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ok i am not one of those girls who cares about there wieght but i was just wondering is 127 over wieght even if i am really really muscular and i am 5ft and 8in o and i am 13/f
i rate really high

Not at all your percently normal !! ♥

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How can I get over a breakup? D:
It's been about three weeks and I'm still sad.

I'm friends with the person now because I really care about them... but then there's the constant reminders that person doesn't like me in the way I want anymore. And that they seem very happy that I'm not around.

What should I do?

I've tried distracting myself.. like drawing and playing games but it doesn't work very well.

I've also tried to not sign on AIM and stop talking to them for a while, but I always end up signing on later..

Oh my gosh!! I had the EXACT same prob like exact.It's really hard just to forget about someone that you love or have loved.It may seem like he/she doesn't care but they prob. do they just don't want to show it.But time only tells but if for sure you know that he/she doesn't like you then as hard as it sounds you have to accept it.Try to like someone else or just not even thinking about her/him just pretend like you never even went out.I always was like I'n NEVER going on aim but just knowing they are on and aren't talking to you makes you sad.So what you do is block him/her for a week or so and you will soon for get about them.This does take time but sooner or later things will get better.♥

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Well i've liked this girl for awhile. I am planing to tell her how i feel on Valentines Day. Are there any ideas how I could tell her? Also, are there any gift ideas?

Thanks in advance!

P.S. - We are both 13, and she is kind of a silly person if that helps any...

Ah you sound super sweet!The cutest way is to just do it in person yeah phone and in note is sweeet but in person it just is so much more better! Just tell her exactly how you feel.Chocolate & flowers and a card would be so cute. Tell me how its goes! ♥

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umm i heard rumors that limewire is going to be shut down becuase the government heard about it...is this true? if it is, when will this go in effect and what will happen? thanks ♥Nellie

Rumors are so gay! I don't think its true but thats just my opinion.Alot of people would be screwed if it did because everyone has limewire.If anything else just ask ! ♥

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okay there are 3 parts to this ..
1. i really like this kid i go to school with .. and ive liked him since the first time i saw him and its not cuz hes gorgeous, its that me and him have so many things in common, and we're like best friends .. we hooked up last week, but nothing has really happened since then .. he also has a girlfriend that hes been with, and ive known about her since september, so itsnot like i just found out .. but he says that hes into me and everything, but i dont know what to do ..

part 2
2.i still have a thing for my ex .. we were only together for a total of 3 months, and cheated on my 4 times, but i still care about him .. we havent been together for abou 2 and a half years .. and i slept with him over thanksgiving break .. his parents live in the next town over, but hes down at boarding school in rhode island, and he knows that i still care about him, but he still pulls this stupid shit .. i really dont know what to do ..

Aw this is one hard situation but i would pick the 1st guy.Ex bf's always act all weird after you guys break up and its never the same as it was. For the #1 guy since he has a gf and he says he is into you and everything tell him you like him then I think you two will go out.If anything else just ask ! ♥

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ok ..... so im in 7th grade, havent had my period, and well ... all my friends have ok-sized boobs and mine are just .. small .. and i feel like thats why guys dont like me ...... and i barely get boyfriends ... ive only had 2 in my life .... and still hadnt had my first kiss!!!! the 1st boyfriend ... well didnt like him ... and the 2nd, we went out for like ... 1 week and that was over school vacation so i didnt get to see him ... which means no kiss .... i feel really wierd since i havent had my first kiss yet ....

Aw!! You shouldn't even worry about this. I'm being 100% honest too. Your only in 7th grade so your still developing,and that isn't the reason why guys don't like you. Just because you had two bf's means nothing. You have to me confident about yourself and not be so negative.If you really wanted a kiss you would have to make the first move but i would honestly just wait for the perfect guy.If anything else don't be afraid to ask! ♥

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This boy that i love...yes for real...we went out about 4 times and the last time he broke up with me because he liked another girl.He doesn't like that same girl anymore but he likes another one. Anyways, we still talk a lot like we're very good friends. But he found out that I kinda liked one of his friends and ever since he found out all he says to me is about me liking his friend. It's getting annoying like we talked 3 times yesterday and all he said was " oohh you like *****.." "I saw you around **** sittin with him i saw you.." "i know you want *****" and i dont know why that's all he ever talks about now. I asked a couple of friends and they think he's just jealous. Do any of you guys know why he does this?? If you need any more information just write it in the answer and I'll tell you. THANKKK YOUU

He isn't over you and your friends are right he is jelous.But it's always like that when you have gone out with someone a few times. Just talk to him and give him a little more attention.♥

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hey i'm a guy, and one of my friends got pregnant. the whole school found out and eventually her parents did too. right now shes feeling terrible and her parents flipped out on her. i heard her talking to some of her friends and said she was considering getting an abortion. i asked her about it and she said shes worried and afraid its a bad idea. what should i tell her about it? i mean i don't think she should get one, but how do i help her with what she wants to know? thanks

Aw well 1st off your such a good guy friend!Look everything up the good and then bad stuuf about it.I mean everyone has there opinion about it but just let her decide after you telling her all the stuff you find out.You're so sweet about helping her! ♥

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i really like this boy but i dont know if he likes me my friend told me that he said he liked me but how do i know if its true and also i am very shy and they said at our next basket ball game he was going to talk to me what should i do?

Aw that's so cute !! Well I don't think your friend would lie to you about this so I think he does like you.Don't be shy because there isn't nothing to be shy about.When he talks to you at the next game just start talking back and do a little flirting. That is soo cute!! Tell me how things go! ♥

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15/f

What does it mean if a guy wants to "holla at you?"
thanks

Talk to you or call you.♥

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To get ringtones on your phone you have to like text message a certain number or w/e. Does anyone know a good place that has ringtones?

www.jamster.com has really good ones. ♥

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Ok here is the thing I have a boyfriend and he is really sweet and all but i like his best friend 2 and like i think i am loseing interest in my boyfriend right now anyway like once he (my boyfrind ) told me he would regret this one thing in life if he did not do it and that was kiss me but now i don't realy want to kiss him i want to stay frineds with him and we made like pack to always stay friends (fwy i am 14 ) and like i just don't want to brake his hart and like me and his best friend are also best friends so i don't want to mess up our friend ship because one of my best friends whent out with him and now they are X's but they are haveing a hard time makeing the friend ship work.any who like i don't know what to do i do more stuff with my boyfriends best friend then i do with my boyfriend and he doesn't even care like i have been out to lunch with him and his parents after going to the mall and been to the moves with him and friends 2 times and i have not done anything with my boyfriend out side ofschool and it will be 3 months the end of this month that we have been going out . what do i do please give me advice thank you

This sorta happened to me before.I think you should go out with his best friend but then it will start something between them so that's going to be a little hard.But break up with him for sure.Don't be like too mean about it because he will get upset just sweet talk him and then break up with him so it isn't as bad.About being friends he isn't goin to want to and then he will come back to you 1 month later saying he does just like all guys.But diff. go for his best friend he likes you and you like him so it's all good! : ) ♥

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Hey everyone. Just a heads up, this might be somewhat long! Ok, well me and my ex-boyfriend (first love) started going out on 10/12/04. Well, on 8/11/05 he broke up with me. Didn't give me reasons, out of the blue, and i said w/e and went on with my life. I had feeligns for him still and we stopeed talking. He went out with this girl named Linden, i got mad and went with a boy named Tyler, and both couples broke up in about a month. Well, near the end of October, me and my ex-boyfriend started getting cool again and we became more of friends with benefits. Suddenly, my 1st friend decided to stab me in the back and go and flirt with him and make out with him in my face, so me and my ex stopped talking again. Well, then we started talking again around the end of December and go real good again, friends with benefits and all that stuff, then a second friend did the same thing pretty much the first one did. Now shes telling me, he never liked me, he wants to get with her, and we broke upa while ago so get over him, and yea... so now i dont talk 2 her and my ex is mad at me for not talking to her. Well, i guess my question is, what should i say to him or how should i handle this situation? it really is none of his business, but i still have strong feelings for him. The second question i have is that I get mad when he flirts with other girls, and he gets mad at me when i flirt with other guys. So, that means he still has feelings for me to right?!? Some of this may be obvious to you, but my ex doesnt like to share feelings, thats why i am not sure. thanks a lot, 1 for answering, and 2 for reading it all!!!

What you have to do is be honest with your ex bf.Tell him that you still have those little feelings for him and you hate it when he does that stuff with other girls.And for the girl who stabbed you in the back she is a bitch I don't know any other way to say it.Your in love with this guy and she just buts in..umm hello she is dumb.Don't worry I know if you talk to him everything will be better.♥

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My best friend likes me and says he is in love with me and i dont know what to do. I like him but just as a friend even a brother. i dont know what to do and its hard because i dont want things to change between us. so can anyone help me?

Aw that's so cute!! Well I would understand because it seems like you two are so close.I think that would work out really good if you two went out.But again maybe the end would screw up your good friendship.So talk to him and tell him if you two do go out that at the end if anything bad happens you still want to stay best friends no matter what.♥

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ok so me and my bf have been going out for like 4 months now.. but his exgirlfriend has still liked him the whole time.. she still flirts with him and he doesn't do anything to stop her, i don't even think he notices that she does it. i've tried talking to her but she just denies everything.. help!

I don't want you to be mad or anything but usually it's hard to get over your ex b/f or g/f he might have little feelings for her still.But talk to him and he like I'm your g/f not her.If you want to be with me then don't flirt with her.Just be straight up with him.If he tells her to stop flirting then she prob. will. Hope I helped! ♥

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where can i get power point ?

go to www.download.com and on the box on the right write in power point and they will have it for you. ♥

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I'M SO PISSED OFF AT HER!!! She ditched me this weekend, saying she was going to go to a party to get "messed up" and by her saying messed up I was thinking... drinking. You know, because she wouldn't ever smoke! Well today I went to her MySpace, and I saw pictures, so I was watching them, and I saw pictures of her and her little sister SMOKING WEED!! I WAS LIKE DUDE, WTF! She wouldn't have done that if she was with me! BUT NOOOOOO, she just HAD to go to that stupid fucking party! Another thing that makes me sooo mad is that she didn't even have the nerve to talk to me, and tell me that she was planning to go to the party, and she had all week! She didn't tell me until Friday night, when I had plans on going to her house. So she basically left me to go get high.

WHAT SHOULD I DO!
She's already dtole guys from me, and now shes smoking weed?!?

Please, Please, Please help me out!!!

-Thank you so much!-

I understand why your mad but you aren't likely to think if your smoking weed.Just talk to her and don't yell at her because then she won't tell you if she does it again.Tell her it's bad and stuff like that.GOOD LUCK ♥

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So we went out with people and the guy that i like was going too. Me and my freind showed up eairly than the other girls and the guy i likelove was there too, so we were hanging out n stuff and he was being sooo cute to me. Then he saw that the other girl showed up and completly left me, and he liked her the whole time he led me on. and now im like dying and its sooo hard. Any ideas to get over it.

Ugh that's so rude of him!!! Just find someone new who won't do that.Then hang out with them and before you know it you will forget about him.♥

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what is flirting exactly? how do you do it? dont you think its rather obvious when your flirting?

Flirting is just when you like play fight with a guy/girl and just mess around with them,there isn't really a way to flirt,and yes its obvious when you flirt with someone most people notice it ♥

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what age is right for sex? i always thought not till your married. what do you think?

It's up to you if you think that you shouldn't til after your married then yeah but everyone has a different opinion on that! ♥

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