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breakup
How can I get over a breakup? D:
It's been about three weeks and I'm still sad.
I'm friends with the person now because I really care about them... but then there's the constant reminders that person doesn't like me in the way I want anymore. And that they seem very happy that I'm not around.
What should I do?
I've tried distracting myself.. like drawing and playing games but it doesn't work very well.
I've also tried to not sign on AIM and stop talking to them for a while, but I always end up signing on later..
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The first real guy I have even fallen in love And had a relationship with was the same thing wen we mashed it up. It was more different views on life esp. the fact that he lives soo far away. Anyway I got over him by just remembering he's alwaaays going to be my friend and I just have to accept that it happened and thankful we still have a friendship. It's not the fact he seems more happy...maybe he just wants you to feel he's happy by faking a smile or just laughin to make you feel he's happy...wen maybe he's not. I'm not saying get back to him but maybe try going aroung other guys and communicating. Spending more time with your family and even talking to him. Jokin around with him and talking will really bring your bond closer and you'll feel more as a friend to him...than an "EX"!
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My friend is going through the same exact thing. Hopefully your not my friend, because I told my friend a thousand times the same thing. Just understand, that that person will always be that special someone in your heart, until you find someone new, which you will, there are plenty of fish in the sea. You shouldnt let the brake up become your life. You need to chill out, and do stuff that you like to do. It'll take over your brain, and then you will be all sad, and i'm sure your friends wouldnt want to see you sad, they'll start feeling bad for you and everything. The person probably still feels like you do, but not to the extent to how you feel about it. Good Luck...Hope I helped..
-Brina
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You know you can't really get over a break up or anything in particular. You will always that reminder in your head. But its normal since you guys to have cared about each other. SO you say that the other person seems as if he is happy when your not there, well the fact is other people will always be happy someway or another of having the person you care about not being there. On the contrary he may just be acting like his happy but his really not. At least be happy that you guys are still friends. Anyway you will get forget it pretty soon. I don't want to promise anything but I would just try and move on and meet new people and expierience new things and soon you will forget what your feeling right now. Anyway I could continue on but I don't too since I already waisted a long enough time of your life. Hope I helped.
♥Liz♥
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Oh my gosh!! I had the EXACT same prob like exact.It's really hard just to forget about someone that you love or have loved.It may seem like he/she doesn't care but they prob. do they just don't want to show it.But time only tells but if for sure you know that he/she doesn't like you then as hard as it sounds you have to accept it.Try to like someone else or just not even thinking about her/him just pretend like you never even went out.I always was like I'n NEVER going on aim but just knowing they are on and aren't talking to you makes you sad.So what you do is block him/her for a week or so and you will soon for get about them.This does take time but sooner or later things will get better.♥
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