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It's me again. I've asked you a few questions about what kind of cars I should get, and last time I talked to you, you said that older model Cougars were ok cars. What about a 2000? Good? Bad? What? (link)
honestly the last good year for the cougar was any year before 1997. but most people don't like that bodystyle so it didn't sell well, and is now seen as an old people's car.


How do you put in a tampon ?
Does anyone have any links or something for what ?
Thanks! (link)
There are directions inside of the box, well there should be at least. It should work if you're swimming unless you have an extremely heavy flow.

=)


I'm getting a hair cut soon, and I need some pictures, of celebrities.

I want pictures of Kristin Cavallari ( Laguna Beach ) when she had the shorter, shoulder-ish length, side-bangs hair cut.

But, if any of you can find me some cute hair cuts like that style, it will be greatly appriciated!

Thanks so much!

( 14/f ) (link)
Hmm.. I've never actually heard of her but i found some pictures of her..

http://z.about.com/d/movies/1/0/W/a/D/lake06130623.jpg

http://delivery.viewimages.com/xv/72785555.jpg?v=1&c=ViewImages&k=2&d=17A4AD9FDB9CF19396908EAF14430D35518662CD39494E95D1E3C796AC4C51BF

http://images.eonline.com/eol_images/Profiles/20060920/244.cavallari.kristin.091906.jpg

hmm.. I'm not quite sure but i hope it helped x


Sorry if this is the wrong category.

I wanted to delete my e-mail on gmail, but when I went to delete it, it said that I would no longer be able to use gmail once I delete my account. Does that mean that I won't be able to sue that specific account or does that mean that I won't be able to make anymore gmail accounts in the future?

So I guess I'm asking if I can make another account on gmail even if I delete the one that I have right now.

Thanks in advance =) (link)
hey

it means that your current account will be deleted but you will be able to make other gmail accounts in the future :] no worries.

but all your emails, saved IM conversations, etc. will be deleted. save anything important right now.



Hello. I'm 14 years old and I have never gotten drunk or high. Most of the girls that I know all go out partying with boys, and I feel like such a loser because I don't do anything and they have all these guy friends and I have maybe like 3 really good guy friends who I hang out with. Is this normal? I mean how old were you people when you first got drunk? I know I'm so gay for writing this, but it really bothers me. I'm really afraid of being like 17 and staying in every weekend reading a book by myself because I have no friends. omg i know how gay this sounds i'm sorry! (link)
I got drunk for the first time at 14. And I got high for the first time. Not long after that I was sorta "against" pot. But half a year later which I had turned 15 by the time, I started doing it A LOT. I started stealing as well. I think it was to get over my ex partially. I do it every once in a while because my current boyfriend does sometimes. I dread it every time now. I'll barely smoke any so I can keep an eye on everyone. I just don't like the feeling of it anymore, I really wish I hadn't done that or got drunk. You're aren't missing out on much besides hangovers and memory loss. Trust me I much rather stay in and read a book myself.

And as for the guys thing, I used to hang out with about the same amount of guys during school. =)

Partying young is really stupid in reality, you can get hurt in a lot of situations. I suggest you don't do it, it isn't worth it.


my friends are always saying things i dont know. if someone would explain some thins to me i would appreciate it.

1.how can a girl GET oral sex.
2. HOW do you GIVE a hand job
3. how do you GIVE oral sex. (link)
hey

1. a girl gets oral sex by having a guy lick / suck her vagina [clit]

http://www.know-library.net/images/thumb/1/1f/199px-20030520015715!Clitoris.jpg

2. you give a handjob by firmly wrapping your entire hand around the guy's penis & "pumping' up & down.

http://www.wikiafterdark.com/index.php/Give_a_Guy_a_Hand_Job

3. you take the penis & while holding it, put it in your mouth. then, you keep pumping it except it's in your mouth.

http://www.babeland.com/sexinfo/howto/blow-job

http://www.youtube.com/watch?search=&mode=related&v=aL7GzCMnwGg



Ok guys. Im 13/f, and how come you lie to your ex-gf's about thier bfs. I had dated my ex-bf's best friend. For a week, he didnt pick up when I called him. I called my ex-bf and asked why he wasnt picking up and he said he didnt like me anymore. When he finally picked the phone the best friend of my ex-bf said that he didnt hate me and that he lied. WHy did my ex-bf lie to me? Was he mad or jelouse of he best friend or was he mad at me? (link)
well first off that's your ex's friend. not only that but his best friend. of course he's jealous and upset. you've pretty much taken his friend away from him. he's gonna be upset, i know i'd be. but the fact is he feels threatened because you came along and took his friend after he thought he was done with you. and the liklihood is this relationship with his friend wont last too long either. next time though don't date your ex's friend, it's just not good for the ex, for the friendship, or for you.


can you put songs on your ipod from limewire, if you can how do you do it?
thanks in advance! (link)
hey

1.) open itunes
2.) go to "file" - "add file to library" & find the files you want to add. you may have called the folder "my music" or something similar?
3.) click "open"

the songs should be loaded :]

feel free to ask me anymore questions.



Does anyone have this straightner?
and does this work at all ?
does it make your hair dead straight? (link)
hey

i have naturally straight hair & i thought it would work to just make it a little more straight [instead of a 2-minute straightening with an iron] & it made my whole head straight except the ends... & naturally, my ends are the curliest part of my hair.

don't waste your money unless you have naturally straight hair & just want it to look "teased"



Is it true that if you keep your bra on at night and it's a padded one they won't grow much because you didn't give them room to grow?? (link)
No I don't believe so.

I flipped through the television to the
"Tyra Banks Show" or whatever it is called
and they had some lady on there saying it can reduce sagging when you wear it to bed, but not reduce it extremely. On the other hand, wearing a bra to bed can cut off your circulation and that's no fun right?

=)


how do you make them bigger ?

i've heard that if you drink milk .
ha i don't believe that at all tho . (link)
You can't really make them bigger unless you get surgery or gain a lot of weight like the other girl said. There are various bras you can buy that will make your breasts appear larger. [push up bras, wonder bras]

Big boobs aren't really that great. I'm a 40D, I can't pull off half of the clothing girls at school can, and it is extremely hard to find bras in my size, let alone cute ones.

Be proud of what you've got, smaller chested women have a HUGE variety on cute bras. =)


hey i dont know how to shave downstairs for a girl

how do i

does anybody know?
(link)
shave in the direction it grows in, otherwise it can get irritated and you may get ingrown hairs. I wasn't lucky enough to know that when I did =/


How do i:

Hide my top 8
Hide my comments
Hide like everything except one person on my top 8 and my id like to meet section (link)
http://www.hot-lyts.com/myspace-help.php

everythings there


I have this friend, ok, lets call her x. And her boyfriend, J. X and J have been going out for a month. They are both 14. X is very primiscous and likes to make out and stuff, which is fine with me. Like, they kissed the first day they were going out. They go over to eachothers houses all the time. And x (my best friend) said she would never lie to me. She knows how conservative i am. I think having sex at 14 is disgusting. I told her that and she said, dont worry im still a virgin. Then, j's best friend told me that they have had sex like, four times since they started dating. I havent told her yet, cuz she'll get mad. I havent talked to her since i heard about it, i wanna tell her, but i dont wanna loose my bff. WHat should i do? HELP!!! (link)
Ask her about it, be sure to include that you AREN'T accusing her but you heard it from J's friend. And if she is having sex don't yell at her, but just ask if she's being safe because you don't want anything bad to happen to her. Don't get mad at her for it, be calm, and if you want to voice your opinion say, "I just don't think it's a good idea to do this right now, you're young and I just don't want you to regret anything in the future."

That is, if you find out she actually is having sex, oh and also suggest that she get on birth control.


ok i had sex the day after i was supposed to get my period but i didnt get it.. we had sex without a condom and he accidentally cam inside me. but i got my period the next day. could i still be pregnant? (link)
Yes it is possible. It's not really likely but it is possible. Take a pregnancy test soon, I mean you probably aren't but just to be safe.

NEVER have sex without a condom if you don't want to get pregnant. If you aren't going to use a condom at least get on birth control.

=)


ever since we were both single, my best friend and i became friends with benefits.. what do you think are the chances of it ever turning into an actual relationship (boyfriend/girlfriend)? (link)
It really depends. You need to ask you're friend what they feel about the situation, what they feel about relationships and etc. If you have feelings for this person, you need to find out if they have them back. They may only be in it for the sex, but you need to find out soon. If you wait, you may get more attatched and if they are only in it for benefits, it can really hurt you in the end. I do suggest you break off the benefits thing if you have feelings for them and they don't have them back though.

I'm not going to say it isn't possible to turn it into a relationship, because I was in the same thing. Me and my best friend somehow got into this friend with benefits thing and one say i was like:

"so you'd never ask me out right? we're best friends." and he replied, "i don't know." by the end of that conversation he asked me out. So it isn't necessarily impossible for you.

Hope this helps. =)



so usually when i have sex with my boyfriend, were going at it and then he slips out of me. everytime it happens. its kind of awkward... does anyone know why this is happening or how to fix it. he said it was because i was going to low. but i don't know what that means so any help is great! thanks guys (link)
Try having him on top and see if that works. It's completely normal, it happens to me and my boyfriend every once in a while.

But if you want to be on top, I've read that you can go in a sort of circular motion while doing it. I tried it and I didn't like it but you can try.

Here's some other positions to try and see if they work out better for you guys.

http://sexinfo101.com/sp_womanontop.shtml


i was wondering what kind of bra you would wear with this shirt, if any?

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_347592_-1_12646_12635 (link)
A good strapless bra. I suggest Victoria's Secret. However depending on your breast size, if they aren't like huge or anything you might not even need to wear one. =)


14/f

well i want to shave my legs for the first time. and i was wondering if it is possible to use an electrical shaver...

will it hurt me?!!

are there any side affects??!!

thnx.lots. (link)
hey

no, it won't hurt you. there's a net preventing the blade from touching your actual skin.

only side effect is that it might tickle you if you're really ticklish! haha cause it vibrates.

:]



i was talking to this guy online who i've had sex with before. we were talking about doing it again and he mentioned me giving him head, and he said he wanted to use a condom. I told him i wouldnt want to because i am a little bit allergic to latex and i just think that would be really nasty. so i asked him why he wanted a condom while getting head anyways and he said he just did. i got kind of suspicious and asked if he had an std or something and he said no but i kind of dont beleive him. he kind of seems like the type who would lie so i would have sex with him again,but do you think that seems kind of suspicious or am i overreacting? (link)
Yeah...
It is weird...
I mean men hate CONDOMS.




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