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boy trouble
i really like this boy but i dont know if he likes me my friend told me that he said he liked me but how do i know if its true and also i am very shy and they said at our next basket ball game he was going to talk to me what should i do?
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wait till the next basketball game.. your one of the lucky ones.. alot of people have to come up to the guy and let them get to know them for a long time and later still not know for sure if they like them or not. if he doesnt tell you he likes you at the basketball game and it just happens to be something else. im him or something. do something where your not face to face with the guy. its less nerve wrecking that way. he might come up to you the next day to maybe talk about it or something but it is better to get the hardest part out first.. step by step is the best way to take things sometimes.
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ok first of jsut take a deap breath lol and jsut be yourself.. if the boy likes you now he likes you for who you are so dont try to act liek someone else.. also im pretty sure if its your friend im sure he/she wouldnt lie and say someone lieks u if they didnt.. jsut let him ocm eup to you and just talk but try not to get all giggly and stuff act like he is no one special but still be nice.. have fun
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Aw that's so cute !! Well I don't think your friend would lie to you about this so I think he does like you.Don't be shy because there isn't nothing to be shy about.When he talks to you at the next game just start talking back and do a little flirting. That is soo cute!! Tell me how things go! ♥
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talk back! omggosh. this is the perfect opportunity for you. don't waste it. go with the flow. find something you have in common so that you will have something to talk about if he does talk to you.
also, you should ask him. boys don't know what your thinking. they have no idea. you just have to come out and say it. but don't get pms-y and don't make yourself sound pathetic. be confident and flirty. and make sure you look good when your around him. guys most of the time don't even notice if you are wearing make-up! but do what you think you need to to get his attention at the game.
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just chill even though your shy you should still be able to talk to him dont worry about it if he talks to you just be normal like you are around your best friends--im sure hed much rather you be real than fake! And if you need to tell him that your shy im sure he'll understand
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Well...... first and always I suggest you just be yourself. Don't try to pretend you're someone you're not because if I were you, I'd want this young man to like me as I am not as I think I should be. I'm an old lady now... but in my teen years, I played that awful game of being and doing the way others would accept and recognize. This continued into my younger adult years and through several marriages. I didn't truly 'find' myself til my late 40's and what a waste.
You must be true to yourself.... I can imagine you're a nice person, a great young lady with good morals and a good attitude. You feel like you are to me. I would suggest with all my heart you continue expressing that genuineness, allowing your right and true inner beauty to shine through.
If the young man can't or doesn't 'see' you for that wonderfully beautiful human being, perhaps he's not 'the one'! But perhaps you guys can just be friends.... start with a good friendship first in all situations. If the young man and you are to be more, it will easily and effortlessly unfold. But you shouldn't have to change yourself to be accepted... I can personally tell you that's no fun and isn't the best path.
I wish you luck dear heart, and I know that if you let you be you.... one day, if not with this young man, a very nice young man will appreciate YOU! Have a great Valentine's Day, it's my fav holiday.... perhaps you could bake this young man some heart shaped cookies and decorate each one differently and then share them with him?!
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First of all, wait and see if he talks to you at the basketball game. Unfortunately, this is all going to have to be a judgement call on your part.
When you talk to him, try to suss out his body language. Does he touch you at all in any way when he talks to you? Does he move around in any particular direction? Generally, you'll notice that people who don't want to be somewhere back away and people who are happy to be there stay foot. The big indication as far as body language goes is mirroring. You may or may not have heard of this but just in case you haven't, I'll briefly explain it. When someone talks to someone they like (as a friend or otherwise)and they want them to like them back, they often subconsciously mirror their movements. If he talks to you, try standing a certain way for a minute or two and try to notice if he moves to stand the same way. Hold your hands behind your back when you talk or on your hips and see how he holds himself. It sounds odd but it actually does ring true.
If you pick up that maybe he does like you, but you're not sure how, you'll need to use your best judgement to work out what to do next. You say you're very shy but research shows that men have a greater respect for and are more impressed by women who make the first move so however shy you may be, if there's a chance he may like you then go for it. I know it seems like a huge deal and absoloutely terrifying but the worst he can do is say no. After that, there's nothing more to worry about. Whatever you decide to do (or not do), I wish you the very best of luck.
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Be yourself!!! If this guy really likes you make sure you are yourself from the beginning. Act confident, you can be confident even if your shy and most importantly have fun! The second you're too nervous to be yourself it stops being fun...and its all about the fun! Best of luck let me know how it goes!
xoxo
supergirl
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