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I'm Jack/Jamie.

I'm 28 years old. I graduated from Michigan State University with my Bachelor of Science in Chemistry. GO GREEN! Now I'm a high school chemistry teacher in New York City living with my husband in a small studio apartment we pay way too much money for.

I've been on this site for 14 years as of March 23, 2020.
You may have seen me as CuxMiBeckNow7, but I've since shortened my name.


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--Jack

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I just got a Facebook, and found some people I haven't seen since third grade on the site (I am 17). Would it be odd if I posted something on their Wall saying "hello" out of nowhere? I found them through others' friend lists.

No, I do that all the time. It's so much fun.

=]

--Jack
(17/m)

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yesterday for some reason i accidentally blocked my friend from posting wall posts on my facebook (i just made my facebook). so when i added her, she tried to post something to me and couldn't obviously. via a picture comment, she said to me, "why can't i post wall posts?"


i figured out how to allow the wall posting feature, and responded to her on her wall: "ok, you can put wall posts on now."

basically, what i am asking is: if you read my message as an outsider "ok, you can put wall posts on now" would you think that was weird for me to say that?

yes, i know this is an idiotic question but just answer it honestly!

It's Facebook. Why is that weird?

It's not.

--Jack
(17/m)

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I'm going to be a senior next year and am beginning my college application process. I'm applying to some competitive liberal arts schools and have some questions about the SAT vs. ACT. I took the SAT as a sophomore and got a 2260 without studying really. But then I took two SAT subject tests and did poorly (not terrible, but one i was in the 90th percentile and one i was in the 65th percentile, so not great considering where I am applying). The schools require either SAT and SAT subject tests, OR ACT. My question is, would it be better to take the ACT, which i would probably do well on because that type of reasoning, like the SAT, comes easily to me. Or should i just submit my good sAT scores and not great subject tests scores.

Thank you!

I really know nothing about the SAT.

But, I think it's worth it to take the ACT. Make sure you take the ACT Plus Writing, because some schools require that, plus, why not? lol

Anyway, I really think you should take the ACT.

--Jack
(17/m)

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Ok well ive never had sex before and last nite i slept with this boy and im just wondering if we did actually have sex would i deffinetly be feeling it today??

Hmm, that probably wasn't the smartest thing to do...

I think you would know if you had sex, unless you were completely wasted.

Ask him, unless he was as drunk as you.

--Jack
(17/m)

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Hi there! I am trying to get a better car and my friend asked me if I tried a cash for clunkers thing she heard about on the radio, I think. I haven't heard anything about a cash for clunkers and I was curious if it might be beneficial to me. Can anybody tell me about it?

My friend also said that my car had to qualify for it or something. I have a 1997 Pontiac Grand Prix with over 160k miles. Does it qualify or no?

I saw on the news that it had to be less than 25 years old, less than 18 mpg gas mileage, and something else.

http://www.tiphero.com/tips_1668_does-my-car-qualify-for-cash-for-clunkers.html


- Must have a combined MPG of 18 or less.*
- It must be in drivable condition.
- Manufactured in model year 1984 or later.
- Has been continuously insured consistent with State laws and registered to you for at least one year immediately prior to trade-in.

* Combined MPG is a blend of highway and city MPG. To determine your cars combined MPG you can look it up at: http://www.fueleconomy.gov/


There we go.

--Jack
(17/m)

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I'm 17/female and it may seem mildly out of the ordinary for a site like this, anyway, I have been struggling with falling in love with this guy who is probably gay that I see maybe two or three times a year. I think about him on a daily basis and creep on his facebook and twitter. He's 25.

I know it's probably my naivety shining through, but it has been two years since I first met him and I have had feelings for him every single day.

I haven't had a real relationship - ever, not counting the stupid things I did back in junior high. Guys don't particularly like me, I never make moves at all, and I always end up being friends.

Help!! :\

If he's gay, it's probably not worth the effort; you'll just end up hurt.

There's a guy out there who will like you for everything you are. Go out to public places and try to meet people.

--Jack
(17/m)

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okay im 13 and i kinda like this boy, and he
says hes likes me. he even asked me to the movies
he tells me hes gonna call me, but doesnt, do i text
him to try to start a convo or does it seem like he
doesnt like me idk?

Text him. It sounds like he at least likes you as a friend. Don't overload on the texts, though, it might intimidate him.

--Jack
(17/m)

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well i have a boyfriend tht i like alot but hten theres is this other guy tht i like too..i just dont know wat to do..im 16 yrs old...gettin ready to turn 17..my boyfriend is 19 and the other guys is 22....

It's not fair to your boyfriend for you to like someone else while you're dating.

Stay away from the 22 year old. That is illegal.

Work out your issues with your boyfriend.

--Jack
(17/m)

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Can i be pregnant if im a virgin and my boyfriend came near my vagina but not in it

If the sperm didn't get INSIDE you, but near you, the chances are very slim.

If you washed the area and made sure that none went in, then you can't really be pregnant.

Take a pregnancy test in a few days to be sure.

Next time, be more careful.

--Jack
(17/m)

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So, the guy that runs this place is DangerNerd, right? What does the guy look like? I went to his advice column and I didn't see a picture up and I'm really curious! Is DangerNerd hot? Has anybody seen him before?


...he IS a real guy, right?

He is real. I'm assuming no one on here has seen him.

You don't need a picture on your column, like Christina said, it's not mandatory.

--Jack
(17/m)

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nice, intelligent, loves sex, and has a good body?

Like others have said, I like depth.

Nice, funny, kind, gentle, fun-loving, smart, quirky, interesting, pretty, confident, selfless, clean, helpful, laughable, and the list goes on.

The four things you listed are too broad and shallow.

--Jack
(17/m)

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I was reading about people lining up like crazy to watch a really bad movie film called The Room (Wiseau films; written, directed, and stars Tommy Wiseau) and that it was pretty shocking how many people have shown up to see it. It really is being referred to as the worst movie ever made--they THINK it was suppose to be a love story drama. haha They are also considering a sequel to The Room!!! So, I was just wondering something pretty simple...

What's the WORST movie you have ever seen?

I have a number of "worst" movies that I've seen:

Crank
We Own the Night
A Scanner Darkly
Transmorphers

...Yours?

Pretty much anything with Jack Black or Will Ferrell [other than Elf].

I especially don't like:

Be Kind, Rewind
Step Brothers
Old School
School of Rock


Yeah...

--Jack
(17/m)

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I keep hearing about Michael Jackson's doctor prescribing propofol to him before he died and that the doctor may have overdosed him. Just curious, I guess, but what in the world is propofol? Is it prescribe for pain or something since Michael Jackson had all of those facial operations? I've never heard of this drug before.

It was to help Michael sleep, I think.


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Propofol

--Jack
(17/m)

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can i be pregnant from pregnant...what are the chances?... me and my bf did the pull out method..and iam afraid to do the preg test cause iam scared what results i will get

Can you get pregnant? Yes.

Pull-out method? Doesn't work.

Take the test in a few days to find out. Whether or not you take the test doesn't prevent you from being pregnant, so you might as well take it.

So, please be more responsible and careful next time.

--Jack
(17/m)

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im 14 and lately ive been getting erections quite a lot ive been feeling horny a lot lately is that normal feeling? my penis is about 5 inches long is that a normal size?

Yeah, that's normal.

And 5 inches is normal.

You're perfectly fine.

--Jack
(17/m)

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okay guys, what do you think makes a good hand job/ blow job? What are things that a girl does that you enjoy?

I personally love when the girl saves herself for marriage. XD

Never gotten either of those. Not really interested.

Use this search, though, because no one can give you this explicit advice with 13 year olds running around on this site.

only search advicenators.com


--Jack
(17/m)

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Is every guys penis small when it isn't hard?

Put simply, yes.

Please google this next time.

--Jack
(17/m)

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I heard this song today and it's totally awesome. Okay, so I've heard it a couple of times but I can't figure out who the artist is. It sounds like more than one person--a man and a woman maybe? I don't know for sure! Anyway, the lyrics are like:

I got a feeling
That tonight is going to be a good night
a good, good night

It says that a lot...

And then it talks about painting the town and having a total blast! :D Party every day, party every day!

So, does anybody know the actual name of the song and the artist? It's GREAT!

Oh...and anybody know all of the lyrics?! :D PLEASEEEEE

Definitely not by Metro Station...

It's by the Black Eyed Peas. Someone already gave you the lyrics, but next time you need to know a song, use this search:

only search advicenators.com


If you put the lyrics you know in and put "lyrics" after it, you should find the song.

--Jack
(17/m)

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i like this boy and he likes me and he said we would go out if i sent him a pic txt of my boobs or me naked wat should ido please help

Don't do it. I've seen too many girls [and guys] do this, and get in SERIOUS trouble for it.

He might say he'll keep it to himself, but he'll send it to his buddies, and they'll send it on, and your entire school will have the picture soon enough.

It's not worth it. This guy is a sleeze.

--Jack
(17/m)

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I have 3 long haired cats. They shed evvverywhere. I am trying to clean my blankets..especially the fleece ones because they are covered in hair...is there any trick to getting rid of all the hair...or at least most of it?

I have three cats, too, and we use lint rollers.

That won't get rid of all of it, but it will get rid of a lot.

Get a comb that takes out the undercoat of the fur, because it helps with how much hair is shed.

We have the Ferminator. I don't know if it's in your budget, but I'm sure there's a cheap knock-off of it at Wal-Mart or some other store.

--Jack
(17/m)

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