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She I or Should I Not


Question Posted Saturday August 14 2004, 8:21 pm

Around January i started likeing this guy named chris. We started talking and he told me liked me but that he couldnt go out with me because of everyone always getting into his business and trying to ruin things for him. Well he sortof stopped talking to me and it hurt me really badly. I liked him for the rest of the school year and then for 2 months he was only on my mind once in awhile. We'll in the beginning of July i started thinking about him again. He now wants to go out with me because he says that he didnt go out with me before because he didnt want me to get hurt and all this crap. Well last night we went skating and me and him hung out the whole time and i just wanted to hold his hand so badly but i knew that i couldnt. So around 10 he was like something about me goin out with him or something and my friend said aww are you askin her out and he said yeah and i said well how come now and he said just never mind megan and he said i try to be nice to you but you always seen to be mean in ways that you dont mean to. And so i just whatever chris. and then at the end of skatin ring he have me this really big hug and picked me up. The only problem is that there is a guy that has liked me for a really long time and he is like my best friend and he would never talk to me again if i went out with chris. What should I do in the situation? I really need some help so..b nice and ill rate you thank you!

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MummuM answered Sunday August 15 2004, 4:47 pm:
I think you should keep your bestfriend and not go out with Chris. Boys come and go, but bestfriends only come around once and awhile. They are always there, right by your side. If Chris wanted to be with you, he would have asked you a long time ago. Why did he wait so long and ask you now? I think you should stick to your bestfriend and find a new guy to crush on. There's lots of hotties out there =)

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LuCiouzbabii answered Saturday August 14 2004, 10:14 pm:
dont go out with chris becasue if he woodnt take u before he missed his chance nd its not worth loossing one of your best friends over xox Jessi

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StiLLwiShinG_1217 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 9:57 pm:
OMG!! JERK ALERT!! Do NOT go out with this boy!! He is a loser,a dn only is saying that to maybe get back wat he didn't have b4!! If u like ur friend, it's better to go out with him then Chris. You guys have probably known each other for a looong time, and the best friendships are wat make great loves. If u don't like him like that, still, find another guy. There are plenty other guys that I assure u are better than what I imagine this creep as. Sorry if I hurt ur feelings about Chris, but it's only for the best sweetheart! You and every other girl deserves better!
I reeally hope everything turns out good. Remember, DON'T BREAK UR BESTFRIEND'S HEART! U won't forgive urself! Trust me!
Lots of luck!
*Mayya

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CrayzeelilDanca7 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 9:42 pm:
If it was me i'd choose my Best Friend cuz Best Friends should always come first. + Especially this Chris dude sounds rlii Strange .. Not likin u Den he does!* Boii Frenz u alwaysz LOOSE but Best Friends you never will! Hope i Helped!!
<3 Colleen!

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advicequeen answered Saturday August 14 2004, 9:38 pm:
Okay, well Chris seems very fickle. Like one day he is somebody, the next day another person. He doesn't seem like someone you can trust by what you're telling me. Do you like your best friend, the guy who has liked you for a long time? Why not take that friendship a step further instead? Well good luck, and if you need anything you can send it to my inbox. <33

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Mammie answered Saturday August 14 2004, 9:15 pm:
its ur boyfriend that ull have do u like ur best freind, that likes u? if so u should go out with him and if u dont like him but like chris then talk to ur best freind about u maybe going out with chris.. and see what he says.. u should be like hey what would u do if i went out with chris? and then see what ur best freind who likes u says? but in the end do what u think will make u most happy. ur best friend the one that likes u should stay ur best freind if he is really a good kid and worth it. i hope it all works out for u :)

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Roxybabii922 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 9:03 pm:
Well who do you like more? Who do you think would make a better boyfriend for you? Do you think Chris is really worth it after having to wait so long? But then again would you want to ruin a friendship with your best friend if you were to go out and break up? Answer those questions to yourself and then see if you can choose...

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