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so my breasts itch a lot...why?
they're really tender but i din't know if them itching had anything to do with them growing...?

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hey

you mean your nipples? yeah, they're growing. if you doubt that, try changing your bra everyday & make sure that your bra isn't just irritating them. cause i think they're just growing a little.

the itching will stop in a few days :]

also, if they're tender, your period is on your way, or just ended.



1. where is heaven? i know that hell is like probably at earth's core, because that makes sense, but heaven isnt in the sky or we would have spotted it, and past the sky is our universe.. unless heaven is someplace in our universe? and does EVERYTHING go to heaven when it dies? even bugs and animals and stuff? if so, when an alien (if they are real) dies on a diff planet, it will go to our heaven?

2. how bad you have to be to go to hell?

3. what so special about crop circles that link with aliens? arent crop circles like man-created anyways? (link)
hey

1. heaven is in our sky, but we just can't see it right now because we're alive. yes, everything goes to heaven after they die. no, if EVERYTHING in the universe were to die & go to heaven, heaven would be like bursting! i believe that only things that lived on earth goes to earth's heaven.

2. well, murder for sure. if you do something to badly REALLY affect someone's life. like murdering someone, telling an excessive amount of lies, etc.

3. uhm. no. crop circles aren't man-made, sweetie. why would humans bother making crop circles in their own crops? the link to aliens is that the way that the crops are bent are at such an angle, humans can't do it without breaking them.

http://images.google.com/images?q=crop+circles&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&aq=t&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a&um=1&sa=N&tab=wi

humans aren't capable enough to make such intricate designs on spaces up to miles wide. so, uh, the only explanation is aliens. cause i don't think humans are the only living beings in a universe at least 32 billion light years across :]



okay this kid named David called me fat. And he wouldnt drop it and he told me i should buy a tredmill and dumb stuff like that, i know im fat but i donno i didnt think it was that big of a deal.
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=41915905
thats my myspace and i was wonderingif i really am as ugly as he says.. be truthful please..:( (link)
tell him that you'll rip the stick out of his ass and beat him with it.
i hate people who make stupid comments.
tell him to go shove his conceited head up his ass.

sorry for all the language..but yeah you look fine don't let people get to you like that.


m/13 so me and my girlfriend are planning to have sex. we dont know whether she should put her tampon in during it so she doesnt get pregnant, or i should use i condom. also, how do u put on a condom? when i put my penis in how fast do i go in and out? (link)
A tampon isn't a form of birth control! You are definitely too young for sex if you don't know that. That was quite disturbing. You aren't ready for sex yet, especially if you don't know how to put a condom on or if you don't know if you should even use one. I can't make you not have sex obviously but if you are going to anyway, I suggest you brush up on your sex education because you are clueless.

Instructions for putting on a condom should be on the box or the wrapper for it. It depends on you and your partner on how fast you go. But trust me you definitely are NOT ready if you don't know the basics.

Go here:

http://sexinfo101.com/ic_index.shtml

And read a few of those articles. =)


Ok well i had "sex" for my first time about 4 days ago, it did go in but we didnt fully go at it if you get what i mean. we didnt use protection but he didnt bust or have any pre bust at all (it was only for like a minute anyway). My period has been off lately to. I have gotten blood but like not alot and then it will stop im not sure if its my period or the "cherry" pop. It has been bleedding on and off for a few days. Im kind of nervous, can you please help me =) (link)
Always use protection, even if it's for a minute. He could be carrying STDs he doesn't know about, etc. A guy doesn't ALWAYS no when he precums. I'd take a pregnancy test to be 100% sure and then if your period continues to be off ask your doctor. =)

Idk if you are on birth control or not, but that can effect your period also.


m/13 so me and my girlfriend are planning to have sex. we dont know whether she should put her tampon in during it so she doesnt get pregnant, or i should use i condom. also, how do u put on a condom? when i put my penis in how fast do i go in and out? (link)
Apparently, your not ready for sex. If you were you would know that a tampon is NOT a birth control method...AND you should always use a condom. Your 13 buddy..wait on the sex.


m/13 so me and my girlfriend are planning to have sex. we dont know whether she should put her tampon in during it so she doesnt get pregnant, or i should use i condom. also, how do u put on a condom? when i put my penis in how fast do i go in and out? (link)
You obviouslyy should not have sex.
1) You're 13.
2) You can't understand that it's not even POSSIBLE to have sex with a tampon in.

If you did have sex, you should deffinately use a condom.
And if you don't know how fast to go, then you seriously should not do it.

Your not reaaadyyyy...


In the movie, "Super Sweet 16", the one where Aly and AJ Michalka starred in, what was the name of the song that hellogoodbye sang during the part of the movie where Aj was sitting by the poolside while Aly was hanging out with Aj's friend? (link)
All of Your Love
it's one of my favorites


hey i heard these songs on random videos.. can you tell me the names of them?



http://youtube.com/watch?v=uRy4ZJoyJWw

http://www.kleep.com/Science/Paranormal/UFO-Caught-on-Amateur-Film.31863


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hey

the first one is "i love my sex" by benny benassi.

sorry, i don't know the name of the second one.



what is four play?and what is g-spot? (link)
hey

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=forplay

forplay is the fun, flirty, arousing goings on right before actually having sex. It's an act that sexually excites a person.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=gspot

it's an area in the female vagina where a woman experiences great pleasure.

http://i36.photobucket.com/albums/e50/blackmaleya41/gspot.jpg



is it bad to reuse water bottles? after a while the water smells weird (link)
hey

yes, water bottles should not be continually reused because bacteria grow in the water bottle because, everyone does it, when you take a sip of water, some of it touches your tongue and goes back into the bottle.

it's not hygenic.



whats the best sushi you have ever eaten? are salmon rainbow rolls good? thanks (link)
hey

like the type of roll? i love king crab & california as well as shrimp tempura and spider roll.

i feel that rainbow rolls are quite bland & lack flavor, but that's just for the restaurants i've been to. i like a lot of things going on in my sushi so i taste everything and really get my tongue going.



does out universe expand forever? or does it like.. end? im really interested in that stuff even though im only 13 so i dont understand alot about or solar system. what are some jobs other than astronomer i can do when im older too? or do astronomers get paid alot? i want a job relating to the solar system that gets paid well when im older. cause i have no clue what i want to be when lots of kids already know.. also yeah with my first question.. also whats the deal with black holes? so when you go in.. instant death? or you get transported to a different time or something? i wish we humans could know more.. and like whats a space time continuim(sp?) and do you believ in aliens and are there any clues to there being aliens or some kind of other organisms on other planets? THANKS! :) (link)
hey

i'm interested in this stuff to. i don't really know the answers to some of your questions, but i'll try.

i bet our universe doesn't expand forever only because humans are really small & like incapable of advancing our technology enough to SEE exactly how big space is. it's pretty darn big though. like.
approx 32 billion light yrs across at least.
http://www.motodom.com/universe.gif

sweetie, to tell you the truth, astronomers don't get paid a lot. if you wanna make like at least $1 million a year, you'd have to get a major in law or business & work on wall street. i've considered that profession too. here's what you can do though. you can get a major in college with something that you're going to do as a profession & make money with, & a minor in astronomy.

i think that black holes are like a time warp. it brings you to another part of the universe. electrons [light] also get sucked into black holes & no one knows where they go. people can't go inside black holes cause obviously we'd die, but if we did, we'd probably be transported to another part of the universe.

i wish humans could know more too, love. i always thought humans were so underdeveloped, frankly. i mean, three fourths of the world thinks that there are no aliens. that we are the only living beings in 32 billion light years of space. oh yeah, explain crop circles to me...

space time continuum-
http://www.west.net/~ke6jqp/spacetime/spacetime.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spacetime

yes i totally believe in aliens. not the stupid ones like in SIGNS (really bad movie), but like ones that are wayyy more developed than humans. there have been soo many UFO sitings... they have to be real.



I masterbate....a lot.

im 15 female and i use things to do it with like: thend ends of a brush or bottles or my finger or shower heads (water pressure)

number 1) is this normal?

number 2) after i orgasim i get thick saliva and then my vagina hirts and i cant touch it anymore bu i also get really un-hoorny.

why? & is that normal? (link)
hey

1.) yes of course it is! everyone does it. it's not a bad thing.

2.) it's cum. your vagina is sensitive after you climaxed. it's normal to not feel horny any more after you have an orgasm.



Hello, I'm not big on shaving legs actually I love my hair on my legs but I've come to realize that it is not sexy. Is it better to shave or to use nair? (link)
hey

i'm assuming you're a girl?

well it's up to you, but most girls just shave cause it's fast & easy. not that nair isn't easy or anything, but it just takes like 10 minutes for it to burn the hair and THEN you have to shower. shaving is just fast & can be done everyday.

if you want the hair to take longer to come back, use nair. also use nair if you want the hair to appear SLIGHTLY lighter.



Where can I find more icons like this one?

http://i14.tinypic.com/626jd7c.jpg (link)
http://search.xanga.com/searchgroups.aspx?q=icons

xangas also good for finding layouts for myspace and aim profiles


well i tried sushi for the first time a couple days ago. well, it was a california roll. my mom (im 13/f) doesnt really want me to eat raw foods, but idc as long as its fresh. i get the food at some place near a library i volunteer at in the summer, so i can just get some sushi from the restaurant without her knowing. anyways, what other things besides california rolls (i liked it, it tasted great with the soy sauce!) should i try? i didnt know what to get when i first went there so i went with the lady who owns the restaurant's opinion. so she got me the california roll and next time she says i should try like some kinda shrimp roll thing. is that good? and what other things are really good and wont make me sick if its raw? im not sure how some foods like.. octupus tastes like, but if its good.. then idk. how about sashimi? is that good? i also want other suggestions. and i dont want the food to be too expensive. i only have a budget of about 10 bucks, lol. (link)
hey

my friend, sushi is my favorite food.

i love the california roll. that is still one of my favorite rolls. if you have a wide range of taste, i'd say try the king crab roll if that is available in your area. & the shrimp tempura. sushi doesn't make you sick if you get it from the right places.

where do you live? if you live in new jersey / pennsylvania / new york area, i can really tell you some good sushi restaurants to go to!

i'm sorry, i'm not familiar with onigiri at all. you sure it's spelled that way?

if you aren't sure about something, try asking the waiter for her opinion. most restaurant workers know what they're talking about.

octopus tastes REALLY good. oh oh, try the spider roll! you'll love it.

in response to feedback:
OMG you live in new jersey? try this place called robongi in hoboken, new jersey. best sushi in NJ :]



If a girl gives a guy a Bj, can the girl get pregnant? (link)
hey

no. she can only get pregnant if somehow sperm gets into a female vagina. if you give a guy a blowjob & then spit it on your hand & finger yourself, then yeah you can get pregnant. if no cum got near the girl, she can't be pregnant.



hey. i have a problem. OKay, so I always use my dad's $400 ish camera when im with my friends and when I go to the mall just to take random pictures. its 2 years old and is a Nikon.
2 days ago I was at the mall with my friend and i dropped all my stuff. I didn't notice that my camera had dropped, so i just went home. Today I was wondering where it was and I realized I had DROPPED IT. and my friend even saw it but she thought it wasn;t mine.
So basically I LOST my dads camera. and if i tell my parents, they will get so mad at me for it, since it contained a lot of my dads business pictures that he needed. My mom will definately start yelling at me of how irresponsible I am. My dad probably will get mad at me too just not as much as my mom.

I feel really bad. I have about 73000 in YEN(japanese currency), which is about $670 ish. and i have $50 in dollars. I dont care about paying them and getting them a new camera at all. I'm just mad at how stupid I am, and how irrespondible my parents are going to think i am.

my parents don't know yet. and soon they will start asking me for the camera. I seriously don't know what I should say. I dont wanna say i lost it.really.

How should i exchange my money (besides airport).

I don't know...I just feel really bad. (link)
Like everyone said you need to talk to them about it, hopefully before they ask you about it. But first I think you ought to go back to the mall and check in the lost and found up by the service/information desk.

I lost my purse at the mall and it contained my birth control, luckily one of the cleaning ladies had turned it in for me. So you should ALWAYS check just in case. =)


For the last few days, I've been having a hard time going to sleep. It takes me at least 1-2 hours to finally rest my mind. The cause is I have a restless mind. I think about too much such as School, Burglury and My schedule for tomorrow.
What can I do to get my mind off all these ideas so I can be able to sleep.

P.S. If I can avoid it, please don't say pills!

Age: 14/F

-Thanks! (link)
okay well try writing in a journal all your thoughts and fellings everything just write it all down that always helps me

HOPE I HELPED=]
-shannon




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