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well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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13/f i feel soo bad my bf whos 13 is gettin me all this stuff i found out bi my friend and i dont have any money to realy get him anything he asked me to mesure mr rist size and i was okay w/e i thought it was goin to be 4 some tackey bracelett but no he took my bff sarah with him to a place like tiffanys to buy me a real dimond bracelett and he got me a wicked lott of there stuff but i dont have anything for him and i cant even goto the store bc i got like 4 feet of snow so im like screwed what can i give him would burnin a cd work helpppp and fast thatx illl rate the highest

for now i would suggest just makin him a ccd of all the songs that remind you of and the songs he likes. mayb latter when you get some more money buy him more stuff.
*~Stephanie~*

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i am 15 nd going 2 be having a baby.i havent told my rents yet,and i want 2 keep the baby,but i was wondering if there was ne way my rents or the state could take my baby away without my consent

nope nobody can take it away.
*~Stephanie~*

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I made this thing for my boyfriend, and I wrote "I love you" on it, but I have room to put his name under that.
Do you think I should personalize it or just leave it as "I love you"?

just leave to i love you.
*~Stephanie~*

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how do you do the grinding thing when its with eachothers legs? thanks.

i guess you just rub your leg on his.
*~Stephanie~*

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I'm planning a party for my friends- guys and girls- and there's going to be dancing. Like you would dance at an actual school dance. Could anyone give me some really good slow and fast songs? That would be great. I need a ton. Thanks in advance. ♥

Jess

Usher - burn,
Usher - yeah,
bryan mcknight - back to one
ashlee simpon - love
Bobba sparxz - ms. new booty
pitbul - shake
mike jones ft ying yang twins - bad
ying yang twins - salt shaker
usher - my boo
twista ft pitbul - hit the floor
too short - shake that monkey
pussycat dolls - stick with you
t - pain - i am in love with a stripper
all american rejects - dirty lil secerts
fall out boys - dance dance
fall out boys - sugar were going down
snoop dog ft phareel - drop it like its hot
nelly, p. diddy, murphy lee - shake yor tail father
sean paul - temperture
sean paul - we be burning
nelly - errytime
nelly - na na na
modonna - hung up
lyfe - must be nice
kevin little - turn me on
juevenille - slow motion
geuwine - difference
fat joe ft nelly - get it poppin
eminem - shae that ass
dem frenchize boys - lean with it, rock wit it
d4l - laffy taffy
d4l - betcha cant do it like me
ciarra - and i
chain 6 - touch my body
amerie ft ti - touch (remix)
bun b ft ying yang twins - get it girl
black eyed peas -pump it
black eyed peas - my humps
112- dance wit me

there you go
*~Stephanie~*

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What causes guys to get boners? What are they thinking about also? (obviously sex but like what else?)

sex mostly but other times it is when they see somethign that turns them on an the like it. it is really a good thign when guys have it. if they dont get it often they arent not normal.
*~Stephanie~*

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I wasn't sure what category to put this under, but how can a fourteen year old girl earn money, besides babysitting? I mean, job-wise.

Thank you.

first you got to get a job permit. second you need to find someone who will work under the table with you because technique your not aloud to get a job until you are 16.
*~Stephanie~*

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well here the story...........................

This kid went to my school but the moved away!
i LIKED him A LOT!!!!! now i cant stop thinking of him! im going insane!!!!
will you please help me!

nothin you can do except move on. go out some place and meet new people that should get ur mind off of thinkin about him.
*~Stephanie~*

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so i have been with this team for about 6 years and i work hard each summer and i'm still benched a lot throughout the whole season. I'm not very good friends with the people on the team and sometimes i think that i'm not that good. i'm torn between quitting when the season ends or sticking witht the team. it would only be one more year of it and then i'd be done. should i go through being benched a whole year again, and keep trying to improve, or should i just quit and let the stress and other drama be gone? help!

i had the smae problem a month ago. what i did was i left. you already got a lot of stress and drama and you really dont need more in your life. try playin a different sport. but if you are cool wit the coach talk them, if not i would just suggest to leave dont waste your time at a sport were the team doesnt care about there players. so you as a player shouldnt care about the team. =) Hope this helps. and good luck
*~Stephanie~*

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I like this guy. Lets call him Steve.
So I like steve alot, and hes always picking me for assignments and projects even tho i stink at it and the other girls are amazing! He's so nice and sweet, and we exchage looks through classes somuch that other people notice. One problem.. he has a girlfriend! How can i tell if he likes me too WITHOUT screwing up his relationship?

unless u want this lil thing to turn into a big fight i would suggest you gusy stay as friends. dont try anything just leave it alone right now until he is single.
*~Stephanie~*

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What is the best way to help make them fade and is their any kind of special cover up that blends better with your skin. I am so pale, I scar horribly and it looks really bad.

well i dont know about the make up part but i know that coco butter makes scars go away. you might want to try that.
*~Stephanie~*

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yeah, i know there's alot of questions about Valentine's already, but most are all asked by girls. but does anybody have any good ideas for a guy to get for his girlfirend? She's pretty close, and has a good sense of humor. Please try to stay away from cute/fuzzy stuff (sry, but i cant stand giving that). Thanks
19/m

chocalte is like a girls bestfriend. well if you guys have been going out for a while maybe a promise or something with diamonds. a pair of ear rings, braclet, or a neckless are always a cute idea. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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I am really scared of airplanes. You see my mom has a thing with Disneyworld, and basically we went to Disneyworld every christmas and summer. But then we didn't have enough money to keep going. Now we do, and I haven't been on an airplane since last summer. I am REALLY scared. I just have a bad feeling about it. I have no say whatsoever in if I want to go or not, so that's not an option. If anyone could help me calm down...or tell me anything...that would be great.

relax everything will be ok. dont think down about it. go on the airplane and relax take a book or a cd players or w.e with you and relax listen to music, read, or go to sleep during the trip. trust me everyhting will be ok.
*~Stephanie~*

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I have a problem.
I cut.
LIke I stop every once in a while,
but than things at home, my mom, and stuff get me upset again.
So I cut again.
I don't kno what to do.
I want to stop, but I can't.

you need to stop. you probaly already knew but if you dont stop soon you can kill yourself and it can be possible that you will get addicateed to it. that isnt really a good thing. just figure out soemthign that will get your mind off of being depressed. for instance, when you get upset turn on some music. i would suggest some rock music. (that alwasy relaxs me)or how abotu when ever you ge upset go outside and take a lil walk and get some fresh air. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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what is the best way to say no when a guy you dont like asks you out?

just tell him you dont think it will work out. tell him if he wants to only be friends and nothin else.
*~Stephanie~*

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i have blonde hair blue eyes skinny tall smart popular and cute . i also play a ton of sports so why cant i get a good boyfriend like my last boyfriennd dumped me in one day.if you know why tell me i need to know

your not looking good enough. wait for the right guy to come get you. dont worry guys arent everything.. it might be bc ur personality..
*~Stephanie~*

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well i did w/o any thing and he did cum inside me!! and im afraid im pregnant!

you got like a 80% of bein pregnant.
*~Stephanie~*

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I have two younger siblings. Some might say that I shoulk babysit them fir free, but I also cook, clean, and chase them around. I think I should get a little something. What do you think?

ha i go through this everyday and to tell you thr truth you just have to be a big sisteror brother and watch over your siblings. it shows that you care adn will always help them and your parents out. everyday i have to watch my sister and i never get anything for it. it hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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could you get pregnant if the you had sex without
any protection whenever a girl is on her perid?!

yes you can.
*~Stephanie~*

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everytime I try to install limewire onto my computer, it doesnt let me because it says theres a firewall block or something. I was wondering if this has ever happened to any of you, and what i could do to fix it and get limewire back onto my computer.
ill rate HIGH, thanks in advance.

that is a good thing you have firewal on your computer. but in order to download limewire you have to turn it off. how you do is it can be on your toll bar task thing. it is th box that has all the icons of everythin you have open on it. you need to find the firewall and turn it off. then you can download limewire.
*~Stephanie~*

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