This may be a little long...Sorry.. but i really need to know what was meant... So.. The other night I was at my boyfriends house we were laying in bed watching a movie... and his friend showed up... and then his brother came in and was watching the movie with us... Well then they all started talking about getting their new cars.. well my boyfriend and his friend.. and his friend said that him and my boyfriend could pick up chicks.... well my boyfriend was like no way.. Ive got mine right here... and put his arm around me... well then his brother said that all Kevin (my boyfriend) would have to do was have me with him to pick up chicks.... So my question is... Was he saying that I'm Hot... Or was he saying that I was like a lesbian or something... I was really confused by what he said..
Hey
haha. He meant that your "HOT"! lol and that if another girl see's a girl such as yourself with your boyfriend she will want him too. Girls want what they can't have. So they might try to get him, while thinking if this girl is hot and she likes him then why shouldn't i want him?!
hope that helps
♥ maria ♥
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ok usually my perios is about 4 or 5 days long .. but last week i got it on wednesday (the 20th) and its still here! heavy as it was when i first got it.. i just want to know.. is this normal? also last month wasnt heavy.. like at all.. i rate high
thank u so much!! ♥
Hey
awww dont worry sweetheart. That's perfectly normal. Your period won't always last the same amount of time every month. It usually should but its not always gonna. But theres nothing wrong with what's happening with you. About the heavy flow thats normal too. Don't worry. But if your still worried just go to a doctor and ask. I'm sure he/she will explain everything to you. Or just go talk to someone older that you feel close to. If that doesnt work then i have some sites for you.
http://kidshealth.org/parent/medical/sexual/menstrual_problems.html
http://www.chebucto.ns.ca/Health/TeenHealth/sexualhealth/changing/girls.htm
http://www.drpaul.com/adolescent/menstruation.html
Hope that helps
if you have anymore questions be sure to comment my inbox.
♥ maria ♥
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I'm 14/f
I think im fat and I wanna lose weight. I don't eat breakfast or lunch and barely dinner. All my friends are worried about me and try to get me to eat but I just say i'm not hungry. My question is, is this that serious and that unhealthy? Thanks!
Kristina
Ahhh that's your first biggest mistake. I know you think by skipping meals and not eating at all it will help you lose weight. Actually that makes you gain more weight. And if you keep not eating you might get very sick. Yes it is very unhealthy. Please stop. If you need any advice on how to lose weight the right way then i'll be more then happy to help. Another thing is if you choose not to eat alot in a day you should at least eat breakfast. That's that most important meal of the day. It's the one that gives you the most energy. Just make sure you eat something light if you dont want to gain alot of weight. I have many websites that you can go to read about this. Just ask for them if you want.
If you have any more questions dont be scared or shy to comment or im me on aim.
♥ maria ♥
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Already i might seem like a COMPLETE LAME for asking this.. im not a real computer person at all.. i only get on it to help people on this site or to do homework.. i wanted to know what is XANGA everybody mentions it on this site and i have no freakin clue what it is.. so if you explain to me ill be happy to rate high.. loves ya!
Hey
Well xanga is like a place where you can write down your feelings. basically a journal or diary.
Mostly people write what they did for the day or what they have done that week. Alot of people just use it to put up pictures of themselfs. Others use it just to put up pretty icons. You can actually use it for many things. So if you want to get it you should its pretty fun. It's free so dont worry. Just go to
http://www.xanga.com/
If you feel like getting it and need any help at all just comment me. or im me on my sn
I'll be more then happy to help you
♥ maria ♥
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well my boyfriend tells me im beautiful. its cute/sweet i know. but what should i say after? like can i say thanks? or something cute and unexpected. gimme ideas thnx //♥
Hey babe
awww well what i would do is something different.
I would look into his eyes smile. Then look up and smile some more then say thank you god for sending me this angel. His perfect!Then kiss him!
If you dont like that idea then just look into his eyes smile and pull him towards you and makeout with him or just a simple sweet kiss.
♥ maria ♥
Now For your feedback ummm thanks for my 3. i gave you a pretty good answer. wow people theses days. You should be thankful that people even help you at all.
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what are some good websites that tell dirty stories?
Hey
haha umm well i asked my bestfriend kevin since he's into dirty stories so here you go:
http://www.truedirtystories.com/
http://www.hicksville.co.nz/dirty%20comics.htm
♥ maria ♥
if you need more sites go to google.com
or you can go to
http://www.atlantaga.com/humor.htm
http://www.lotsofjokes.com/dirty.htm
Its not dirty stories but dirty jokes.
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Who dies in the 6th Harry Potter book. Don't lie, please just tell me.
Hey
http://whatisdumbledore.ytmnd.com/
It's a funny site. But it tells you who dies in the song. Also if you go
here: http://www.diamondrains.com/hp.jpg
there you can actually read what happens yourself.
♥ maria ♥
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do u think its wrong to be bisexual?
Hey
No! Not at all. If you injoy being with a female, and male then go right ahead. Its up to you and no one else. you cant stop yourself if you love a person! No matter what sex they may be!
♥ maria ♥
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Hi
I was just wondering...
1. can you go to a tanning bed like every other day or should you out more time is between or does it really matter...?
2. do the UV rays or anything mess up acrylic nails?
2. how long/or how many sessions does it take to get a good base tan...?
3. Has anyone tried any really good lotions that work really well...
by the way...i dont need people telling be how it will harm me...i know the outcome...i am only doing for a month...
Hey
1&2. Go once every 24-48 hours to build your base. Depending on how well your skin is doing, you can decide whether you can go once a day or once every other day. A good rule of thumb is if your skin is not pink within the 24 hours after your session, you can probably go again the next day without any problem. If your skin is pink, feels dry and itchy, or you get a rash, this is a signal that you went for too many minutes and need to take a break until it feels better and then start over again.Once you build up your base, you really don't need to tan as often. So depending on the type of bed you are using, you should only go 2-3 times per week to keep your tan, even less in stronger beds. This is where I see many people go overboard, tanning every day when it is really not necessary. Many people enjoy the relaxation time that tanning provides, but tanning too often can and will speed up your aging process and potentially cause other skin ailments over a long period of time. Just like everything else in life, moderation is key!
2. No. Not at all! UV rays don't mess up acrylic nails!
3. About the lotions i personally use Babie tanning lotion. Or Australian Gold dark tanning Accelerator spray is pretty great as well. I use them both!
♥ maria ♥
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I had me an epiphany (a revelatory manifestation of a divine being.)
this morning .. the doorbell rang .. about 8 o'clock (ish) .. behind the door was a 20-something old man .. neat looking character ..
he handed me a pampflet and .. the message was .. "have you seen Jesus?" .. danm! .. i said DAMN! .. as it so happens with me that in situations like this i tend to act very arogantly and .. allthough it may seem cool at the time .. it really is not cool at all .. one needs to take into acount the feelings of the person he or she interacts with .. i said .. "Jep! I just did!" and slammed the door shut.
later i thought .. a. did i hurt that poor bastards feelings .. and .. b. what does it all mean? ..
Hey
Well I don't really think you hurt the old man because it's probably his job. and trust me i dont think your the only one that would be mad if someone rang your doorbell at 8 o' clock. So dont stress over it! Unless hes just an old poor man trying to make a difference in the world with a pampflet and message. It could be gods way of seeing who actually cares about other people but we can never be sure of such things! But even if it wasn't "God sees all"! And it wasn't the nicest thing to do! But hey everyone makes mistakes!
♥ maria ♥
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is it wrong to wear a thong? i want to get one but i dont want people to think of me as a hoe
Hey babe
No! Its not wrong! I mean some people found it to be discusting but i have no idea why! I mean if you wear it just to show it off then yes its a little bit wrong but otherwise then that there is nothing wrong with wearing one! many girls wear them. I wear them as well! and no one has ever called me a hoe yet for wearing a thong! Also its not like anyone will know if your wearing one or not!
♥ maria ♥
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please read this and help me..i'll rate 5s..just please i desperately need help more than anything
i fell in love with a guy named harrison about 2 years ago, and we have been unseperable ever since then. we'd always have the occasional fights between us, and i was crazy about him, and he was about me too. i loved him more than anything in the world, and this was not just puppy love, this was the real thing. he was my first and possibly final love, and i lost my virginity to him. when he moved to iowa last year, we still loved each other and he never even attempted to go out with any other girl. he was the best thing that had ever happened to me, and i loved him..i truly mean it. he was always there for me, he was there when mother died, i lost my best friend, and when i had to have a heart surgery.
recently he died in a car accident. it wasn't his fault at all, it was horrible luck. he was driving on a highway and a drunk driver crashed into his car, killing him. i cried myself to sleep for months, and i just didn't care about anything but him. i was obsessing yes, but i loved him, and i know he loved me too. he was the only one for me, and i know he's gone now and i should move on and look for other guys, but i don't think i'll ever find anyone else like harrison. i will still of course try, but i cannot help but feel horrible. sometimes i feel i should kill myself so i can join harrison up in heaven, but i have never succeeded. i am hurt beyond words, and i don't know what to do anymore. please help me, anything will help right now. thank you so much for reading all of this.. love, lauren
Lauren
There are no words i can say to begin to describe the pain i feel from just simply reading your question. I even had tears fall down my cheeks. I could only imagine the pain and hurt you are going through yourself! I honestly wish i would help but the truth is there is nothing i could say or do to make all the pain go away! There isn't a cure for such a thing like this! All you need is love from your family , and support from your friends! I want you to know that you have me! if you ever need a friend or just a talk. Im here! Lauren i want you to know it's ok to cry! It's ok to hide from the world for a little while, but life goes on and so should you! You dont need to forget him, thats the last thing he wants, he wants you to always remember all the memories you had! He want's you to find someone that loved you just as much as he loved you! If you feel sad and start to miss him just talk to him! whenver, wherever. It could be when your getting ready to get into bed. Or when your coming home from work! Hes there. Trust me. You may not see him but he will always be there to listin to you. He wont respond but he's there. Think of it this way. The wind. We cannot see it but it doesnt mean its not there! And lauren remember TRUE LOVE NEVER DIES!
♥ maria ♥
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I am a dancer and when im home alone... i dance lol.. what are some good fast pace songs that are good to dance?
hey babe
I like to dance to :
nelly - hot in here
Usher - caught up
Usher - yeah
Sarah connor - Bounce
Venga boys - Boom, Boom, (I want you in my room)
Britney spears - Do something
Shakira y alejandro sanz - la tortura
Britney spears - Toxic
Bwitched - Hey Mickey
Alice Deejay - Better off alone
Eminem - Just lose it
Black eyed peas - Dont phunk with my heart
Black eyed peas - Hey mama
Christina Milian - dip it low
Christina Milian - am to pm
Trick daddy - Suger
Ciara - 1,2 step
♥ maria ♥
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I absolutely hate my hair. I have thick light brown hair with blonde highlights. When i say thick.. i mean really thick. I have anywhere from 5-10 minutes in the morning to do my hair. Besides the everyday ponytail... what can i do to my hair? I am taking coloring, cutting, and styling ideas.
Hey
aww babe you shouldnt hate your hair! alot of people would die to have thick hair! Well next time you go get a hair cut just ask them to thin your hair! Ask them to use thinning shears. Its scissors that are used to thin hair out. That way your hair won't be as thick. Also try out a new hair style. I personally always get layers. That might look nice on you! Also why dont you try bangs.
About the color well i dont really know what colors you like! so umm maybe you should try black hair with a few red highlights all around the top of your head. Or if you dont like that try dying your hair all blonde. That would look pretty cute!
If you want you could comment my inbox with your sn and i could send you some pictures of cute hair styles and some cute colors. It would also help if i saw a picture of you so that i could tell you which color and hair cut would look best on you!
well its up to you
♥ maria ♥
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Are there any songs I can start practicing singing that are easy, but a bit challenging? I have a pretty good voice, but not as good as Kelly Clarkson's. Does anyone know any of those types of songs?
Hey
Heres some songs i think that you might injoy practicing to:
Vanessa Carlton - white houses
Vanessa Carlton - Thousand miles
Shii's song - Winds Nocturne
Alexz Johnson - 24 hours ( from instant star)
Stacy Orico - More to life
Stacy Orico - Stuck
Hilary duff - Let the rain fall
Hilary Duff - someones watching over me
Michelle Branch - breathe
Michelle Branch - goodbye to you
Michelle Branch - Everywhere
Leanne Rimes - cant fight the moonlight
maria Taylor - speak easy
Legally blonde soundtrack - watch me shine
You can download them on limewire.
Its free and easy
♥ maria ♥
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I need a pet! should i get a dog or cat? i dont want it to smell bad! so what smell better
Hey babe
I would say go with a puppy!
I have two dogs myself and they do not smell at all!
Cats on the other hand always smell so BAD!
but its really just up to you!
♥ maria ♥
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i heard that you get discharge about 1 - 2 years before puberty and its like white creamy fluid stuff.. well i have it and i wanted to know if you get it all ur life or will it end?
Hey babe
Well you'll only get it as long as your still on your period. Once you get older like in your 50's or so it will stop! But as you get older you'll get less of it! Right now i am only 14 and i dont get as much of it as i did when i was 12 years old! but for every person its different!
♥ maria ♥
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i have to go to a graduation party tomorrow and theres a swimming pool and everyones gunna be swimming! well i just got my period for the first time thursday night ( graduation party's sunday) should i swim? and if i do do i wear a tampon? please help what do i do?
Hey sweetheart
ahhh dont worry! Yes you should swim. You'll have a great time! Just be sure to wear a tampon.
and since this is your first time i think its better if you have a talk with your mother, or someone older that you feel comfortable talking with.
If you feel shy to ask them then i'll be more then happy to tell you everything you need to know! just be sure to leave me a comment in my inbox!
♥ maria ♥
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I like some one allot but he told me the other day he doesnt believe in God. He believes in Jesus just doesnt think he is his son. I told him stuff that can prove he is real. I also told him that, If I believe he is real and he isnt I am not missing out on anything but if he is real and I believe in him I am doing right. but I still dont know what to tell him to make him believe in him. I mean I would really fill good about my self if I can turn some one into the right track. his family believes in him just not him I dont understand. pleaze help
Hey Babe
I was looking back at my feedback and i had saw that you rated me a 1 with feedback so i went back and saw that i didn't even answer your question so i'm really confused. I'm guessing maybe one of my EVIL friends went on my site and messed around with some people. So if anything mean to you was said i'm truely sorry. I know this is probably a really old post but i wouldn't mind answering it anyhow.
If this boy doesn't believe in Jesus and you do then it's really not worth it. It seem like your very into your religion and doing good. It seems like he isn't. It's pretty hard to change a persons mind about such a thing like this. Your better off finding someone that feels and thinks the same way you do.
Hope this helps
if you need anything else comment my inbox
♥ maria ♥
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I have just came back to school after my 2 weeks off and these girls are pushing me around and calling me names, they only ever stop when my friends are there im not fat nd spotty im just small is there a crime in being small?? caz i feel lke dere iz... and soon my m8s are all going on a holiday to france wiv the skool and we didnt have enought money as my mam and dad have just split up, plz help me i am down and depressed :(!
All i have to say is keep your head up high!
who cares what they say. i know it's hurtfully but
that's life. There are always going to be those people that will pick on you for no reason. I learned that it was mostly because they feel bad about them selfs and dont want to show it. So for everytime they say something just say to yourself wow i am really lucky that they care so much to make fun of me.I guess thats the only way they can feel better about themselfs. Dont let them feel better about them selfs. Show them that you dont care. About you being small thats ok i am small
and most boys like that. Its not really about you being small its just they need to find a reason to pick on you for. otherwise they wouldn't have anything to say. Its like them saying oh your beautiful haha lets make fun of the beautiful girl. They would use anything just to make fun of another person.
and please dont feel depressed about the money thing. Not having alot of money isn't a crime. Its just something that happens. dont bring yourself down because of it.
If you ever wanna talk just im me.
I will always be there to help.
♥ maria ♥
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