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I'm going to a banquet later this week and I got my outfit today, but the thing is, I have no idea what to do for my hair or make-up. Just something simple, but cute Any ideas?

(My hair is about shoulder-length and I'm wearing a white tanktop with a cute yellow sweater over it.)

I'd recommend a cute ponytail or just leaving it down [straight or a little wavy.

For the makeup I'd say do something "springy", very natural, like a pink or clear lipgloss along with maybe a little eyeliner or mascara. [Foundation will help your natural glow come out a tad also!]

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Recently I started likeing my best guy friend, (we've only been really good friends for about 8 months) And before we became good friends, we went out for a lil over a month. Now I like him, and he knows and he says he does too. Im really comfortable around him, but Im scared it will ruin our friendship.Because I think I will chicken out, because Im so use to being his friend, I dont know how to be his girlfriend..What do I do ?

Try it out, if it doesn't work, you can always be friends, even if its awkward at first! ♥

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hey everyone!
I was wondering if anyone knows a short skit (and script) for the 1950's? One that is appropriate for all kinds of audiences? I'm doing a short skit (around 10 mins) for my talent show.
If you don't know any can you give me ideas for a storyline or a movie i can get a skit from? (not grease)

umm please help!
thanks

try actorpoint.com, not sure if they have what you exactly need, but i've heard about it- GOOD LUCK.

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Hi, I'm 15 years old and I'm a female and there's this guy (Tom) in my class who I was dating for about 3 months but then I figured out that he was going out with OTHER girls, so I dumped him secretly. Now I'm falling for this other guy (Christopher) and I think he's falling for me, but then Tom said he appolagized and HE GAVE ME ROSES and it's SO hard to not love him but on the otherhand there's Christopher. I don't know who to chose! PLEASE HELP ME!~!~!~!~

wow. All i can say is FOLLOW YOUR HEART ♥

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Ok well here's my problem, my mom is like super christian and I think I wanna follow by the rules of buddah and I want to be boodist! but I still belive in god! I dunno what one to choose. And plus if I do decide to become budist I dont wanna tell my mom! I dont know what to Do! arg! help!

Okay, my friend is buddist [cant spell sorry]. I think you should watch the movie Little Buddha, read some books, and maybe go to a temple and see what its really like. Your mom will probably be shocked at first, but she will love you no matter what. ♥

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Ok well.. i know this is a really odd question.. but what do you wear under a skirt...?? like i dont know what to wear under them.. i have a bunch, but i never wear them because its like, i dont know what to wear under?! any help??

underwear of course! ♥ you might wanna try the outfit on just to make sure you can't see the underwear thru the skirt lol

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Ok well....Me and my boyfriend started going out a couple days ago but the thing is my sister likes him and everytime she sees him and me together at school she gets this look on her face.He is in her grade but he failed last yr. so he would of been in my grade.Well I've been knowing him and now that they him and my sister are in the same grade in some classes I really don't care that they talk or hang out but the way she makes me feel and tells me things that she "loves him" and all this bullshit I know she wouldn't do anything to hurt me but it does hurt me the things she says to make me seem like I don't deserve him.Plz help I don't know what to do!

Ignore your sister, she is jealous ♥ .. just trust your bf.

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out almost a month. During that time I have became really good friends with 2 of his best friends and I'm starting to like them. I liked the one before I started going out with my current boyfriend though. What should I do?

Don't break up with your boyfriend and immediately go out with his friends, but if you don't have an interest in him anymore, explain that you like him, but, your personalities don't click as well as you'd like them to. ♥ GOOD LUCK!

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ok so i like this guy from work...and he obviously lieks me back...he flirts all the time and he asked for my number.is it bad to date someone from work...i mean i dont even know if it would get that far...im just asking for furture referense...i read the code of conduct or whatever for my job..and they say you can date ppl from work but you have to tell the "big boss man" whoever the hell that is..and he has to give you persmission or sumthing weird liek that. But just in general is it wrong to date someone from work??

It's not wrong, but you might feel uncomfortable if it doesnt work out. ♥ good luck!

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Ok... I was in a porno Video cause i needed money to go to a school trip in France..! But now All of the guys at my school .. Are porno freaks.!! and all they want is sex from me..! i dont want to give sex to them cause i only did that 1 time to get money for a trip and all the girls think im a slutty ass bitch.. and im not i was always the nice girl and now after one mistake i am called a slut! All the guys try to talk me into sex but i dont want to.. when i go on a date i always get forced to hhave sex. its really annoying and bad.. I hate it and i dont even think i want to go on this trip. after all thats happening.. One of my friends told me that She over heard her boyfriend and his friend saying that this kid that goes to our school may rape me.. Im scared and i dont want to start more drama .. Not only that but the tape was sold on the internet. Im doomed for life. What do i do to repair my reputaion and stay away from getting raped..

any advice is apperciated..

Ps- IM NOT A SLUT!

I don't think you are a slut, but, it's a bit too late to repair your reputation. But then again, look at Paris Hilton. Don't let them treat you differently, I'm sure they have done things that they wouldn't want everyone to see on camera. Stay away from the group that "wants to rape you" and ignore it. ♥

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Well, my boyfriend has been away on spring break for the past week and a half and I miss him a lot. He told me to call him during the day, and nights to talk to him.(As I usually do) So, I tried calling the first night and his phone was off, the second night it was still off. Well, last night I finally got to talk to him on AIM, and he said he missed me & missed talking with me. I really miss him, too. And it made me real happy that he said that. Anyway, does anyone know anything I could say to him to make him feel like I really missed him? Because I dunno, he's always first to say those types of things, and I don't want him to feel like I don't like him. Thaaanks.

Ariel

Just hug him. lol, a gift might be a bit too much, so just tell him that you missed him, but don't overdo it =]

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Im an american but ive been living in England for two years, and im moving back to america for my senoir year in the summer.(back to the same school)Im going to have to take my SAT's in october as they dont have them here. Any advise from people who have already taken sat's? anything i should study? please help, because there's no one i can ask here!

Try www.ask.com for some study sites! If you have any friends, or know where you are going to take the SAT's, call them up and explain your predicament. ♥ GOOD LUCK!

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Is it true that sperm dies once air hits it??

Don't hold me to this- but I believe that it dies in 6 hours.

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Well, recently, My best friend told me what happened at a party when i was 14,i am now 16. As it turns out, at that party, there was some extesy going around. Someone snuck it into my drink. I was lead away from the party,to the basement. When i woke up from the extisy, A guy was inside of me. I was sexually assaulted. I tried to get away, but he hit me again to knock me out. I had a mental block of this night, and when my friend told me of what might of happened at that party, it all came falling down. I have horrible flashbacks. She is the only one who knows. I am having some weird pains in my stomache that started at age 15, i thought it was nothing, but as it turns out, i went to the doctor. When i went to the doctor, he revealed that i had aids. What do i do? He video taped it. one of my guy friends was looking at a porno site, and said they saw someone who looked extremely like me on a video. I asked for the site, and went to it. It was the man. The tape is on a porno site. I do not want people thinking i am that way, a porno star. What do i do about this whole horrible weekend?

I thought at that party i was just going to have fun.

Please help me.


I am sorry this is long.

I am so sorry to hear about this. I think there is a way you can get it off the web, because you didn't give him permission to tape it.

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i never do anything on the weekends except hang out at home... and with only one frined...i dont know what to do i want to start hanging out with more people but they always have plans

try a sport or something, go to the mall, make some more friends ♥

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i have these jeans that i want to put rinestones on. what kind of glue should i use???

Fabric glue ♥

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okay, there are these little boys i babysit for, and they are devils. i always try and to different activities *(crafts, cooking, movies, games)* with them, but they never like my ideas..what can i do with them?

DO NOT, i repeat DO NOT ever do cooking if they are devils lol, they'll probably make a huge mess.

Just find out more what they like, then try to create a game around that. Movies- sharktale, finding nemo, the incredibles, and shrek 1 or 2 always work with little kids, so try the movie thing again.

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Im babysitting a 4 yr old boy from 7:30am to 4:30pm and i need some ideas of things to do. I dont have a liscense so i cant drive anywhere and i live in maine.

Crafts, movies, games. ♥

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Hey..
me and my friend are together in a babysitting job and we love children so much and we just already let out flyers one,last year and once just recently the next year..on the 1st year flyer given out..no1 responded..the 2nd year one responded..liked our job..gave us $20 each for 1 1/2 hours...i know.. alot..o well..lol..back to the subject..ever since that day..no1 has responded..what should we do? send out more flyers or keep waiting or quit caring..what should we do??

thanks if u help..

Business cards, most def. ♥

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I have gone through a 14 hour babysitting course at Baylor Hospital, I am certified at the heimlech maneuver and CPR. I think that I am fully qualified to babysit, and my parents say thatt i can. The problem is, I have only had one real job! No one asks me because I am short for my age, therefore I look young but I am very mature. How do I get babysitting jobs?
Signed,
Helpless

Flyers aren't really dangerous, as long as you talk to the person first, but business cards work better because in the paper you will still get weirdos. Business cards, atleast you kind of choose who you can give them to. Hope I've helped. ♥

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