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My and my boyfriend!! So my and my boyfriend have been going out for a month now.. and umm we havent done anything like not even held hands .. and no his is not prude.. he is experienced.. and i can tell he is planing to do something soon.. what can i do to lead him on..
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If you wanna do things with him now like hold his hand or kiss him, then just do it. I'm sure he'll get the hint & follow your lead. If he doesn't do so, and pulls back -- don't think it's because he doesn't like you. He probably just likes moving slow because he's not the type to jump down a girl's pants within a week or whatever of dating. If he wants to move slow, respect his decision & don't force him to do anything, but hold his hand if you'd like. =) ]
Don't force him to do anything. Give him time. Forcing and pushing a relationship to see what you can get out of it (like holding hands or kissing or making out, etc.) only leads to problems later in the relationship. Trust me, its so much more rewarding to just let him do it and wait until your both ready to do something as simple as hold hands..
but if you don't want to take that advice, just be proactive and hold his hand instead of waiting for him to do it.
--Jack ]
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