least im not ___ like u' shes also a spoiled brat! she wanted an ipod , a laptop, a flat screen tv, and she got it all. and she tells me every single day 'did you know i own 6 other houses?'
what should i do? (link)
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This is what I call a toxic friend. You don't want to lose them because that creates tension. What you want to do is kind of keep it at an acquaintance level. You will still talk to her but you won't confide in her. Just normal friendly conversations should do it. And don't worry about her bragging, she'll get a dose of reality eventually that tells her people don't like people who brag. But I would serious try avoid talking to her for awhile until you can stop necessarily being "friends" with her, but more of on an okay level. I hope I helped.
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I'm going on vacation in a few days and I need some good music to put on my mp3 player. I listen to pop and rock music. Does anyone know some good songs? Thanks (link)
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Green Day! They are awesome. So is Switchfoot. But Green Day's Boulevard of Broken Dreams is a must have. I also suggest Howie Day's Collide. And Maroon 5. Every girl must know "She will be loved" and they will also know "This love". So I hope that helped. Please rate.
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My friend, Allie, is my best friend..lol. but we once went on a field trip and we had to sit in an audatorium and she held out her hand as if we were to hold hands. :[ I dunno if she's a lezbian or not! She has had a boyfriend and she's dating this guy named Matt G. and its all weird. Cuz in chorus, we sing a song and we stand next to each other and the one part in the song says "come put your hand in mine, let's make the whole world shine" and she holds out her hand in front of me!!! (i kno its a retarded song) So..Does anyone think she's a lezbian? or am i wrong? (link)
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Hold on! She is not a lesbian just for hand-holding. Some girls are just affectionate and are not creeped out by touching the same sex. I'm sure she's just trying to be friendly. I do that sort of thing with my friends all the time. I even kiss them. I'm not a lesbian. The fact she has a b/f is clear proof that she is attracted to the opposite sex. You can be friendly with the same sex without having an actual attraction for them. Just talk to her about it. Don't make any assumptions, just tell her how you feel.
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I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!i am in love w/ this guy named Travis...we have been "Friends With Benefits" 4 quite a while now...he knows that i luv him...We say "I Love U" EVERYTIME that we r on the fone together...he treats me like a PRINCESS...last nite he told me that i was like a sister 2 him.....i was CRUSHED....i cried myself 2 sleep.....he is my EVERYTHING!!!!!....i dunno what 2 do....i feel like giving up on EVERYTHING...including life....I NEED ANYBODIES HELP!!!!!!
*~*~*~*Emmy*~*~*~* (link)
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For starters, love is not as possessive as what you are feeling. That is infatuation. And if you can't even say I love you seriously to each other, then the relationship isn't that deep. And love is where you'll sacrifice everything for their happiness, even if it won't be with you. So quit thinking you are in love when it is no more that a deep infatuation. Tons of girls think they are in love when they aren't. Take it from a girl in love and when you really are in love, just seeing a smile on their face makes you happy. You tend not to care so much about being with them. And you'll get over this, it's just this teenage phase you are going through that makes you think everything is soooooooooo dramatic and deep, when it's not.
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is it possibl for a person to not like someon anymore, but not be over him (if that makes sense!). because that's what i think is happening 2 me. i liked this guy A LOT for A LONG TIME, but the thing is that he was a jerk about it (i'd tell the details for u 2 understand it better, but it would be soooo long...) . anyway, i don't think i like him any more (no more butterflies in my stomach, no more going out of my way just to see him go to his next class, no more of his name on my notebook, etc.) . but the thing is that EVERYONE knew about it (even my english teacher!) and whenever i get into a convo w/ anyone, they always bring him up, and i can't 4get about him...that is, nobody will LET me. i still think about him occasionally, but not in the same way, so i don't think i like him. but i still think about him, and i haven't 4gotten the feelings i had 4 him. is it possible that i don't like him, but can't quite get over him? or do u think that i still like him? whatver it is, how do i 4get about him? i rate 5's 4 ne1 who helps! (link)
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It's perfectly normal to feel that way. When someone has a strong attraction for someone there's kind of this mental bond. The bond really doesn't go away for a long time. And when people talk about it the bond gets triggered. I hope this it making sense. You still might like him, but I think you like the image of him rather than him. I hope I helped.
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Hey, you know Nelson Hardy right? Well he really likes me, and it's sad, because I really don't like him that way, he's sweet and all, but I just wouldn't ever go out with him. I know I should tell him, but I just can't get the guts. I went to a dance once with Amanda, and he asked me to dance. He's like, "I'm glad you said yes, cuz if you would have said no, I might not have ever asked anyone again." I felt so bad, now I'm afraid that if he asks me out and I say no, his self confidence will run even lower. What do I do? (link)
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People have to learn to accept rejection. He must come face-to-face with it as well. It's a part of life. He needs to find out. But you can help by doing it gently. People shouldn't be as hurt if you are truthful with them. Tell him exactly how you feel, he should understand.
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Ok me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now and he wants to have sex and I do too but there is just one problem I have a disease and I don’t know if I should tell him or not because I don’t want him too to think of me different but we are going to use protection and everything just I don’t want to tell him! And I am sooooo scared! I don’t know about what maybe about him knowing my deepest darkest secret, I don’t know! Please help me! (link)
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You should tell him. Condoms break. He has a right to know what could happen to his body. And if he thinks of you differently then you really need to reconsider the relationship. If you two are close enough to have sex then I think telling him about your health wouldn't ruin your relationship.
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Dear Advicenators,
At my workplace, several colleagues and I have an awkward situation that has developed between us and our boss. It has gotten so bad recently that it has begun to affect the quality of our work and how we interact with her.
On several occasions in the winter months, she has come into the office directly from the outdoors and started an informal meeting, many times without even putting down her coat or bag. The problem is that there is typically a great deal of condensation and mucus that has decended onto her upper lip and into her mouth. She doesn't notice it, but it makes it impossible for her employees to listen to her.
In addition, she has terrible halitosis. It is so bad that when her employees are talking with her, they can not concentrate on what she saying. As a result, they make mistakes in the areas that were covered in their conversations.
What can be done? Any kind of intervention might result in us getting fired.
What do you suggest?
Sincerely,
Grossed out in Gotham (link)
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She is a woman. We all look out for each other. Tell her, subtley. You also offer gum or breath mints often. Offer tissues. She wants to stay looking professional so once you tell her she has mucus problems or what-not she'll straighten herself up.
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ok in my english class I have to write a paper on a assigned topic. My topic is abortions. I need opinions and any information that is good and bad about abortions. Please I need help on this. I have my own opinion but I need more than just what I think. (link)
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I am for abortion. Sure it's killing but nobody's stopping euthenasia. Or the death penalty, so suck it up whiners. And the birth control pill has a 2% chance of failure. Why should people be forced to have the baby that they took the precautions for. And mother's die when giving birth. Why should people have to put their lives at risk just because of a baby. And financial difficulty. Adoption costs money. Giving birth costs money. Abortion is more cost efficient than all of the ways that people bring up instead of having one. And if everyone keeps saying it's murder, it's murder. I ask them, what are you doing about the genecide in Rowanda? That's murder and you aren't doing anything about it. The whole US isn't.
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I really really like this guy! My friend is going out with him though and i dont think she knows that i like him! But they are really cute togher and i dont want to make her mad! He is a good friend of mine to! So it's hard to tell eaither of them because i dont know what's going on with them!! what should i do? (link)
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I'm in your exact position. And I told the guy and my best friend now knows. And we're all ok. I'm slowly moving on, but at least now they try not to flaunt it sooo much in front of me. I don't feel bad and they are my friends so they understand me. I'd tell them. It wouldn't hurt, and they are your friends. They like knowing what's bugging you. I hope I helped. Rate me.
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lo siento, tengo ir a mirar una pelicula con mi hermana muy hermosa y simpatica (link)
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I feel it, I must go to watch one pelicula with my very beautiful and simpatica sister
I got that off of the google translator.
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One of my best guy friends who calls me all the time (like literally every 2 minutes) well my best friend told me that he likes me but i didnt believe her and then he told me he did and i just thought of him as my friend so i was like no and then he got a girl friend and it hurt me and i think i'm just in denial cuz i do have feelings for him. Do y'all think I have feelings for him? (link)
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Yes, I do! Isn't it funny how we don't realize our feelings until something unexpected happens. I wouldn't blame you though. Most girls do fall for their best friends, and they tend to find out when they least expect it. Well good luck, and don't try anything now that he has a g/f. He'll probably break up with her sooner or later, then that's your chance.
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ok, i'm pretty bored right now and I think it will cheer everyone up if we could here a few jokes. So, what's the funniest joke you ever heard?Also what are some sites besides the obvious such as jokes.com. I want a site I never heard of. (link)
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Why do tampons have strings?
So you can floss after you eat.
I hope your humor is R-rated.
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