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What do you do when your best friend is a lesbian?!?!?!?!
thanks in advance!
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Don't overreact. It's normal, people have different sexuality. Some are bi, some are straight n some her gay n lesbians. Just accept them for who they are. You dont want to be a bad friend and just abandon your friend just cause she's lesbian. Be a good friend and accept her for who she is.
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Accept them & get over the fact that not everyone is straight.
Small minded imbeciles piss me off.
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IT'S ME I'M THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM (BET YOU DIDN'T SEE THIS COMMING)
I LOVE YOU A.D. aka chika (im a non gay way..............well maybe a little gay)
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suport them?
theres nothing rong with that
i mean shes not hitting on you or anything
i mean if your homophobic then....i dont know what to say
--ashley
luv her for who she is!
im bi i know how it feels
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you should be a good friend and not let it bother you. that's the best thing to do. comfort her and make her feel like it's alright. i know it's different and weird but if she doesn't hit on you odds are you wont even notice. just go on like you did before you knew.
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MAEK SEXY TAIME, YAES!
no, I jest.
if they're gay, that's that. it's their choice and it's not harmful to their health. support them!
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i just found out that my best friend is bi. Yeah it is kind of weird at first, but just because it is a little different does not mean it should ruin your friendship. You have to tell your friend straight out that you are obviously not a lesbian and you have no plans of becoming one and going out. You should suport her in her decision, its not really her decision its just who she is and she cant exactly change that. It not something you wake up in the morning and say 'well today i think im going to to be a lesbian', its probaly something that has been bothering her for a while. Its not easy being gay/lesbian in todays society. People make fun of them and can really do some hurtful things. Just because your best friend is attaracted to the same sex does not mean that you two can not be close or still be friends. But you are going to have to get used to the fact that when you are togeather that you may be cheakin gout guys, and she may be cheaking out girls. Life is not exactly going to be the same for her, it is going to get a little harder. she is going to need your love an support.
Hope this helped
-amy
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You dont do all that much. You continue to be her friend without concerning yourself too much with her sexuality.
The only time it should really be of any concern to you is if she begins to act inapropriately towards you. If she is a good friend, who knows you are straight, this should not happen (though if it does you need to make her understand what is and is not acceptable).
In the end it should be no different than being just friends with a guy. The real problem is getting accustomed to the change. It will take some getting used to, but you will probably come out ok.
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