Hi, I'm 15 years old and I'm a female and there's this guy (Tom) in my class who I was dating for about 3 months but then I figured out that he was going out with OTHER girls, so I dumped him secretly. Now I'm falling for this other guy (Christopher) and I think he's falling for me, but then Tom said he appolagized and HE GAVE ME ROSES and it's SO hard to not love him but on the otherhand there's Christopher. I don't know who to chose! PLEASE HELP ME!~!~!~!~
hottopichottie answered Sunday March 20 2005, 1:37 pm: tom hurt you by going out with other girls.
even if he is sorry he might do it again go out with christopher im sure he's a nice guy and doesnt have any "crimanl" records.
On the other hand if tom is rreally sorry he wont do it again but you no the old saying
he does it once he'll probley do it again.
follow your heart and do what it say;s if you feel alright with still being with tom then go for it, but if you never give chris a chance you might never no what you could have had
livvy712 answered Sunday March 20 2005, 12:08 pm: tom broke ur heart once.. wuts gonna stop him from doing it again? sorry but the truth hurts!! but i kno wut you mean! ive been in that situation b4 and i gave him a second chance at my heart and he did that same thing all over again! thats when i learnd! but yea who is gonna treat you right? give this chris guy a chance he might just b your prince charming! but i dunno and about this tom guy.. if you do go back to him hes prolly just gonna think.. "o yea im just soo good she'll come back to me everytime" and then he'll think its okay to leave you again and you dont wanna look like a fool who would keep falling for him like that
tWiNeNaToRs28 answered Sunday March 20 2005, 11:15 am: OK. this ToM guy sounds like he's just using you, but then there are the roses. ok, i'de talk to ToM about it and then i'de see if ChRiStOpHeR is really a good guy or better than ToM.
=)=) luv ya! t-28 old1
hi! well, this is what i think you should do. see
how it wroks out with tom. if you still want to break up with him after about a week, then do it. go for chris if you do break up with tom. good luk!
=)=) luv ya! t-28 young1 [ tWiNeNaToRs28's advice column | Ask tWiNeNaToRs28 A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Sunday March 20 2005, 4:28 am: Christopher, i think that if tom cheated on you he doesnt deserve you go for it and just tell tom that he cheated on you and that wont happen again because your breaking up with him.
mp3girl206 answered Sunday March 20 2005, 2:23 am: i think you should go for chris because ifyour boyfriend is going to cheat on u once it is definely gonna happen again because i saw it happen [ mp3girl206's advice column | Ask mp3girl206 A Question ]
FunkyHoMoSapien answered Sunday March 20 2005, 12:03 am: Tom already cheated on you with multiple girls, and roses dont mean he wont do it again, so all i can say is give Christopher a try first. and if he doesn't like you, you can go for Tom. i hope i helped [ FunkyHoMoSapien's advice column | Ask FunkyHoMoSapien A Question ]
sarah0308 answered Sunday March 20 2005, 12:02 am: i cant say that i understand what your saying because i have never been through that kind of trouble..but i dont sorta get what your saying. it might be hard to not love tom, but im guessing that he broke your heart once. what makes you think hes not gonna do it again? boys can apologive over and over but that doesnt mean they change there ways. honestly, i think you should choose christopher. he hasnt done anything to hurt you.
~*Sarah*~ [ sarah0308's advice column | Ask sarah0308 A Question ]
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