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since oyur hair is natural dark and your trying to dye it lightier oyu should defftenatly go to a perfesanle if oyu dont and do it byyourself then it wont trun out the color you wont it would be darker! good luck! =)x0x

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Ive got a really bad obsession with the drink coca cola! and its not good for you to drink it everday of the week. Anyone give me advice on how to stop drinking so much coke?!?

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you could try to find another drink that u really like and start driking that . .it could work it worked for me i used to drink soda a couple of years a go then i started driking more jusice and water and now i hardly drink soda! good luck! hope it helped!=) x0x

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me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 months, its going to be 3 months on May 7th, i am really happy for myself and him, because i stay w my boyfriends for a month and start to get sick of them and he cheats on every girl hes with but didnt with me, so i want to do something special but the thing is i cant have guys over and he cant have girls over and we dont drive but his friend usually comes with us when we hang out, so whats something special i can do for him to show him how happy i am and how much i love him...ill rate also...

one thing is that you guys could like go to a resterrant and then liek a movie jsut the 2 of you or u could remake your first date! good luck hope everything works out! =) x0x

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ok, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over 3 months, but we havent made out yet. we hold hands and kiss, but not open mouth. we've said that we love each other, and idk. is there a problem with this? i mean we talked about it and said we're ready, but like we just cant find the right time cuz of school and stuff.

maybe he is waiting for you to make the first move! some guys are liek that! wlel good luck hope everything works out! =) x0x

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Okay...well...I'm a thirteen-year-old girl and I like a guy. He gives off all of the signals that he likes me as more than a friend. One problem:

He's eighteen.

I know I can't be with him at least at the current time, whether he likes me in that way or not, but it just hurts sooo badly. Worse than I've ever felt about a crush.

Why do I feel this bad, and what can I do to get over him, if there's anything I can do?

Has anyone experienced this?

Thanks for any advice you can give.

oKAy well i did KINDA go through the same thing not hte age thing htough but i knwo how to get over him okay well u should find a guy your age or around there try a guy no more then 3 years older then u and pick one that liks you and start going out and u'll just forget bout the 18 year old it helped me lik 3 times! TRUST ME iit works!! good luck hope everything works out! =) x0x

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hEy aL ! uhm.. i love ya so much.. we havent hung out in soo long.. the movies are always fun so we have to go again. i just cant belive your boyfriend.. i mean he doesnt even treat yu right.. if i ever get the chance to talk to him about this stuff i will because its bothering me and i know how you feel l0L! i think that you will noe who this is.. i will give you hints.. napolien.. and science class.. lol yup! well love ya bunches.. i havent wrote in here in soo long so yea ttyl! X0

TEZA! oMii . .ii l0ve y0u u s0o much!!! we have 2 hang out more!!!! and science is s0o much fun with you i dont know how i would servive mr.price without you l0l! and the movies are s0o much fun! l0l we totellit have 2 hang out more!! ii love you bunchs!!!!

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hi well my mom has been using some drug for maybe a couple years, but i dont know what it is but i know for a fact she is. she'll stay in the bathroom for a long time and doesnt stop sniffing after or whatever and acts really weird, doesnt go to bed that night and like picks at her hair and shit and freaks out when i walk in and i love my mom and i hate the rest of my family, my sister is the biggest bitch and she is so mean to my mom and everyone.. whats my mom using? i cant help but being sad and today i was out with her and my sister called and said tell mom shes a disgrace and i want her to go back to the lake ( our house in nh where my mom goes when my sister or dads mean) and she hungup so i called back and said she was real tough and to tell her herself, so she told my mom on the phone and she was so sad.. and my mom dropped me off and started crying and said shed be back in a little... shes not home and now my dad asked wut happened and i didnt really hear but my sister said something about my mom and stuff was everywhere in the bathroom near the sink.. thanks=/

i wouldnt know what that would maybe pain killers or sleeping pills im sorry but maybe u should ask a docter or something good luck i hope everythign works out with your mom! =) x0x

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Hi. Tonight I am babysitting an 11 year old girl at my house. I was wondering some things I could do with her to keep her accupied. Any ideas would be helpful. Thanks.

play games with her or watch some movies and order pizza i do it wheni babysit and it works! good luck! HAVE FUN! =) x0x

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I really need some help i am so confussed. Okay well me and this guy started messing around and he ended up cheating on his girlfriend with me then they ended up breaking up. We've been hanging out for two months and we have done everything. And now he tells me that he just wants to keep it as friends and nothing more cuz he wants to hang out with other girls and keep his options open. But really he is like going places and hanging out with these girls that r ho's. But he still trys 2 talk 2 me and everything and i duno if i should talk 2 him and let it all go n 4get about it or shut him outta my life completly. But what he is going to et from these others girls is nothing that he couldn't get from me so i mean whats up with him? He say's he single and he has his whole life, but i kno he still got feelings for me what should i do?

0o hunnni just forget about him he is just trying to get every gurl he can s0o the best thing you can do is to forget about him! good luck! hope evrythign works out hope i helped! =) x0x

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okay.. me and this boy.. used to be good friends.. my mo and his mom are best friends... the thing is i sthat we both uses to have a thing for each other.. and we used to play spin the bottle.... and then i d him b/c our sisters were teasing us... we even went to the beach together for spring break... but now i have deciede that i lik ehim again.. i dont know what to do.. because of our families.. relationship... like if i ask him out.. and he says no.. then we will still see each other.. what should i do? he has never had a friend.. i wil rate high

you should try to tell hi mthat u still haev feelings for him and if he says the same then ask him out that way u have nothing toworry about and if he dosent say anyting then say that im sry for breaking up with you it was a misktake and i still have feelings for you! good luck hope everyhting works out hope i helped! =) x0x

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yeah okay, so my friend is being so stupid right now. so i know i have been doing a lot more with another friend, but she's one of my best friends. they both are. i think she's jealous or something. me and the friend i've been hanging out with more were saying how she's really pissing us off and being stupid lately. but she didn't know that. so whatever. i know you shouldn't talk about your friends but still, you know most people have. so randomly, she hasn't talked to me in 2 days. she's giving me and my other friend really nasty looks. we say we don't care, but i do. i hate people being mad at me. also, i'm in a state of minor depression, so this helps me none. she keeps saying like through profile and away message that someone should be killed, some is such a such a fag, or my friends are such bitches. but the thing is, i don't recall EVER doing ANYTHING to her to make her do this. i'm really ticked off. i haven't said or done the things she has, nor anything to provoke this. NO WAY would my friend tell her i talked about her because a)so did she, b)the girl is mad at her too, and c) she continues saying things about her...i say some but i am NOT the only one. so i don't know what the hell is up with her...but yeah. any advice?
note: don't say to just confront her, because when i do she says "whatever" or walks away or ignores me. so ya.

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first talk to your other firend andmake sure she didnt say anything to her. then go up to her and trell her or u could just start spending time with her. she probely feels as if you ditched her for you rother friend hen backstaped her by talking about her! good luck hope everything works out! =)) x0x

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idk wat to really say but theres this guy i really like alot and hes 2 years older then me but i think he likes me cuz in the halls in stuff hell say hi and stuff and once he asked for my number but then his friend came up or something and he got distracted idk if he does or not tho but i hate makin first moves, any advice?

tell him you liek him and ask a friend to ask him if he likes you it always works and that how i do it! good luck hope it helped! x0x

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ok i know this sounds like pretty pathedic or something..but when i heard about anirexia, i thought to my self that..."that will never happen to me! i love my self to much for that!" but now im totally obessed with my weight...yes i do admit it... its like im always watching what i eat..how many grams of fat are in it..and now im looking at websites about anirexia..i tried puking..but it was to hard to do..is this a normal thing for my body to always feel fat?? i would really appreciate any advice..or help you can tell me...thanks

i think that you might just feel this way for a while maybe its just a phase but if it lasts a long time you should diffenaly think about seeing a docter! good lcuK! hope it helped! =) x0x

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I need a cool screename to fit me. I wanted to know if you have any ideas. I love ducks, tigers, volleyball, basketball, greenday,Jesse McCartney, chad michael murray, yellowcard, the killers, tweety bird, pink, and red. I have blond hair and blue eyes. Thank-you for helpin mE!! I RaTe HiGh!! My name is Madison. 15/f

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sumthing liek thayt is really cute! if you want more then just ask! good luck =) x0x

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Hey im 14 and i have this friend. We have been best friends for about 4 years but this year she is being different. She is always actin realy immature and i dont realy get it. She is always saying she is soo immature and like brags about it(witch i dont get??). I want to tell her how i feel but i cant...And that is really surprisiing cause im really stright forward with people and say what i think. But if i tell her she will be the type of peoson were she is just like "ok whatever" but i kno there is still somthing wrong. SOOoo plezzz help me!!

maybe shes goign through a fase . .you should try and tell her one more time and tell her really seriously that way maybe se will take it seriously!! good luck hope everything works out! =) x0x

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two of my friends are coming over next friday for the first time...they are going to spend the night too...but the problem is that one of the girls has a proem of talknig about it infront of this other girl(who is not coming) and i feel bad cause she is getting left out...but lately she has been kinda annoying..like getting mad for no reason at all...so is it ok to still have just the two girls over or should we invite her too?? one of the girls says that she needs to relize that she dosent have to do everything with us...but i feel really bad....thanks!

its your desicion but think . . do YOU want her to come . . what do u think will haeppened if she comes? good luck hope it helped! =) x0

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k theres this guy i went out with him and we broke up twice its been 3 months and last month we started becomin good friends again talkin on tha phone and we were playing tha question game and he told me he loved me next day he told me he didnt wanna be with me though we got in afight cuz he told me he lied were friends again but there was 2 other guys i like but now just one other guy but the problem is im still stuck on him do i tell him? do you think it would make a difference?

all i ahev to say is follow your heart because even htough its on your left its ALWAYS right and in my opiniion mabe you should tyr sumone new maybe htat would help u get oever him if your trying to get over him it worked for me! =) good luck hope it works out =) x0

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Hi, my question is a little complicated, but here goes. I've lived with my boyfriend for 7months now. Because of where we live, I cannot let my 6 year old son go outside, and can't walk anywhere, like the corner store or anything like that. I have no driver's license so I can't drive where I need to go. I have to depend solely on him to even take my son to the park. My only other option is to move back to my home state, 1300 miles away. In my hometown, I have unpaid traffic tickets (over $900 worth), and I will more than likely go to jail and risk losing my son when I get there. what do I do? stay here and be miserable in this house 24 hours a day, or go back and risk a few days in jail? I love my boyfriend very much, but he refuses to move out of this place, and I can't keep seeing my son suffer. Please help me decide!!

all i have 2 say is follow your heart becuase even thought its on your left its always right and it will lead you to where u should be! good luck with everything and i hope everythiing works out! =) x0x

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I'm going to be applying for a job soon, and on my resume..do I put on there that I do a lot of community service hours or does that not matter?

you should put that u do a lot of community service hours s0o then they'll se you have more experiance1 wlel good luck hope it works ou! =) x0x

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