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likeing your friend
hey i like my 2nd best friend hes also my best friends ex b/f should i like him or should i froget about him she says its ok but is she really ok with it
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well ask her again if she is REALLY okay with it.. and if she is.. go for it.. but go slower.. and dont do a lot of stuff in front of her.... that could make her upset.. and dont be obsessive when u talk about him to her... omg thats soo annoying.. haha well hope it all works!!!<3
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ok sit ur friend down and ask her how she really feels tell her u wont go out with him unless shes ok with it..and if she is go 4 it
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U cant stop liking sumone just by sayin "I dont like this person no more". U dont have to stop liking anyone. its ok. But i bet if u and that boy go out she will be either jelous or mad. cuz thats how grlz r. but if u really like him u wont care and go out wit him anyways
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well just talk to her. If she says it is ok im sure it is ok. But she may not like you dating her ex. Some girls get mad because their best friends do that to them...TRUST ME ON THAT ONE. and if the guy ask you out and you say no..just say you cant do that to your best friend and that you don't want to hurt her.
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okay it depends do you think she could still like him? and if you know shes over him then i say go for it
..*..MarissA..*..
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i think u should ask her if its def. OK!!! otherwise, she may b angrey. i think it would b ok. if shes ur b/f she'll b fine with it! i think its also ok 2 like ur b/f. rate me please! hop i helped!
xoxo, Maris
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REgardless of wether or not she's okay with it ... she SAID she was. So if it messes stuff up later or she brings it back up you always have that ammunition. And when that comes around, which it might .. tell her that you took what she said to heart and you thought she was being honest with you but if you had even once thought she wasn't okay you wouldn't have done it and you're really sorry she feels that way.
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rating your best friends is the worst thing you can ever do. it hurts their feelings. i hope you never tell them that you rate them. it can hurt them forever and i dk what grade your in but thats something you shouldve learned already. im trying to help you out with this because it can be trouble in the future for you and your best friends. well also i dont think you should go out with your best friends ex even if she says its ok. most likely its not. hope i helped and hope you take my advice about rating your friends. it took me a whole year... maybe to forgive the person that did that to me. im still not sure if i forgive her. but i know ill never forget that she did that to me.
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WOW! that's weird.. that same situation happened with me and one of my good friends.. but ur story was her's... Bad thing was.. She asked me and I lied.. even though she should have noticed that I still liked him.. grr.. anyway.. first of all.. it's an unwritten rule NOT to go out with ur friend's exes.. I stand by it. However, if u reeaally like this guy, and can't just move on, if ur friend says she doesn't, and she'll confirm it over and over, go for him! Maybe he's worth it ^_^
Tell me how things go!
*Mayya
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Since he is youR best fRiends ex boyfRiend, I Reccommend asking youR fRiend foR appRoval. HoweveR, if you find that she is not okay with it, I'd dRop it and Respect heR wishes! Hope I helped!! =D
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well if she said it was alright then i guess it's ok for you to go out with him.
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it really depends on how she still feels about him. if she still likes him then i probably wouldn't go out with him but you can't really help liking someone! ask her about it
Good Luck!
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It really depends on your friend, and if she comfronts you about liking her ex, then tell her you do, but even if she said she was okay with the fact that you liked him. Hope it works out! :-)
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if she says she's OK with it .. then i guess that means it's a go! why would one of your best friends lie?! hmm... lots of reasons - but anyway, you should like him - and maybe even tell him! good luck =)
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