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Should I leave him?
Hi, my question is a little complicated, but here goes. I've lived with my boyfriend for 7months now. Because of where we live, I cannot let my 6 year old son go outside, and can't walk anywhere, like the corner store or anything like that. I have no driver's license so I can't drive where I need to go. I have to depend solely on him to even take my son to the park. My only other option is to move back to my home state, 1300 miles away. In my hometown, I have unpaid traffic tickets (over $900 worth), and I will more than likely go to jail and risk losing my son when I get there. what do I do? stay here and be miserable in this house 24 hours a day, or go back and risk a few days in jail? I love my boyfriend very much, but he refuses to move out of this place, and I can't keep seeing my son suffer. Please help me decide!!
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Get a part time job.
Since your son is 6 years old, he should be in school, and I'm sure they have a day care program or center he can stay if your work schedule differs from his school schedule. But try to opt for something similar so after work you can pick your son up.
There is always public transportation also to get you to and from work, and to and from his school.
By getting a job, you can save money for a car and maybe even pay off those unruly parking tickets.
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Moving back home does not seem like much of an
option. You shouldn't live in fear 24/7 either.
Start looking for a new place. When you find one, make boyfriend go check it out with you. If you really love each other then you should be able to reach a compromise somehow. If he doesn't want to move...threaten to move alone. It would be rough going but, you shouldn't be made to feel trapped in an unhealthy neighborhood. Really start seriously looking elswhere. :)
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all i have 2 say is follow your heart becuase even thought its on your left its always right and it will lead you to where u should be! good luck with everything and i hope everythiing works out! =) x0x
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ok let me give it to you like this. Save yo money so you can pay the $900. i mean come on your miserable, your sons miserbale and your boyfriend refuses to move. The only way i see fit is to move back to your home town and end your relationship with him because obviously he doesn't care much about you cause if he did he wouldn't mind movin. That's love for ya.
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