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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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what does this mean..
Did she actually give him head

Did she actually suck his penis?

I need some cute little love sayings,
And pickup lines would work too :]
Help please.

I use www.wittyprofiles.com. They have some good quotes for like everything.

As for pick up lines, ask Mike. Haha, he's smooth & he knows a few. Here's his column:

http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=MikeCFT

OK, so there is this really nice/cute guy in one of my classes and I can always feel him staring at me. How do.. i guess... "make a move" on him, or get him to notice me or to talk to me. I'm not really an outgoing person, so its not like i would just go up to him.

Say hi. It's not that hard to go up to someone & say it. He's looking at you, you're looking at him, so make a move. You know he's interested, so this should be easy.

in science class i have to do a project on a hypothesis and give like the independent and depenedent variables and all that good stuff. blecchh. so anyway, does anyone have any good // creative ideas on what i could use? like "my sister can drink a milkshake faster than my mom" or something? please&thankyou. =)

See if someone can drink a gallon of milk in an hour. You'll have such a hard time trying to prove that somebody can because it's supposed to be impossbile. Try it anyways, it could be fun.

What do you do when your best friend is a lesbian?!?!?!?!

thanks in advance!

Accept them & get over the fact that not everyone is straight.

Small minded imbeciles piss me off.

Ok, so I'm going on my first date ever this Saturday night. Exciting!! Well, I'm not assuming that on the first date I'm going to kiss this guy, but it doesn't hurt to be prepared, right?

I have never been told I have bad breath, but that's something I'm COMPLETELY paranoid about, all the time. I brush my teeth every day, of course, and I chew gum constantly, but I'm always worried about it.

We're going to dinner, so I know not to order garlic or any of that stuff, but is there anything I can do to make sure I'm minty fresh the entire date?

Sorry if this is a weird question. I worry about the most random things.

Pop mints whenever you can, or go to the bathroom after dinner & brush your teeth in there. It could be weird, but it's always good to be prepared, haha.

alright, well i'm almost 16 years old and i have never done anything with a guy. i've never had a boyfriend and i just kind of feel out of place. people in my school are really... "physical" and i think that they are crazy for half of the things they do. i guess my question is how far do people really go at my age? is it weird that i haven't done anything? i mean its not that i don't want to, but i was just wondering.

Farther than you think they're going. Kids as young as 13 are doing sexual acts & they shouldn't be. I think that there is no age limit to these things, but a mature limit. It depends on how mature you are. It can interact with age though.

People go really far at this age such as sex & other things like that. It's definitely not weird that you haven't done anything because that's good. You stick to your morals [or you're not ready] & either is okay. Don't open your legs if you don't want to. Do things when you're ready to. =)

Guys at my school are just weird. Like they're either too cocky [like ooh look at me] or to nerdy. I finally got the rep i wanted and i just know i'm going to loose it next year [high school] but anywho i recentlyy kinda started crushing on this guy but i've never really talked to him. He's cute but i don't really know him. --i'd really like to though. People say he's a jerk but i dunno i wanna find out myself i guess. Well, i think he thinks i'm a big humungo fake prep or something because the class i'm in i get realllly hyper... but it's just me. I'm not shy i would go up to him i just don't know what to say. The problem is; i went out with his friend for about a week. and apparantly he likes me again - i feel bad but i just don't like him like that. Now, i bet he thinks i'm a even bigger "prep" - sometimes i really hate that title but people who know me know i'm not like that. I think he overheard me talking to a friend about his friend liking me again...it slipped but i said he's got chicken legs and he's really annoying. Yes, i know its kind of weird. I guess the main question is how can i start a convo with him with out him thinking i major prep or a mess. or weird. i really kind of want to go out with him sometime or something. Help? thanks a lot!!

-arehjdklaf

p.s. i promise i'm not as big as a prep as it sounds..lol i'm a cheerleader but i just made it this year i'm just really hyper and outgoing a lot. --do guys really like that and what do they like in a girl???

The best thing to do is just say hi. No better way to strike up a conversation but with a hello. I'm sure he's not gonna look at you funny or leave you hanging. If he does, then he's the jerk people said he was & you shouldn't bother with him. If he doesn't like your opinion of his friend, then that's too bad. Opinions are opinions & you can't change them. I mean, you could be wrong, you could be right but it's what you think & you deserve a say. Everyone does.

For what guys like -- it depends on the guy. All guys like different things. Some guys like loud, hyper girls. Some guys like the shy, sweet girls who tend to be quiet. Some guys like girls inbetween those two. It all depends on the guy, so what one guy might like, another might hate.

So my and my boyfriend have been going out for a month now.. and umm we havent done anything like not even held hands .. and no his is not prude.. he is experienced.. and i can tell he is planing to do something soon.. what can i do to lead him on..

If you wanna do things with him now like hold his hand or kiss him, then just do it. I'm sure he'll get the hint & follow your lead. If he doesn't do so, and pulls back -- don't think it's because he doesn't like you. He probably just likes moving slow because he's not the type to jump down a girl's pants within a week or whatever of dating. If he wants to move slow, respect his decision & don't force him to do anything, but hold his hand if you'd like. =)

ok well, there's this girl; Paige i'll use names because it's eaiser. Well we were best friends since like 6th grade and we got in a fight about a month ago and we're good now. BUT, while we weren't friends she became really good friends with this girl who i hate, Lauren. I just don't like her. I could go on it's just too long. Anyway, i really didn't care because i had other friends too but they started doing EVERYTHING and then they both are going to the same high school- i'm not. They both made a sports team lauren's getting a big head- Paige isn't. Well recently my friend Nick and Clayton ran into lauren and she threatened nick to talk to paige and maybe ask her out. and pretty much grabbed him by the shirt and said ask her out soon or you'll die. Clayton and Nick told me and i really believe them. Nick's scared to death because he doesn't really like Paige. Paige, doesn't know what her new BFF - Lauren did. Should i tell her or just keep my mouth shut? I'm just afraid Paige is going to get hurt...again. and i hate it because somehow it'll come back on me. Please, help!

sorry it's long

Well, she should be hearing this from Nick. Since you weren't there, it could be hard to believe. I mean, if I told you hit my friend or whatever, would you believe me if I wasn't there? Probably not. I mean, you could say you weren't there but then they'd ask "Well how do you know?" All I know is that "Someone told me.." doesn't sound very convincing.

Get Nick to tell her. It happened to him so that's who she should hear it from. If she doesn't believe him, then Clayton could jump to the spot as a witness because he was also there. Yes, she might confront her "friend" about it, but Lauren sounds like the type of girl to deny things like that, so you guys could look like liars. Potentionally though, if she doesn't believe you, don't worry. She'll come to her senses. Besides, she's known you longer & if she takes Lauren's lies over your truth, then she's pathetic.

Alright so, if you're going to try to talk me out of this..don't bother answering it.

alright.
I want to loose weight, and fast.
i don't care if it's "safe" or not.
i just want to loose it.
i'm notn a freakishly tiny girl trying to get smaller, so don't wory about that.

i want personal experiences or other ways to loose weight FAST FAST FAST

15 year old female.

thanks ohh so much!

It depends on how much weight you wanna lose. If you wanna lose like 15lbs or more before summer, let me tell you now it will not happen. Maybe by the end of the summer & beginning of the school year, but no way before summer.

If you wanna lose weight, just start eating healthier. Cut out junk food, fast food, candy & soda's. Eat veggies, fruits & meats. It's best to eat things that are grilled rather than fried because fried foods tend to have lots of grease. Drink lots of water & milk. Eat yogurt. It helps to lose weight, and they have special yogurt for it. Run & exercise. You can have a healthy diet & still NOT lose weight if there's no exercise. So do both. Do not exercise or eat before bed & you should be set.

If your scab comes out, does that mean that your cut will become a scar?

Most of the time, but not always.

oka to make a long story shorth there this guy at my school that i cant stand he gets on my last nerves. One because he always talkin about people eveyday,everytime,every min. Its like getting on my nerves and then he alwayz judge someone on how they dress or he be calling peopl ugly right in front of thier face.And he alwayz hang around girl he dont have any boys as friends just girl and people be saying that he is gay and all that stuff and i think so to casue he walk like a gilr, and talks like one but dont dress like one. So what bugs me is that he is soooooooo mean. So my quetion is what is this i mean its soo stupid!

Who cares what he talks like, acts like or walks like? If you don't like him then stay away from him. You claim he talks about people but then you're no better than him because you're running your mouth about him to us. Just ignore him & learn not to be a hypocrite.

I had unprotected sex on Friday night. Two days later on Sunday I started my period. Can I still be pregnant?

You're on your period. You probably aren't pregnant. Next time, use protection.

k so i'm 5'5" 110 lbs (16 yrs, female). i'm pretty skinny like the top half of me but my legs are kinda fat. i've cut back on food and i'm doing 700cal workouts everyday (on the elliptical) but my legs aren't getting any thinner.. how many cals should i restrict myself to everyday and is there anything else i can do to sget my legs skinnier.. i don't really want muscle mass just for them to be thin.

Start running. You're not going to lose weight by just cutting your portions & your calorie intake. Exercise is a huge part of weight loss.

ok,so me and my bf are okay and stuff, but the thing is we have terrible phone and aim conversations, we're good when its in person but on phone/aim we're both wicked shy. and i have like nooo idea what to talk about! any idea to make things more interesting?

Wow, that's certainly the other way around. I'd be more shy in person than I would be on AIM.

Just talk about the things you would in person. It's not all that different.

Is it too late to reserve and book a cruise for June 22nd when I want to travel to Mexico and I live in Rhode Island?

I think you still can.

they've been skipping alot.
like i think i got it in dec. but didnt get it again til april and havent gotten it yet this month either.
its been skipping ALOT.

should i go to the doctor and suggest birth control?

16/f.

It could be that you're underweight, but it depends when you got your period as well. If you just got it, it's going to be irregular for the first couple of years. I got mine when I was 13, and it still isn't regular. I'm 16 now. If it worries you anyways, see a doctor & suggest birth control to possibly even it out.

there is a girl who likes me alot and yesterday we went with a group to an amusement park where i was just kind of messing around and hit her neck and she told me to kiss it and so i did kind of as ajoke but she said it gave her the chills and i dont really want to be involved in a relationship right now and i have told her this but i keep flirting with her and i dont want to hurt her, what to do?

Stop flirting with her. The only thing you're doing right now is making her believe she has a chance at being your girlfriend when she really doesn't. If you don't want a relationship, stop sending her mixed signals & making her think you do. If you do this now, it won't hurt as much. But regardless of what you do, it's going to hurt.

in the movie clueless, with alicia silverstone, can someone tell me what she is saying, word for word, near the end when chers walking by herself and shes like "im in love with josh."

Google it.

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