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I like my Boyfriends best friend
Ok here is the thing I have a boyfriend and he is really sweet and all but i like his best friend 2 and like i think i am loseing interest in my boyfriend right now anyway like once he (my boyfrind ) told me he would regret this one thing in life if he did not do it and that was kiss me but now i don't realy want to kiss him i want to stay frineds with him and we made like pack to always stay friends (fwy i am 14 ) and like i just don't want to brake his hart and like me and his best friend are also best friends so i don't want to mess up our friend ship because one of my best friends whent out with him and now they are X's but they are haveing a hard time makeing the friend ship work.any who like i don't know what to do i do more stuff with my boyfriends best friend then i do with my boyfriend and he doesn't even care like i have been out to lunch with him and his parents after going to the mall and been to the moves with him and friends 2 times and i have not done anything with my boyfriend out side ofschool and it will be 3 months the end of this month that we have been going out . what do i do please give me advice thank you
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This sorta happened to me before.I think you should go out with his best friend but then it will start something between them so that's going to be a little hard.But break up with him for sure.Don't be like too mean about it because he will get upset just sweet talk him and then break up with him so it isn't as bad.About being friends he isn't goin to want to and then he will come back to you 1 month later saying he does just like all guys.But diff. go for his best friend he likes you and you like him so it's all good! : ) ♥
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Well I agree with that you should break up with your boyfriend. Thats a must. As for going out with his best friend, thats tricky. I think you can manage to salvage all the friendships here if you wait before asking him out. Give your bf time to heal and get back on his feet, and then you might have no problem dating his best friend (particularly if your ex bf has found someone by then). All depends if he rebounds well or takes it very hard.
So, I dont think its all hopeless, but you are going to have to give it a few months after the breakup (and even then its not guaranteed of course).
As for your friendship with him, that too you need to postpone until he is ok with the breakup. After you guys split he should not see you much or else he might have trouble moving on.
Good luck
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wow, thats long. i think you should probably break up with your boyfriend at the time, because if you dont like him, its rude to him, thats kinda going out with him when you dont like him. my byfriend did that to me, and i broke up with him right away. i dont think you should go out with his best friend, because that will ruin your friendship with your boyfriend now. he will be mad that you broke up with him, to go out with his bestfriend. go with your gut. i personally wouldnt go out with either of them. hopefully i was to some assistance. ♥ ashley
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