there is a girl who likes me alot and yesterday we went with a group to an amusement park where i was just kind of messing around and hit her neck and she told me to kiss it and so i did kind of as ajoke but she said it gave her the chills and i dont really want to be involved in a relationship right now and i have told her this but i keep flirting with her and i dont want to hurt her, what to do?
A. Stop flirting with her so that you wont hurt you as bad by not wanting a relationship.
B. Give her a chance and try dating her. I know you said that you don't want to right now or whatever, but you obviously like her a little if your flirting with her, so... maybe you should give it a try.
Either way, dear, its just not fair to keep leading her on. I hope you understand. Best of luck, hun, and let me know if you need anything else, I always here! [ LilBSUBabe08's advice column | Ask LilBSUBabe08 A Question ]
christina answered Monday May 14 2007, 9:28 am: Stop flirting with her. The only thing you're doing right now is making her believe she has a chance at being your girlfriend when she really doesn't. If you don't want a relationship, stop sending her mixed signals & making her think you do. If you do this now, it won't hurt as much. But regardless of what you do, it's going to hurt. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
xo_minela answered Monday May 14 2007, 12:02 am: Well first off, usually when you kiss someone or do something like that- a girl will think you like her, and it'll make her like you more. Maybe she dosen't want to be in a relationship either, and she's just playing around with you. But on the other hand maybe she does really like you, if you dont want to hurt her then simply just stop flirting with her, like when you talk to her don't be all flirty and dont kiss her or play around like that because that will give her the vibe that you like her. But then again, maybe you could give her a chance, it's all up to you! Good Luck xoxo Minela [ xo_minela's advice column | Ask xo_minela A Question ]
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