Hey, I had my belly button pierced, and it was pierced with a customary ring. Its just a plain ring held together by a ball. The ball wont twist off, and I have no idea how to get it out to change it. Thank you.
Hey
same thing happened to me. just go back to the place that pierced it for you & they'll get it off.
♥ maria ♥
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ok so i ahve a lot of zits and pimples on my face and i dont no at i should do i have already tried proactiv and alot of other stuuf wat should i do
Hey
Go to http://www.acne.org/messageboard/
There's so much infomation in those message boards.
I suggest you skip through all the posts.
♥ maria ♥
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My boyfriend has fingered me alot of times before..too many to count. And we have also had sex before and i have never bled but last night he fingered me and there was blood everywhere. oh his hand, my underwear and even today i can't stop bleeding. everytime i go to the bathroom there's blood. i'm supposed to get my period tomorrow which would mean 2 days form the day he fingered me, so do you think it's just my period?
Hey
don't worry about it. Your period just came early.
♥ maria ♥
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So, i've been going through some crap. i'm a freshman, and at the beginning of the year i was in a show where i met a bunch of seniors and juniors and sophomores and other freshman and became friends with them. one of them i immediately had a crush on and his name was david, and he's a senior. he's had a girlfriend for almost a year now, but the girlfriend is a sophomore and she is SO oblivious to what is going on around her and she has no social life and she studies all the time, and she's not a very sexual person at all though her boyfriend is. so by the time the show ended, we were all really good friends. a few weeks later, i started another show with some of them, and david was in it and we grew to be even closer. we used to talk online every night about stuff. keep in mind, now, that he didnt get all that much from his girlfriend. after awhile, things began to get a little out of hand online-i told him that i do masturbate, and that's where it kind of took off. we started to like do it together online, and it wasnt all that bad, but it still was wrong. and we told each other everything and talked about sex all the time and fantasies we have and who we'd like to have sex with. he would compliment me all the time, and tell me i'm beautiful and that he would love to have sex with me someday, but he would never do anything right now because i'm so much younger than him (he's 18, i'm 14). so this went on 2-4 times a week, and it slowly got like more intense and we would say what we were doing as we did it and i dont know what made me do it because i know it was stupid and all but i had a huge crush on him and he made me feel so good about myself. and he used to kid around all the time about sending naked pictures. until one night when he actually did. they got more and more "risky" each picture he sent and by the last one was just like him naked and it was so fun but so wrong! and he asked me to do the same..so i said i would..but i was so afraid because im self conscious and naked pictures are just a bad idea in general. so the next night i did it and sent more teasingly pictures than completely naked ones, and he sent more, and the next night we did it together at the same time and did the whole cyber thing. he also sent a video and asked me to do the same the next night..i was so stressed out every day because i didnt want to take the pictures but at the same time i did and i loved his compliments and i wanted to please him and a video would be just awkward you know? but the night before we did he went to a party, got drunk, and kissed another girl and had to tell his girlfriend and it was this big to do so i told him we need to stop and we did. so then i was like alright we'll still be close and all will be well. yeaaaa right. he didnt talk to me that much at all and he told people he was sick of me and he totally ignored me for a week and during that week i figured out from talking to other people and through whats been going on that he was just using me and he never actually cared about me and was only nice to me and pretended to be my friend so id send the pictures and cyber with him at night. not only did he do this to me, he started to do this with another girl within the past week. and shes 14 too. it sucks and it hurts a lot and he IMed me this morning and said "you are really mad at me huh?" and i just let him have it and i felt so great but he was sweet and said he really does care and really is my friend and all and feels guilty and like..w'ere going to talk later tonight..and i still like him..and i dont know what i should do now! not be friends with him anymore? be aquaintances? be friends? let it all go? be mad or upset? i'm so confused. sorry this is so long, but any help/advice would be greatly appreciated!:)
Hey
Ahhh people really piss me off
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v yeahh down below.
You don't need to call the cops, nor tell your mom, it's not such a big deal. Whatever you do, stay out of it, don't tell his girlfriend anything. If he finds the need to tell her, he will. The fact of the matter is you knew all along that he had a girl friend and that this was all fun and games nothing else, so there for he didn't really use you! Stay aquaintances. Thats all there is to it!
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Alright so i was wondering, in order for some one to get mono, the person you are kissing has to have it right?
And also would the person you are kissing know that he has it?
Hey
Well you can get mono from other ways as well, not only by kissing someone. But if the person you are kissing has mono they will give it to you 100% and they would know if they have it or not!
♥ maria ♥
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okay so everyone at school calls me a slut n even my friends. like i no there jsut kidding and all but it really bugs me and i want it to stop. ive had sex with 4 people.. is it THAT slutty? im 15. i dont no wat to do i just wish it never happend. i just want to earn respect from my friends and clear my bad reputation. ]
any ideas?? it would be greatly appreciated
Hey
Sadly people are real jerks, even on this site, with the rude comments they left you. What you do on your own time has nothing to do with anybody else. It's your life, and yours only! Having sex isn't a bad thing at all, there also isn't a so called right age to be having sex. About your friends well most likely their just jealous, that you have more experience even if they don't admit it. Trust me on this one! And to all the girls that said your a slut on this site are such whores that can't get any dick! I swear!! You don't need other peoples respect JUST YOUR OWNS, if you have that your all set!
♥ maria ♥
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i have stretch marks EVERYWHERE! any things to get rid of them. tell me if the things you are suggesting actually work and tell me where to get them! thanks you muchos gracias
Hey
I'm afraid that once you have stretch marks, there is no magic way of getting rid of them. The skin has stretched beyond what it was capable of and the marks are the result. The good news is that stretch marks will fade. Sorry, but once you have them, you are stuck with them. To make them fade faster you could try using Cocoa butter. Apply cocoa butter cream on affected stretch mark areas in the morning, after showers, and at night. You'll be gaping at the results within' a few months. You could buy cocoa butter at most local pharmacies or even at bath and body works.
♥ maria ♥
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i have NO clue what to get my b/f for v-day.. he likes skateboarding and hes doing something really really big for me so i want to do/get something nice for him
any suggestions?
Hey
You say he likes skateboarding then why don't you buy him a really rare skateboard, and try to get some famous skater to sign it or something. If you can't do that then just buy him a skateboard, take him to the park so that he can test the skateboard out, make him a cute homemade card, and cook some cookies shaped like hearts. That would be a really cute thing to do!
♥ maria ♥
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My boyfriend fingered me yesterday for the 2nd time, and this time he went deeper than the 1st time. It kinda hurt, and today I got my period. But I shouldn't be getting my period right now becuase its too early, but it's only early by a week or so. And I'm not really sure if my period is regular or not, but my last period started on January 3 and ended on January 8. So did my cherry pop.. or is it just my period?
Hey
Relax! There's no need to worry. If you're just bleeding a little bit then he most likely did pop your cherry but that does not affect your period in any way, if you're bleeding a lot just like any other time you have your period then your period came a little bit too early this time. You wouldn't be bleeding a lot if he popped your cherry, just when he actually pops it!
♥ maria ♥
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dose the clear liqurd that guys have leak out of there penis when there hard does that have sperm in it?
Hey
Yeah it does.
♥ maria ♥
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So I got side swept bangs today. My hairdresser didnt really make the bangs thick enough, she hardly used any hair. I want to cut a little bit of my hair just so I can make it a little thicker. She used sort of a razor looking thing to cut the hair with, so maybe I could use a razor to cut my hair with? This is probably a bad idea but has anyone ever done it?
Hey
STOP WHILE YOU CAN!!! haha NEVER try to cut your own hair.. its just a recipe for a disaster. i suggest you go back to the salon so they can fix it = D
♥ maria ♥
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OK i need to download some good punk rock, emo, music
Will everyone give me 1 of your favorite song.. Just 1 please... your favorite one???????
Hey
See if you like this song:
Alien ant farm - Smooth criminal
♥ maria ♥
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How do I get rid of bags under my eyes? The bags are not serious, and I doubt I need medical treatment, but it is definetly notceable. And I do not want to wear make-up. I do get a lot of sleep, at least 9 hours per night. Do you know any home remedies to get rid of them?
Hey
A couple of "home remedy" type things I found :
Raw potato slices will help tighten baggy, puffy eyes. All you need is a potato and a knife or slicer!
To Make:
1. Slice 1/4 potato to fit over your eyes.
2. Cut 2 slices or, if you prefer, 5 to 10 very thin slices, several for each eye. Either method works.
To Use:
1. Spritz eye area with water.
2. Lying down, place the potato slices on your eyelids and leave in place for at least 10 minutes for best results.
Also, you can place a couple of spoons (metal) in your freezer overnight. While lying down, rest the cold spoons on your eyes for 10-20 minutes. According to the site I found this on, the condition should improve after 14 consecutive days of use. My personal opinion is that overnight in the fridge is a better choice or a cold compress of some sort. I don't know if anyone out there has ever had the experience of pulling something frozen off of skin-but it HURTS and can tear skin off.
♥ maria ♥
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I just moved into a new house and my room is light pink and green. I am not into that at all, not one bit. But my parents won't let me paint over it. I'm not gothic; but my favourite color is black, i wear black all the time, i'm into heavy metal, my favorite band is Lamb of God and Insane Clown Posse. I like stars and hearts. I would probably be more into the colours if they were alot darker, but i can't paint! I asked if i could get a black stripe near the top but our painters' hand isnt steady enough, but I can paint some black into it, but where? Not the whole thing so what can i do? What can i do that will make my room alot less girly and young? Please help! I hate these light baby colors!
Hey
Why don't you just buy wall paper!? Pick one that you like and put it up. I'm sure it will look great!
You could also try putting up a lot of posters all around your room to cover your walls as much as possible.
♥ maria ♥
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okay well i have old beanie baby and pokemon cards left from about 8 years ago when they were very popular and now i no longer want them. i want to sell them on ebay but am i better off selling them now or waiting a few years. is the value of them going to go up or down in the next 5, 10, 20 years?
Hey
You might as well throw out the pokemon cards because they will never grow in value. Everybody still has them and if you ever go to china, the cards are all over the place for really cheap! About the beanie baby i say keep it for another 10 or 20 years. I'm sure the value will grow higher. If you end up selling it now you might get 80 dollars and that's if your beanie baby is a rare one.
♥ maria ♥
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I just got MSN messanger, (the new version) and i was talking to someone about something i shouldn't have. is there ANY way that any one, even i, could find conversations i had. There was this thing that came up saying "do you want your conversations saved" and i said no but just in case i messed up. Where would i find the conversations anyway?
PLEASE help!!!!
Hey
Relax! There's no need to worry. If you pressed no then trust me it wouldn't have saved by itself.
But just to be sure go check in your documents. If it's not there it wouldn't be anywhere else.
If you do happen to find it just erase it and make sure to erase it from your recycle bin too.
♥ maria ♥
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I want to learn to make my own myspace layouts. I know how to take premade ones and manipulate them to be what i want.. but i want to be able to make my own instead of using a premade code.
Does anyone know of anyone online tutorials to do this?
Specific Sites would be quite helpful.
Thanks
Hey
I'm sorry i don't have any sites that might help you with the actually layouts but i have a site with HTML help which you will need in order to use your layout. Also you need to buy Paint Shop Pro for the layouts. You could download it for free online but it's only free for 30 days.
http://www.xanga.com/mz_madel
^ this girl makes all her own layouts maybe you can ask her. She's really good.
http://lissaexplains.com/
♥ maria ♥
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Hey. Is it true that guys won't have sex with girls if the don't shave their vaginas?
Hey
Honestly MOST guys rather have it shaved, but not all! Different guys have different opinions. Also if a guy wants to have sex with you he really won't care what your vagina looks like, just as long as you have one! But in the end it's all up to you and what you feel like doing. After all it's your body not his, and if the boy respects you he won't care and if he does care he's not worth it!
♥ maria ♥
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i recently bought these clogs
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=clearance&scid=cat90062&sscid=cat90114&navroot=clearance&productId=A_3411_4209
and i want to wear them with this skirt
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=womens&scid=cat90046&sscid=&navroot=womens&productId=0315_1725&size=
socks, or no socks?
Hey
Umm actually i would have to disagree with everybody else. I have similar clogs and the same skirt. When i usually wear both together i wear white socks with either colorful stripped stockings or just any color stockings that match my top. If you just wear the clogs with no socks you won't look bad so don't worry but you would look alot cuter with the socks.
Trust me i get alot of compliments on my fashion sense!
♥ maria ♥
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is hydrogen peroxide(sp?) ok to use to whiten your teeth? and if so, how do you do it, whats the best way to put it on, how long to you keep it on, etc....
also, would it be better to use before or after baces come off(i obiously have braces)
thanksss
Hey
It's 100% safe to use as long as you don't sallow it. What you do is pour a little bit of hydrogen peroxide on your toothbrush and then put some baking soda on top, brush your teeth with your mixture, being sure to leave it on your teeth for at least two minutes. Rinse your mouth when you're done. Don't do this more then once a week. Also it's best you do this after you get your braces off. After you finish brushing with this free paste, brush again with regular toothpaste to rid your mouth of the taste as well as the peroxide solution. You will be amazed at just how white and bright your teeth will be!
♥ maria ♥
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