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I'm 15/f and a freshman in highschool. Lately I've been having problems with my phys. ed. teacher. I'm not going to be around the bush about this, but he's an asshole. (excuse my language). He's always such a jerk to me about every little thing. A friend of mine had a shirt on that she changed into for PE that had a picture of George Bush Sr. and George Bush on it and it sayd Dumb and Dumber under their pictures. He had a fit about it and I was supporting her saying that she can have an opinion about whatever the heck she wants to. He basically said she's not allowed to have an opinion about it until she's 18. Then he proceeded to say how he can run his class the way he wants to and if I have a problem with it to take it up with the principal. Not only is he a jerk, but alot of the time he seems like one of those really creepy pedophile type people. He's always staring at me when we do stretches and stands behind me when we're doing toe- touches. We had to do jumping jacks this weird way and I'm not coordinated enough to do it so he asked me to stay after class about it. We were doing lay ups when we played basketball and I suck at any sport that involves a ball and he asked me to stay after class to work on it when there were about 5 other people that sucked 10 times worse than me but didn't ask them to stay after. What exactly should I do about this? I mean, he hasn't made "a move" on me so I can't really say much about that but what should I do? Sorry this was long! (link)
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Why should you stay after class while people are doing worse? Really, I don't see why you'd stay after class at all. I'm sure you've asked yourself this question, but ask him. I knew a teacher like this and he was promptly fired and lost his license to teach. I would just stay the hell away from him instead of fighting him when you have little to call him on. If he ever does do anything more than what you've just said, tell the principle and get his ass fired.
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Where can i get a weight table for a 13 year old???
I also know this question is asked a lot, but how can I work on my thighs, abs, and arms??
Thanks, I rate 5's! (if your answer is reasonable) (link)
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one group of my friends drink a lot and i dont really care that much about it. im not against it or anything. my only concern is that i know sometime i will be involved in a situation where i will be asked if i want a drink... the thing is, i have never drank before, i don't want to say no, but i don't want to get the reputation that i always do that stuff. whats your advice?
oooOOhhH PeeER PreSSuuure... lol (link)
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Why would anyone think less of you for turning down a drink? If you don't want to drink, don't drink. If you do, then weigh out how why you do with the consequences involved with drinking.
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What do you guys think of a 18-year-old(f) dating a 24-year-old(m). And don't give any of that "age doesn't matter crap" bcasue it does. What do yall think of the maturity levels?
The biggest problem I see... The 18-year-old is still a freshman in college and the 24-year-old graduated 2 years ago. (link)
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Wow, a lot of people answered this question.
It comes to my mind the fact that maturity isn't entirely based on age. It's more based on the individual. If it seems that an 18 year old and 24 year old seem to match, then I see no problem. I've known guys in their mid teens more mature than girls in their mid 20's. I've also known girls in their mid teens more mature than guys in their 20's.
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Ok... how do you feel when a girl asks you out, or how do you think you would react to it?
And how do you feel when a girl you like talkes to you?
I really wanna know. I'm also thinking of asking my guy friend out maybe later this week. Do you have any good advice?
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IN PERSON!!! If you do it, do it in person. That way you can talk it out. I'm sure if you do it over the phone, through a letter, online, the conversation would be too short. There's too much room for escape if he doesn't feel the same way, and it's awkward when you do see each other again if he does. If it's in person, you can at least talk it through if he doesn't feel the same way. As opposed to wondering why he doesn't like you. Also, he can be assured that your feelings for him are real. Any other way it may come off as a joke.
As for me, I used to be full of fear when a girl asked me out. Every time one did, I didn't feel the same way. Though that hasn't happened for a really long time. I imagine it would be the greatest thing in the world if I felt the same way about her.
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f/19
My bf and I have been dating for about a month now and he recently told me that he thinks hes in love with me. I'm kind of turned off by that because its so soon. He keeps asking me how I feel and I told him I'm not sure, I'm not in love with him, what should I do. (link)
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Well, I think you just did what you should do.
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A girl in my group of friends who i HATE is moving ..all my friends are like crying but i cant wait till she moves -is this wrong of me? Im kind of confused and its hard to keep it from my friend but i know if i told them i was happy theyd think i was a bitch ..what do i do?? (link)
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Why do you have to do anything? Pretending that your sad doesn't seem like a great thing to do and telling them you're happy she's gone is as rude as hell.
So you don't like her. So what? Your friends do so don't put her down in front of them. You can be happy all you want, just don't parade it in front of your friends.
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We were friends from ninth grade till Eleventh grade. That's when I moved. I came back to visit sometimes. She moved in with her boyfriend. He didn't want me over there. He new about my shady past(messing with guys)She treated me diffferent. I started hanging out with my boyfriend more. She said I was ignoring her and that she felt used. She got pregnant (all of this our junior year in high school). She didn't tell me. She said nothing. So I stopped visiting for a while. She had her baby I came back once a year to see her. We drifted . two years go by and I call her up she's pregnant again and married that guy . I spoke to her several times in that period she never told me until then. Ispoke with her on Tuesday. So I decide to visit her on Saturday. She has moved to Virginia! From Louisiana. She never mentioned she was moving Tuesday. Was she ever really my best friend? I thought we were gonna be friends forever.
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I'm not sure how anyone would know if she was ever your best friend. What I can gather is that you two were close, then drifted apart. Now your trying to salvage a friendship that she seems to no longer want to be apart of. She's moved without telling you, so I wouldn't try to get in touch with her anymore. And I doubt you can ever tell whether or not something will last forever at such a young age.
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18f
situation: my best guy friend has invited me up to his farm to go horseriding... i will have to sleep over there.
Problem: last time i went to his place we got totally blind and ended up making out. he got my top off before i came to my senses and stopped.(it went no further) i told him that i thought it was wrong and i didn't want to ruin our friendship. he said that it was okay and we worked through it and saved our friendship. i know he still likes me - he told me so - but i dont like him. i told him that i would only go if he behaves himself. he said "i wont do anything, dont worry." but i'm not sure.
question: do you think he is being honest? he has tried to kiss me since 'the incident' but i backed off and he apologized. i said i'd go... should i try back out? or just go to his place? (link)
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You said "we" got totally blind? Then you act as though it was his fault. Then he invites you to stay the night and you agree? That doesn't seem entirely wise or fair.
Back out if you don't want anything to happen. You two had a "moment" that he's clearly not going to forget. He's told you he likes you. He's made advances at you since then. Chances are he'll at least consider it again at what he feels is the right moment. What better moment than when you're staying the night at his farm? It really just comes down to whether or not you think he's capable of trying anything while the two of you are alone. It seems to me that he obviously is.
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MY friend ask me to have a sleepover with her this Friday. But my other friend is getting her tonsules out on friday and wants me to go over to her house on friday what do i do? (link)
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Weigh it out. Be a good friend and be there for a friend when she needs you, or go to a sleepover. It really shouldn't be that difficult, should it?
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Does anyone know a very good way to get rid of warts, like on your hands and stuff, because, I've tried so many products and they suck. So, does anyone have any recommendations? (link)
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Having it frozen off by a doctor would be your best bet. Other treatments might only cause it to go away momentarily. Freezing won't guarantee that it won't grow back (I had one on my finger that grew back after freezing) but I think it's the fastest and most affective method.
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Pfff.. I just realised how BORING my life is!!! I wake up at six, go to school, come back at 4, do homework, go on the computer, sleep. What a nice life eh??? NOT!! its just soooo boring! i have nothing better to do. Any ideas? (link)
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Try learning how to play a musical instrument. Or anything else you might be interested in. A martial art, fine arts, etc. It might be fun to get someone else to do the same for various reasons.
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1) is it best to learn one foreign language at a time? or can i try to learn 2 at a time (japanese and spanish) ?
2) what foreign language would be more applicable/useful as a future nurse (or future stewardess) ?
3) is it enough to learn on-line (from all the free on-line lessons) , or should I enroll in a language course in a school?
4) pls give me tips on learning a new language =)
and maybe on how to improve my memory
thank you! =) (link)
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1) That would be way too much work for anyone, especially the two you're interested. If they were similar languages I'd say sure, but these are opposite sides of the spectrum.
2) It really depends on where you're at.
3) You should definitely enroll in a language course. My friend is trying to become fluent in French, but for the last year she's been doing independent studies. She says she's actually doing worse than before. You need someone like a teacher to guide you as opposed to trying it out yourself.
4)It's going to take you about 8 years to become fluent from what I've heard. And you can't really improve your memory, but there are tricks to help you remember certain things. Applying what you learn to what you already know, repetition, etc.
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hi i'm a 18/f and i'd like to address this question to guys and guys only.
what type of makeup do you like on a girl? how little and how much? what are makeup turn-ons and turn-offs?
the reason why i'd like to conduct this simple survey is because i'm starting to see younger girls wear A TON of makeup on when it's unnecessary. i'd like to know what kind of makeup looks you guys are attracted to so it'll give all us girls a hint on how to do our makeup! thanks! (link)
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Enough to not be able to tell she's wearing any or none at all.
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this incident happened maybe about a year ago, but i'm still baffled to this day on what really happened. read on and see if you can decode this guy's actions...it's long, mind you!
i had a really good guy friend throughout all of high school. we both hung out in the same group, and i was known as the bachelorette (i never had a bf before and all my friends did). when i got together with my boyfriend, my guy friend started acting funny as in at first in big shock, then being distant toward me, and then "maybe" flirting with me?
why i say maybe is because he tends to do that with all of the girls in our group. he tends to joke a lot, but one thing he almost never did to me was touch me in any way shape or form (not even playfull hitting). when i got together with my boyfriend, he started acting kinda clingy like when the group departed for class he walked with me instead of them. as for the touching, he sat really close and made up excuses that could be played off as "joking". everytime i questioned him about it, he denied it and said he was "joking around". but if his behavior changes like that i don't think it's joking...?
i hardly ever talk about my bf cuz all my friends were currently single at the moment and i did it for their sake so that it doesn't make them feel bad. and whenever i do (very rare), my guy friend gets really quiet. later on that year he claimed to be mad at me because i talked about my boyfriend too much, which isn't true! he started ignoring me, giving me dirty looks, and vice versa.
it's odd because not long after i hooked up with my bf, we talked online and he admitted that he liked me. later (way, way later) down the line my boyfriend decides to call him up and told him to just leave me alone. it got kinda intense, and i called my guy friend and asked him the reason why my bf doesn't like him is because he said he liked me on the internet that one day. i asked him if he meant that, and he said no, he was "only joking" that day.
to this day i really don't even know how this guy feels about me. does he like me or was he playing with my head? can anyone tell me? (link)
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I have some experience with this. And I can tell you that he, without a doubt in my mind, likes or liked you AND he was messing with your head. He was joking? What a pathetic cover up. Why on earth would that have been funny?
He liked you and figured he could weazle his way into your thoughts by "joking". Since you didn't talk about your boyfriend much, he probably didn't see him as much of a factor. Which would cause his being irritated the few times you actually mentioned him to make sense.
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Here’s the information you need to know before I tell you the problem.
-The people who are involved are me, my brother, and our friends M and G.
-Our parents are on a benefit basketball vacation because we all play.
-I give my brothers team there plays
-M is on the opposing team and my brother and G are on the same team.
-M asked me to the formal before all this happened.
Day 1) okay well it was the Friday my dog got put down, my brother had a basketball game, and I went into a crying fit so M and G tried to help. then I went over to Gs and I went home afterwards and M came over to be with me because it was storming.
Day 2)I made the winning shot at my basketball game, M gave me a hug before I could get to G, and I broke away from him to get to G. we went out to lunch, I walked home with G, just the 2 of us. M got mad. I got home and before I got there, my friend called and told me that M said yes to this girl for the formal. so I flipped on him and ran outside and then he came after me and said he wouldn’t have said yes if he knew i liked him, cuz he thought I wanted to go with G. and then I told him he hated me and he said no, i love you. so I dont know.
1 and a half weeks later)another bball game, for the boys. M got a technical, and so I said, its ok M. and he was like, I love you, and he yelled it to me and the ref thought he was talking to him, so he said ok that’s it get out of here. and then M was like, why I was talking to my gf. and he was like right, I am sure she’s your gf. so he came over and gave me a really long kiss, and G got upset. So the ref resigned the technical. But that doesnt matter.
I don’t know what to do, at all!!!
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So you break away from M to get to G to hug him. This would be pointless to mention if you didn't have feelings for G. But then you get pissed when M decides to take someone else to the formal. You never said that you said yes to him to begin with.
Through this whole thing, you didn't once tell us who you liked, or if you felt that way about either of them. How am I supposed to give you advice about what you should do when I have no idea how you feel?
If you like M, date M. If you like G, date G. If you like both of them, figure out which one you like more, and what you really want from each of them. There's no way I could possibly know that. If you don't like either, then don't date either.
Either way, if they are so upset that you are with the other one, it's not really your friendship they're interested in.
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THere is this guy and i really like him and hes in one of my classes and my friend asked him if he likes me and he said he doesnt like any one right now and i really wanna get closer to him like talk to him more and get him to like me so how do i do that?
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He doesn't like anyone, which is just a polite way of saying he's not interested in you. There's nothing you can do to change how he feels about you. If you went out of your way to change yourself to attract him, then he still wouldn't be attracted to you, would he?
If you really want to get to know him, just try to start a conversation with him about something common. Like the class you're both in. After you initiate the conversation, try to branch it out with other topics.
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what are some good yearbook signatures? its gettin to that time of year and i dont wanna just sign my name! (link)
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Confess your undying love to everyone in your signature.
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Whats the best way to dump your boyfriend? thanx (link)
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In person. Bluntly so they know it's over. Tell him it's over and tell him why. That should be all you need to do.
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Why do you insist on making my eyes bleed with your color schemes?
u ded. (link)
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wuteva. u don no me
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