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hey, i need some tips on learning how to do a split and/or straddle. i cant go that far down yet but is there anything i can do to get quick results?

i'd like as many advice comments as possible and i will rate very high.

There's not really a way to do it quickly without hurting yourself. Make sure you stretch a lot before you do it each time. Practice it a little everyday, going down a little further each time until you are all the way down, just make sure you stretch whatever you do & that alone will help a lot! good luck!

♥ Evy

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Would you ever meet someone in person off of myspace? I know most of you are going to say no but what if it's a friend of a friend?

I think that it would be ok considering your friend knows them. But you should probably find out where your friend knows them from (if you dont already know). I'd also take another friend with me just to be safe. Keep in mind the bad outcomes of people meeting other people from myspace..good luck!

♥ Evy

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ok well im really white. . and it sucks. .is there any way i can get a good tan? like wat stuff to use for tanning and its quick and wont look bad. and how much is it to go to a tanning salon??
thanks

'Hawaiian Tropic- Dark' is a really good tanning oil. You see major results in just a couple times you use it, and its about 5 dollars at target. Most places have a plan where you go for so long for so many dollars if you plan on going more than once. It just depends where you go.

♥ Evy

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ok hey. so, i'm in highschool (i'm a sophomore.). i'm a female (pretty obvious?) and i need advice. duh. i haven't dated/liked ANYONE since llllaaaasssssttttt year. i really want to find someone that i can like and will like me. all my friends have boyfriends, and they are neglecting our friendship to hang out with their stupid boys. this isn't just about them, though. i really want someone who i can be with romantically. do you have any advice to help me when i don't have a boy, or to help me get one?

Well if you really want someone to be with romantically it's going to be a little tougher probably because of your age. Most boys around your age are just looking for fun, you know how it is. Anyways, about your friendships..if they're neglecting you for their boys, most likely they aren't true friends. Talk to them about how you feel. Boys come and go, friends will always be there. If you wanna get a boy, be confident. Guys like that..smile a lot too, just not to the point of where you're being fake. Be yourself but with attitude. I've found that the more you look for a relationship the harder it is to find. Just let it come to you, it will eventually! Let me know if you need anything else.

♥ Evy

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i put this neutrogena (sp?) tanning stuff on my arms & legs. they look horrible. is there anyway i can make the stuff go away? for tomm?? & i alresdy tried rubbing acholol


ps. what is some good tanning oil?

idk what to do about that messing up but i know that hawaiian tropic-dark..is a really good tanning oil! its shows a difference pretty fast. good luck!

♥ Evy

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So I am a "couch potato" so to speak, but I actually just plain don't like exercise. For 5 years I have not done anything besides being forced to in gym class. How do I start exercising again? I want to focus on running.

No one really loves to exercise, but there's no other way than to just do it. Just tell yourself you don't wanna be a 'couch potato' anymore and get outside & do stuff. The only way it's going to happen is if you make yourself, or atleast try. good luck!

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i wear a padded bra..so my boobs look bigger than they actually are.is there any way to make my boobs look bigger in a bathing suit so it doesnt look like i stuff my bra or something?

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/category/?cgnbr=OSSWMZZZZZZ

They have push-up bikini's there. Thats basically the same thing you wear except of course its a bikini.

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When I rate people, I generally give all 5s, maybe a 4 or 2, and a 1 if someone is completely rude or didnt answer the question. Well..Let's say I ask a question and I get 5 answers. One of them is horrible, so it gets a 1 rating. The second is okay but kinda bad, so a 3 or 4. The next 2 answered the question and werent jerks, but the 5th wrote a 5 paragraph answer and included links to websites and personal experiences, etc. Should I rate the the 3rd and 4th people 5's like the 5th person, or should I give them fours because there was a better answer?

NOTE--Im rating all fives on this question no matter what

If they actually took the time to read what you had to say & try to help you, i'd give them a 5, unless of course it was rude,stupid etc. Some people give answers short & sweet and to the point. Others like to ellaborate. It's up to you though.

♥ Evy

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Recently my mom gave me some of her clothes because they do not fit her anymore. The clothes are a bit large on me. Do you think that by wearing these clothes too large for me I will let myself go and get larger as to where those large clothes actually fit? Will wearing too big clothes weaken my weight loss attempts? What should I do?

As long as you feel good in them it doesn't really matter. If you don't let it weaken your attempts, then no it won't. Wear whatever you feel most comfortable in.

♥ Evy

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im curious to know how it is to have sex without a condem. i hear it feels a whole lot better. i knoww this is a risky thing..but is it ture first of all? and second..if i try it on the last day of period..will that be ok? or is it a myth that ththats the safest time. birth control info is also greatly appreciated. can i get it without parents knowing?

No, you can still get pregnant while you're on your period. And yes, you can get birth control at a clinic without your parents knowing.

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Anyone know any sad love songs to cry ur eyes out to? thank you. ♥

if tomorrow never comes- garth brooks
remember when- alan jackson
anytime- brian mcknight
6. 8. 12- brian mcknight
goodbye time- blake shelton
what hurts the most- rascal flatts
believe- brooks and dunn
its getting better all the time- brooks and dunn

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i'm pregnate and i'm balimic what will that do to my baby i can't stop cause every time i keep food in my body i feel guilty about it so don't tell me to stop unless you have a good reason why
thanx

If you do that to your body, your baby isnt getting the food that it needs, and it will die. It's not healthy for either one of you. Have you ever heard the expression 'you're eating for two'? Well when you can't even feed yourself how do you expect it to feed your baby? You should've known before you got pregnant. Either way you're going to gain weight because there's a human inside of you.

♥ Evy

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Okey, I've tried working out, eating healthy and even counting every single calorie, and it STILL hasnt wokred! So please, don't give me the doctor-answer. Spare me the "healthy-talk".

If I skip dinner, and eat as much lunch as I do now, no more, no less..will I lose weight?

Just a simple yes or now, not "eating helthy, skip the sweets, try the gym" because I've foine that already. I've even tried making myself throw up, but my mother caught me.

So please answer truthfully, will it..or will it not? And please know what you are talking about.

If you skip dinner, you'll only be hungry later & wanna eat even more. Like someone before me said it puts your body into starvation mode, its not the most conservative way to lose weight. However eating smaller servings would work..

good luck!

♥ Evy

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okay lets say im dating a boy right.
and..... stuff and we are only in 7th grade.
and..... is it possible for people to date in 7th grade to stay together forever like.. get married i mean i know we are young but can it happen?

It's possible but most of the time it doesn't happen. It depends on how well you and your boyfriend are planning on dedicating your life to each other & how much you love each other. You cant just want it to happen, you have to make it happen.

♥ Evy

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Last night I found out a bunch of my best guy friends smoke, drink, and do weed. I broke down cause you never really think it'll happen to you. Me and some of my other friends want them to get help, before its too late. What could we do; ( Annonymously if possible ) ?

They aren't going to stop if they don't want to. Tell them how you feel about it. That's pretty much all you can do. The more you bother them about it the more they will probably want to do it. Try getting them to talk to someone that can help them, just motivate them. If that doesn't work, don't keep pressuring them about it. You did all you could do..

good luck
♥ Evy

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anybody know any website to buy those cool trucker hats that say "LA" or other stuff? && also do you know any botiques in the mall that have em? thanks

http://www.tshirtoutlet.com/trucker-caps-all-trucker-caps.html

http://www.alpinestars.com/pl/c/41.html

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Ok i have a problem. This really great guy that i like is perfect in every way- he's smart, funny, outgoing, and nice. He also has really good hair and he plays an instrument. But, the problem is, i have never talked to him before, partly because everytime i see his smile, or his eyes, i turn bright red(or at least i feel like i am turning red) and feel inferior to how great he is. I really think we would be good for each other because we like alot of the same things. How do i get him to notice me without turning red and having problems talking to him?

Be confident around him and smile a lot. But not so much to where it's fake..
Guys like the confidence most of the time, so that's probably your best bet. Just talk to him, ask him if he'd like to hang out sometime & get to know you a little better. Just start with small talk and work your way into it however you feel comfortable! good luck

♥ Evy

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I need to pick a few wedding songs to sing at my sister's wedding. I am a lyric soprano and a trained opera singer so I can "hit the high notes" and would love to find something dramatic, emotional and moving for her. Any suggestions? Thanks!


http://www.weddingtips.com/wtfavori.html

http://www.ourweddingsongs.com/

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13.f
I got a really bad haircut.
I really regret it. I had beautiful long hair and I got it cut and now its way to short. This happened yesterday. And now I've been crying for an hour about how ugly it looks and now i hate myself. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO?

It's probably not as bad as you think, just because it's a big change. Don't act like it's a big deal and most likely people won't make a big deal about it. I wouldn't worry about what other people think but if you are, you could always get extensions. They're about 75+ dollars for a pack, depending on your hair & where you go. But if that isn't an option, just deal with it & be confident about it. It'll grow back!

♥ Evy

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Hey guys does anyone no where i can get a job? I'm tired of using my parents money.(well not really lol) but i tired of them say well i buy you everything as an excuse for things Anyone no a good place that will get me cash ? And that isnt too much work.....i'm kinda spoiled not used to working............thx

If you don't work hard, you probably aren't going to work somewhere thats going to get you alotta cash.
work=money...hard work=more money

-tanning beds
-hair salon
-rake leaves
-walk dogs
-fast food

Go anywhere that has a bulletin board in a public place, they normally post 'now hiring' ads and such.

good luck

♥ Evy

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