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So there is this guy and well he really likes me, I fooled around with him for a while, but got really bored of him, now he text messages me and Calls me and he's even said he comes to my house in the middle of the night in his car and watches it all night cause he misses me, he seems really weird, what should I do?

Erm, he seems like he's being extremely clingy. Unless you want him to call you every day and say 'where have you been' 'why weren't you here' 'you're 2 minutes late i was worried!', then I suggest that you not pursue the relationship.

He seems stalkerish also.

editt -- I agree with the above posts. He seems like a stalker, and if he goes to far, he can go to jail. Such as spying on you when you're changing and stuff like that. Just be careful.

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I really would like to learn how to do internet and web design. How do i go with it to learn how to do it???

This is how I started.

My friend got me started with webdesign, but I can help you out.


Lissaexplains.com is a GREAT website. The website is run by Lissa, of course, who takes you through a step by step guide on how to do different HTML and stuff. It's a huge help.

Also, go on google, and type in beginners html or something like that, and you should get a lot of links.

I started out by making my sites on freewebs.com It's a free web host and you have a good amount of space to start out with.

Good luck!

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okay i was on this website and this guy got my aim s/n from it and we started talking. he kept askin me so many questions like what do you look like? how old you are? where i go to school at? and if i have a b/f. so i answered everything not honestly cuz i dont no if he is a stalker.lol. then he finally asked if we could meet sometime. my question is should i continue to talk to him because it seems like he wants a relationship which would mean we have to meet. and i do not want to meet with him in real life cause of all those sick people out there. so should i continue to talk to him or what do i do? will rate high. thanks!

Don't talk to him.

Block him.

Do whatever to stay away from him.

Don't get in too deep.

He can be a fat 40 year old guy.

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Does anyone know were i can listen to samples of whole albums online before i buy them ? i know amazon has it but not on all of their cds.I would really apperciate it if anyone could find or know another site to where i can find it thank you.

I think that Walmart is a good source for 30 second music samples.

Go to walmart.com and go the the dropdown list and select music, then type in the artist. Find your album, and see if they have samples.

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my friend is mad at me because of a misunderstanding. i have tried everything, but no matter what i do she refuses to be my friend. I have told her i was sorry more times than i can count. i was literally in tears before because her friendship means a lot to me. i even told her this. she has blocked me on aim and wont answer her phone because my name shows on the caller id... and she wont talk to me at school. there is no way i can get through to her that it was a misunderstanding. i feel awful and i don't know what to do....please help.

This has happened to me before.

You shouldn't feel awful, because if she was being a true friend, she would understand. To me, she's being stubborn. Just go with it and if she isn't talking to you, don't come up to her and be like 'omg i'm so sorry pleasepleaseplease be my friend again!' because you are making yourself seem desperate and you are taking all of the blame.

In my situation, my friend actually apologized first.

Just wait a little bit, if nothing happens, then you know that she isn't being considerate about a simple mistake.

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when people are asking who my friend's crush is
i always say"i dont know" or "she never told me"to protect her secret.
after that i tell my friend and say"T was asking who you like" am i being blabbermouth or helping my friend?

im from spain.

You are helping your friend out.

A blabbermouth is someone who says stuff sometimes without even thinking at first.

You are helping your friend out because she never specifically asked you to tell others about her crush.

You kept her secrets, and thats what keeps your friendship close.

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i want to get my eyebrows waxed. does it hurt? how do you take care of them once you do it? is it a good idea? how do you know how to get yours done (like shape if you know what i mean)and do you get to choose it or does the person doing it choose? is there better places to get them done or is it all about the same? im kind of worried about it if i do it i dont want to mess them up and have them look worse than they do now with nothing done to them. andything will help, moral support, answers to these questions, and tips and hints

thanks

My mom does a wax on my eyebrows with her own wax machine thing. It doesn't hurt after awhile, but it can hurt the first couple of times.

Make sure that the person who does your wax knows what they are doing.

My mom went to a cosmetology school so that's how she knew.

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i am going to be redoing my room this summer and i cant seem to find any furniture i like online...

im looking for a few things in particular-

-a dark walnut stain bar stool (round seat, not padded)
-a dark walnut corner desk/desk
-a dark walnut bookshelf
-a dark walnut armoir that is longer than it is tall.

sites and stores are appreciated, thank you!

You can try some antique stores, maybe?

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does anyone knows a great slow jam songs?
can u please give me a 10 at least and thanks a lot =)

Give Your Baby A Standing Ovation - The Dells

Float On - The Floaters

Easy - Commodores

Lean On Me - Bill Withers

Love Ballad - L.T.D. Featuring Jeffrey Osborne

Special Lady - Ray, Goodman And Brown

Didn't I (Blow Your Mind This Time) - The Delfonics

Have You Seen Her - The Chi-Lites

Just My Imagination (Running Away With Me) - The Temptations

I'll Be There - Jackson 5

I Want You - Marvin Gaye

Me And Mrs. Jones - Billy Paul

Let's Stay Together - Al Green

Show & Tell - Al Wilson

Reunited - Peaches & Herb

'Cause I Love You - Lenny Williams

Until You Come Back To Me (That's What I'm Gonna Do) - Aretha Franklin

Neither One Of Us (Wants To Be The First To Say Goodbye) - Gladys Knight & The Pips

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In school i have to pick a historical figure and based on their backround write about when I think they think people become adults. I picked Martin Luther king jr. anf i have no idea what to write about please help!

There's the magical tool called Google.

In my opinion, everyone chooses MLK. I would choose someone like Madam CJ Walker, or Harriet Tubman. But, since you've already chosen, you can go on Google and there are literally thousands of links out there for you. Make sure that you don't copy everything word-for-word, but you can look at their biographies, DOB, ect.

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I am not huge but I have a little fat around my stomach and thighs, and I have love handles. I never wear tight shirts and I feel weird in swim suits. I really would love to make my love handles smaller and my thighs that is my main goal. I have been working pretty hard but it seems like even though I am eating more healthy and working out more than I ever have, I am just gaining weight! I do situps every day and I play sports every once in awhile but the main reason for my weight gain is that I am taking Seasonal, birth control pill, and it makes you gain weight easily. I am 14 and I have always been so small but recently I gain weight so easily. I eat healthy every once in awhile but I still LOVE my junk food. I try my hardest to cut back and I wish I could still eat the way I do and lose weight. With that said I am going to have to work extra hard and excercise twice as much because of the pill and my not-so-good eating habits. Now that you know about me, what I need help with is how do I lose weight quickly and how do I lose a lot without making myself miserable? Please help me. I keep gaining more and more weight and it makes me so sad! Thanks.

This actually works.

Eat healthy and organic food, go to the gym every other day.

My mom has been doing that for 2 months now, and she's been watching her calories, and she's lost 6 pounds.

My aunt, who goes to the gym every day, and does a bunch of cardio, has completely toned her thighs and is even forming a six pack.

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I've been waking up say 5 or 3 in the morning for the past few nights.

I don't even know why, it's so weird.
I usually wake up with my covers kicked off my bed.

I don't remember having a nightmare or dream or anything. I don't know why this is happening?

Any ideas on why it's happening and how to prevent it? 5 stars to anyone who helps!

Thats me. Right there.

Maybe you could like, wrap yourself sorta like a cocoon when you start to sleep?

Relax a little before you go to bed. Take a nice, calming bath.

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whats the difference between true friend and friend?

im from korea......

A true friend is someone who wants to be with you by choice, not by obligation.

A true friend will cry when you cry.
A friend will feel like they have to provide you with a shoulder to cry on.

A friend will bail you out of jail.
A true friend will be sitting next to you saying 'damn that was fun!'

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I'm doing this thing for my boyfriend for our one year aniversary...and well I need 365 reason why I love him. However I'm having a terrible time with creativity. So if you could just tell me some of the things you love about your Bf/Gf/crush that would be great. I won't steal your ideas, I'm hopeing they will remind me of my guy

Thanks

I can be myself when I am with you.
Your idea of romance is dimlights, softmusic, and just the two of us.
Because you make me feel like,like, like I have never felt before.
I can tell you anything, and you won't be shocked.
Your undying faith is what keeps the flame out of love alive
You and me together, we can make magic.
We're a perfect match.
Thinking of you, fills me with a wonderful feeling.
Your love gives me the feeling, that the best is still ahead.
You never give up on me, and that's what keeps me going.
You are simply irresistible
I love you because you bring the best out of me.
Your terrific sense of humor
Everytime I look at you, my heart misses a beat
You're the one who holds the key to my heart
You always say what I need to hear (You are perfect).
You have taught me the true meaning of love.
Love is, what you mean to me - and you mean everything.
You are my theme for a dream.hollm106.gif
I have had the time of my life and I owe it all to you.
When I look into your eyes, I can see your heart.
Your love for me is a natural anti-depressant.
I love to hear your voice.
Your love has helped me to rediscover myself.
Your love is an effective anti-dote to despair.
I love to wake up with you by my side...It makes my days better.
You always make me feel that you are by my side no matter what.
I love that feeling of being secure when you wrap your arms around me.valen055.gif
I love the way you keep your cool when I do something stupid.
Just being with you feels like I can defy the whole world.
You mean the world to me.
I like your small gestures that speak volumes about how much you care.
I love the way you treasure the gifts that I gave you.
And, of-course, your intelligence, 'cause you were smart enough to fall in love with me


got these from a site on google

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If the guy you like, asked you if you liked him, what would you say? Should you tell him the truth and take the risk, or just tell him you don't like him and keep it all inside for him to find out?
Thanks.

Be comfortable. I would say something like 'did you catch the season premiere of [insert show name]' or have you heard [insert song here]. Tell him the truth. Don't play the 'hard to get' act because he might get the wrong message and not be interested.

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tomorrow i am meetin my boyfriend of 10 months mom. i would like to know some do's and dont's about. i was wondering if it would be okay to wear make-up and what is something to wear. thanks 4 everyone who answers. i will rate

DO -
Be comfortable.
Compliment her hair, outfit, home, ect.
Bring up some real life topics. If she's someone who watches the news a lot and is into the current things that are happening, bring up a topic about whats going on in the world.
Wear something nice and classy. Don't wear like a huge wedding dress or something, be simple.
Be simple with your makeup. Put a little eyeshadow on. Some mascara, maybe even some eyeliner. Go for a coral/light pink color for your lips. And some light blush.

DON'T -
Wear something skanky that shows a lot of cleavage or wear a really short skirt and fishnets, that'll definitely send the wrong message.
Don't be nervous!
Start making out with your boyfriend at the dinner table or something.
Burp, slurp, ect.

Best of luck!

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well, i was in my bf's room a few weeks ago and he left for a moment, and i found a piece of paper saying "her" with an email address. I got immediately suspicious and remembered the email.
Later I added the email using a fake account and it turned out to be his ex! I started talking to her out of curiosity and we became "friends" she soon started going on about her ex and I know it was my bf she was referring to. i know they had been together a very long time and i think he really liked her, but the rest of the details of the relationship he didn't tell me because he knew i would be jealous. we were only friends when he was dating her. now i'm finding out all sorts of things, and i've found out he's lied to me about a few things from his past. she's also made out that he still isn't over her but she is over him. he told me he was over her. i really didn't mean to find this stuff out. the more i find out, the more upset i get. besides, i keep comparing myself to her because she's older than me and has had so many bfs and experience, and my bf seemed to like her more than me!

what should i do? should i continue speaking to her, or tell my bf everything and confront him? i feel awful about it now.. i wish i had never added her because it was going behind his back. but i also feel i need to keep speaking to her to find out the truth. this is a hopeless situation - please help? thank you

I don't think that you should've snooped his room like that. That's a violation of privacy. The best thing that you can do is talk to him. It's kind of hard to decide the resolution since he did something bad and so did you.

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Okay, so I was at this party one time, & this boy says that he likes me, & asks me out.
I had a BIG crush on him at the time, so of course, i said yes.
A few days later, he says that he was only kidding, & he didn't like me. He only asked me out because his friends dared him to.
On the last day of school, he asks me out... AGAIN. What am i supposed to do? Should i believe him, or not?

Tell him no.

He is obviously trying to get to you, or is trying to use you.

Don't fall for it, hun. Chances are, he'll break your heart.

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i REALLY want to shop at a&f and hollister and stores like that. it's not because everyone else does, it's because personally i like there clothes. my parents make me shop at wal mart and it's messing up my social life. i hate wal mart's clothes and shit and my friends ask me why i don't wear the good brands. and it's not like my family can't afford good clothes, because my dad's a multi millionaire. they just don't understand WHY i want to spend so much on clothes. i've made up my mind and don't tell me it doesn't matter what i wear because i'll give you a 1. i need to prove to my parents that shopping at the expensive stores is worth it. and i can't make any money on my own because if i do, my parents say I CANT spend it on a&f and hollister clothes. it's messing up my social life. i wont have friends ever again because i cant wear nice clothes. im done with wal mart so what can i say to my parents so they'll let me shop where i want ?!? i'm old enough to choose where i want to purchase my clothes, especially when my dad was over 1 million dollars.

anything good will get you a 5
i promise

I don't care if you give me a 1. But, you are being incredibly inconsiderate. Your parents are trying to teach you a lesson incase you haven't noticed. My parents have money too, but I actually prefer getting stuff at Gordmans because they have the exact same things that JCPenney's has and all of those other stores, but for half the price. I want to save money for my parents because I know that we need it for something other than high priced clothes. If that's going to ruin your social life, then do you even HAVE one if it revolves around clothing?

edit - get over yourself.

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i'm thinking about working at smoothie king this summer. does anyone know how much you make there per hour?

I love smoothie king. Yumm.

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