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Q: is it bad to want you parents to get a divorce? because you dont really like your dad or something? cause i feel bad, but i kinda want them to split up :( i feel really bad...
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i think its ok. talk to both ur mom and dad. or just talk to ur mom on how u dont like ur dad very much. explain everything though! hope i helped! good luck! rate me please!
xoxo, maris
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Q: i am looking for a curly wet look or something else that looks cool with out using any products and i have dirty blonde hair if that helps thankz
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when i do a curly or wet look, i just go in the shower so my hair is wet then just use gel and scruch it. i like it alot and it really works. just put gel in the palm of one of your hands, put some on the other, tilt your head so ur hair is on one side, and start to scruch it. hope i helped! rate me please!
xoxo, maris
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Q: When I get my period i get HORRIBLE cramp! Sometimes theres so bad i can't go to school or do anything all day! Do know some way to get relief ?
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go to the pharmacy and and try to find some pain releiver or ask ur mom and she can help get it. if that doesnt work, go 2 the doctors, they always have a solution!
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Q: what are some signes that you are stalking people??? seriously i need to know..
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Some signs are, when you only think about them, never stop looking at them, and don't stop talking about them. Also, never stop following them. Hope I helped! Rate me please!
xoxo, Maris
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Q: my lil bro had a bbsitter cuz i waz out... and when i came home she was screemin and yellin @ him. She grabbed his arm and he said to our dog.. "Daizee help help! Help Daiz!!!" the dog didnt do ne thing... but ne way.... shud i tell my parents?
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Def. tell your parents. They need to know. You never know what she may do next time. Rate me please! Hope I helped!
xoxo, Maris
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Q: for a 7 year-old kid who's nice and who would listen to me (easy babysitting) how much shopuld i charge?
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I would say $5. I babysat for 4 hours and only watched the kids for 1 hr 30 min and got payed 40 bucks. But I would say $5. My bro has been babysittin for a while and he usually charges $5.
Rate me please! Hope I helped!
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Q: Hi JennaRESPECTS i am really upset. Im really worried that my best friend is avoiding me. I dont want to ask her because i dont want her to get mad at me. But i dont know what to do to find out if she is or not. what should i do? Help me please.. she means ALOT to me. I love her alot. Thanks so much!
Sincerley,
Confused and Worried.
My real name is alli.. but thats how i feel
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If you think your friend is avoiding you, you should confirm it with her. You need to tell her how you feel and what you think. She may get angrey but, she really shouldn't. It is her prob. not yours! Rate me please! Hope I helped!
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Q: OMG!! I really can't take this anymore! Ok well all my friends and all are like you changed blah blah!! ANd i dont get the bigg deal it not like they havent changed either! Just cuz im turnin a lil Skater !!! I dont get the big deal and im really sick and tired of it .. what should i do and i tried talkin 2 them but it doesnt work at all !! Please Help me !! I dont kno what i wanna do and i feel like ______
Signed
FED UP!
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u need to b really serious with them when u talk to them. tell them u r serious and that u are fed up with them bein mean 2 u. if they keep bein mean to u forget them, or just give them a taste of their own medicine. hope i helped! rate me!
xoxo, maris
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Q: ok well im 14 and like 2 years ago i some how started talking to one of my older brothers friend online like alot!(he's really hot) and like we would go off and on with talking and stuff and like ive started to REALY like him and now he's leaving for collage tomarrow and im so upset about him leavng but i knwow how i feel dosnet make a differense to him and its not like i dont want him to go i just idk im so confused i can really us soem help!
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look, it's okay. i know how you feel. it will blow over, i no it will. u will prob. find some1 else. dont let it worry u 2 much. think about the happy times u 2 had 2gether online and stufff.
hope i helped! rate me!
xoxo, maris
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Q: i am 13 (almost 14) and a chick. i am like realli tall for my age (5'9") and i look way older than i realli am but i cant help it. and i am also deffinatly not ugly. but alot of guys that are older than me (16 and up) like constantly hit on me, whistle at me, check me out, flirt wit me, etc.,etc. what can i do to appeal to guys my own age?
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If an older boy hits on u again just walk away. Say "Don't you know i'm only 13?" They may consider how you are feeling or just walk away. I think by saying how old you are will make them think about it. They won't want to go out with a 13 year old. Good Luck! Hope I helped Rate me please1
xoxo, Maris
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Q: i'm going to be a freshman, and just got my braces off, and my teeth are kinda yellow. i heard that some of the teeth-whitening products don't really work & are too expensive. what should i do?! i can't go to highschool looking like this! please help!
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try using those crest white strips.... my friend used them and they worked GREAT!!!!!!! try brushing morn. and nite. hope i helped! rate me please!
xoxo, maris
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Q: hey i like my 2nd best friend hes also my best friends ex b/f should i like him or should i froget about him she says its ok but is she really ok with it
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i think u should ask her if its def. OK!!! otherwise, she may b angrey. i think it would b ok. if shes ur b/f she'll b fine with it! i think its also ok 2 like ur b/f. rate me please! hop i helped!
xoxo, Maris
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Q: my neighbor is a 13 year old female and im a 14 year old male. she stalks me and she likes but id ont like her like she likes me wat do i do?
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let her down ezy, tell her she is really cool and all (lie and say): i dont think im ready 4 a relationship. shelll stop and 4get u. good luck! rate me! hope i helped!
xoxo, Maris
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Q: OK this might be long but i really need some advice there this girl i really like i talk to her and i told her i like her i but i never ask her out and im in love with this girl before i can ask her out she going out with some1 elese and i still love her and i talk about her every day and think about her every day what should i do
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Try to steal her back. If, she doesnt talk 2 u or pay any attention 2 u, forget her, dont watse ur time on some1 who may not like u. u could always find some1 better!
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Q: theres this kid i really like and he likes me too so he asked me out last night and i said yes. then today hes like i like yoo more as a friend so want to be just that so im like sure , but i dont know how to act towards him now, do i be friendly or ignore him, i dont know what to do.
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well. frist that was pretty rude of him 2 ask u out then back out. he prob. got cold feet. it seems like u r ready for the experience, but he may not b. so, i think u should get ova him. find some1 better! u deserve someone diff.
rate me! good luck!
xoxo, Maris
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Q: hey! well i have 3 best friends, and this summer, I havent spent that much time with them because we have all been really busy with our own seperate activities. I really want to set up something fun that we can all do together, becasue i really want to spend some time doing something fun with my friends before we go back to school. does anyone have any ideas on what wecan do? are there any fun amusment parks that anyone knows of? let me know. thanx guys!
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Well, amusement parks are always fun, but also, maybe take a day trip some where, that would be fun. Or spend a few days at the beach, it is summer! Hope I helped! Rate me please!
xoxo, Maris
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Q: I'm going into highschool this year, and none of my friends from my old school are going there. I had a crush on this guy named Isaac, but he says he doesn't like me, even though he flirts with me like crazy! What are some ways I can hang out with him, without it seeming too... intimate? Oh yea and I'm a girl.
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Sit with him at lunch or do something fun together like to go an arcade or something boys like to do. It won't be a date, just something fun! Hope I helped! Rate me Pleae!
xoxo, Maris
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Q: my best friend went away to camp 4 the summa... n she met a girl that will b goin 2 r school (Georgetown High) this year ... and is goinn into the same grade... we met and she is a total snob... i have no clue wat my best friend Portia sees in her... well ne way... shud i tell her how i feel or just move on... i dont wanna lose my best friend forever!
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Tell her how you feel. You friend can still be friends with the other girl but tell Portia that you don't lioke to hang with her or be around her. Don't ruin your relationship! Hope I helped! Good luck! Rate me please!
xoxo, Maris
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Q: This weekend me and the gurls went to the movies. There was this guy there that i think is really cute. I dont plan on hooking up with him because i have a boyfriend and we are very much in love. Well, at the movies this guy just happened to be sitting next to me. My friends got up to go to the bathroom and i didnt which meant me and the guy we're sitting there all alone. I turned over and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. I was kinda shocked he would do that since he knew how much i really liked my bf. Then, the night went on and i wasnt even thinking about the whole kissing thing becuz after all he did kiss me i didnt kiss him... well after the movie ended i walked out of the theater and then i had to go back cuz i realized i 4got something. the guy was still there. i got my stuff then he put his arms around me and hugged me and kissed me on the cheek again. This time without even thinking i kissed him on the cheek back.. I wasnt even thinking about my boyfriend!! i am such a bad person!! i know most of u dont think of kissing some1 on the cheek a big deal but to me it is cuz i kno if my guy was kissing some gurl on the cheek i would be mad it him.. now i dont know what to do! I want to tell him but i know its going to hurt him and hes been hurt alot b4 this. But still think he should know. I have this guilt on my shoulders. If been avioding him since the whole incident... Should i tell him or not?
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I think you should definately tell him. Just say he kissed me first and he put his arms around me. You still love him but accedently, you kissed the other guy on he cheek. What you did was a complete mistake and you still love him. Say he's the only one for you. Rate me please! Hope I helped!
xoxo, Maris
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Q: There's this guy I like, He's my best friend but i don't know what to do about it, he also has a girlfriend, he's thinking of breaking up with her though. What should I do? signed hopeless romantic
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Tell him you like him.... maybe then he will dump his g/f and go with you. The only way to get a b/f or g/f is to tell that person you like them. Rate me please! Hope I helped! Good Luck!
xoxo, Maris
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bio
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Hey! I am Marissa and I'm 16. I live in South Carolina and I love to dance and laugh. I liek to give advice and help people a lot so feel free to ask me anything and I promise I will get back to you! &hearts
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: South Carolina Occupation: Student Age: 16 AIM: Member Since: August 3, 2004 Answers: 395 Last Update: September 2, 2007 Visitors: 25950
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