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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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Around January i started likeing this guy named chris. We started talking and he told me liked me but that he couldnt go out with me because of everyone always getting into his business and trying to ruin things for him. Well he sortof stopped talking to me and it hurt me really badly. I liked him for the rest of the school year and then for 2 months he was only on my mind once in awhile. We'll in the beginning of July i started thinking about him again. He now wants to go out with me because he says that he didnt go out with me before because he didnt want me to get hurt and all this crap. Well last night we went skating and me and him hung out the whole time and i just wanted to hold his hand so badly but i knew that i couldnt. So around 10 he was like something about me goin out with him or something and my friend said aww are you askin her out and he said yeah and i said well how come now and he said just never mind megan and he said i try to be nice to you but you always seen to be mean in ways that you dont mean to. And so i just whatever chris. and then at the end of skatin ring he have me this really big hug and picked me up. The only problem is that there is a guy that has liked me for a really long time and he is like my best friend and he would never talk to me again if i went out with chris. What should I do in the situation? I really need some help so..b nice and ill rate you thank you!
I think you should keep your bestfriend and not go out with Chris. Boys come and go, but bestfriends only come around once and awhile. They are always there, right by your side. If Chris wanted to be with you, he would have asked you a long time ago. Why did he wait so long and ask you now? I think you should stick to your bestfriend and find a new guy to crush on. There's lots of hotties out there =)
I just started using tampons. And when i wear them they hurt like heck. Did i not have it in all the way or what? please help!
Your probably not wearing them right, they shouldn't hurt. Read the box =)
Okay my best friend just told me shes bi..And im a girl to.I dont know what to do, should I still be her friend or should I like not be..Im kinda creeped out cause I dont want her to like hit on me or nething.What should I do? Im only 14 to what should I do
Well you shouldn't just dump your bestfriend because she's bi. It probably took up a lot of guts for her to tell you that. You should still be her friend, she probably needs someone to be there for her.
hey..i'm headed to High School in a week..9th grade..in a few advanced classes..bio,geometry..spansish..etc..anyways..
what are some things that are a must have for high school? like as far as notebooks,folders..?stuff like that..
also..i'm very unorganized when it comes to my school papers and such..so plz keep that in mind when thinking of things i should buy..
thanx a bunch..
Pens, Pencils, Binders, Loads Of Paper, Folders, Notebooks, Whiteout, Highlighters, ect. =) (Good luck in the new school year!)
I am always biting my nails all the time. I have tried fake nails. But I cant have them on because I play so many sports. Is there a way I can stop? I do it even when I dont realize I am doing it. I also know its not healthy at all. Any tips will be helpful... thank you!
Theres this nailpolish out it helps you stop biting your nails. It taste like shit. It helped me stop. Once you stop and look at your nails and see how pretty they look, your not gunna wanna bite your nails again!
i have a hight fever and have been bleeding with pain and i'm not menistrating.
Maybe something is wrong, you should go see a doctor hun =)
Ok i have been away for about 3 weeks and my boyfriend has been hanging out with all these different girls.. I am kinda jelous and worried because I am moving in about 5 months but we wanted to keep it strong until i go. I feel that with him being with these different girls is going ot make him loose interest in me.. should I feel this way?
I would feel the same if my boyfriend would be hanging out with different girls while I would be moving, it's normal. But, if you trust him that he won't do anything and you love eachother, everything should be fine.
what are the "bases"?...you know like 1st 2nd 3rd 4th, what do they mean.Like when people say "I went to 3rd base with him" or sumthin like that.
The 4 "F's" 1st is French, 2nd is Feel, 3rd is Finger and 4th is Fuck.
How much will I bleed the first time I have sex.. when my cherry gets popped?
It depends. Some girls bleed a lot, others little and some dont bleed at all.
I`m 15 in about a month or so and I think i`m an alchoulic. I want to quit at times, but then again i dont. I didn`t come on here to get lectured, just advice on what to do in this situation. Thanks.
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xx CaM
Try cutting down a bit, drink haft of what you normally drink.
I want to make a new advicenators username but do your answers that you answered from your first username get sent to your new username or do you have to start all over?
You probably have to start all over.
hey i need help. i like this guy, but only as a friend with benifets and i said a joke and it made him mad and now he wont talk to me. please help!!
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It sounds like he might have liked you as more then just "Friends". You probably hurt his feelings when you said that he was just a "Friend with benifets". You should tell him your sorry and ask him if you could be friends with him again. But, don't fool around with him anymore, because your probably breaking his heart.
Hey everyone im the girl that jus wrote that ? in about her boyfriend forcing her into sex...well everyones advice helped me soo much... i talked to him yesterday about the whole thing and i told him that we are gunna stop having sex n doing everthing eles for a while...he agreed to that n sed he was sorry n hopefull he will never do it again...i told him that you guys sed it was rape n that got him thinking that hes never gunna do that again bc thats the last thing he wants to do...thank you guys who helped me sooo much i really apreciate it! if nething happens i will surely let you know thank you!
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Very good for you =) I'm proud!
this question is for my friend:
my boyfriend is so sweet. he'd never cheat on me and he never acts Interested in another girls or stuff like that. do you think he could be gay? because he doesn't seem to be interested when girls are wearing skimpy clothes on tv or pictures and id ont think he looks at it on his own. but he gets horny around me. i don't think he is but soemtimes i wonder.
I don't think he would be gay, just because he doesn't check out girls infront of you and such. He probably just really respects you and loves you. He doesn't feel the need to look at other girls, because he already has one =)
This Subject probably doesn't match but any wayz, I've heard that eating a lot of carrots makes your boobs grow bigger and my friend had like none and then like a few months later like 6 months or something maybe a little less, she has huge! Is it true? She said carrots helped since she ate some like every day! Thx I'll rate yall 5!
I heared that too. I don't really think it's carrots though, it's probably because she's growning up. But, if it is carrots, I should try it =)
ok what does this mean: x3 ??? bc i kno that
I don't think it's anything. It could mean "Times 3" A broken heart has a slash between the arrow part and the 3. =)
ok i gotta ask this now..i heard someone say something bout there bf bein bipolar..what does that mean? is it like split personality?! also..my ex was really mean and called me hoe and stuff then like the day before that he was like baby i love you ill never leave ur side..is that bipolar?
Bi-polar is a mental disorder, a chemical imbalance. It makes you have extreme highs and extreme lows. So when you are happy you are very happy and when you sad you are like suicidal sad, you go from one to the other.
ok well these girls i dont no keep instant messangeing me sayin that im fat and ugly because they saw a picture of me on my profile and they say all these mean things to me and im not the kind of girl who can take stuff like that and everyone tells me oh dont worry about them ur pretty and all that but i cant just ignore them they go to my school now too
someone please help me figure out something to do
People who like to put others done aren't happy with themselfs. They bully around others just to make themselfs look good and boost their confidence! They're the ones shitting themselfs. Just keep ignoring them, they need a life.
What are some good snacks? I'm trying to stay away from packaged snacks or sugary snacks.
Crackers and cheese =)
What are some things that me and my boyfriend can do to spend time together that doesnt cost money or at least is cheap? ...he lives like 40 min away so he comes over or i go over there and we meet half way. Either that or we go to the mall, movies, bowling, KD, and stuff like that. Anymore ideas? please help! :o)
You guys chould go to the beach and watch the sunset. Have a day where you just chill out with him, talking and watching movies. Go for walks and hangout.