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i have this rly good friend. but now....shes different?? she always blackmails me. 'if you dont tell me this i'll tell everyone ....' and now shes like best friends with my worst enemy!! she always talks about my enemy behind her back even though shes friends with her. and i have a feeling she talks behind my back too. i dont really wanna loose a friend, but if i talk to her about it she woould just make up excuses or say something rude. 'oh? so what i blackmail u? at least im not ___ like u' shes also a spoiled brat! she wanted an ipod , a laptop, a flat screen tv, and she got it all. and she tells me every single day 'did you know i own 6 other houses?'
what should i do?
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Wow you have no idea how many stories i've heard about these things happening, Well I know you dont want to loose a friend but think about it, what kind of friend is she!? I mean she really has some attitude problems to work out, Maybe one of the reasons she acts like this is because she is spoiled and she's used to always getting what she wants and used to having the world revolve around her, If I were you I'd just stop being her friend and stop talking to her and one day she will regret not being friends with you and leaving you for some other weirdo that you hate, ok I hope i helped!
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This is what I call a toxic friend. You don't want to lose them because that creates tension. What you want to do is kind of keep it at an acquaintance level. You will still talk to her but you won't confide in her. Just normal friendly conversations should do it. And don't worry about her bragging, she'll get a dose of reality eventually that tells her people don't like people who brag. But I would serious try avoid talking to her for awhile until you can stop necessarily being "friends" with her, but more of on an okay level. I hope I helped.
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some friend! i know you dont wanna lose a friend but trust me, you wont be losing a real friend! just stop hanging around her and keep your distance..if she changes back then thats great and yall can pick up where you left off! but if she keeps doing what shes doing (blackmailing, and talking behind peoples backs) then every1 will realize who she really is and NO1 will want to hang out with her! and dont feel bad about ditching her..shes no good and there are tons of better people at your school! hope i helped and good luck &hearts
thanks for asking me
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