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aaron
18f
situation: my best guy friend has invited me up to his farm to go horseriding... i will have to sleep over there.
Problem: last time i went to his place we got totally blind and ended up making out. he got my top off before i came to my senses and stopped.(it went no further) i told him that i thought it was wrong and i didn't want to ruin our friendship. he said that it was okay and we worked through it and saved our friendship. i know he still likes me - he told me so - but i dont like him. i told him that i would only go if he behaves himself. he said "i wont do anything, dont worry." but i'm not sure.
question: do you think he is being honest? he has tried to kiss me since 'the incident' but i backed off and he apologized. i said i'd go... should i try back out? or just go to his place?
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Tell a adult if he is doing somthing wrong do it behind his back dont talk to him when he comes around you try to ignore him as good as you can trie your best on what toodo because he isnt a good boyfriend and he is gonna do it more hope i helped
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Girl, I don't think he is being honest, and he is trying to make another move on you, so beware. You can go horseback riding with him, but don't let him do anything. Tell him if he does, then you can't trust him as a friend. Hope I helped. $$$Babii D$$$
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Be a smart girl and don't even put yourself in an awkward or potentially dangerous position. Say, No thanks. If you're not sure, then you already have the vibe that somethings not right and you should never put yourself in that spot!
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well, if theres no trust then there's no relationship. theyres no point risking your comfort being there, make sure hes 100% sure that he wont try to get to close or w.e. try carrying some pepperspray
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i would still go but if he does it just tell him that if he does not stop then you would leave.
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you know craig David and Stings song "rise and fall"?my favorite part is "so let me have...just one more chance, Im not the man I used to be".
So give your guy friend just one more chance, if he makes one move, you're outa there.
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You said "we" got totally blind? Then you act as though it was his fault. Then he invites you to stay the night and you agree? That doesn't seem entirely wise or fair.
Back out if you don't want anything to happen. You two had a "moment" that he's clearly not going to forget. He's told you he likes you. He's made advances at you since then. Chances are he'll at least consider it again at what he feels is the right moment. What better moment than when you're staying the night at his farm? It really just comes down to whether or not you think he's capable of trying anything while the two of you are alone. It seems to me that he obviously is.
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Go.
Be your own guardian. Remind him gently without preaching that you don't want anything to happen and I think he will respect that. Remember, he has never gone beyond what you have let him do. The moment you have asked him to stop or back off, he has done so. So all up, I think he is a guy you can trust. Maybe not trust to not make a move if he gets a bit drunk, but at least to respect you when you say no. If you get drunk as well and say yes, well that is your own issue.
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If you want to go ride hoeses then go. Don't drink or anything and keep alert.If he's a true friend he means what he says.If he pulls a fast one on you (and I'd let him know this ahead of time)have absolutley nothing more to do with him.Ever.
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Well, I guess this situation depends upon your decision. Meaning the question would be, "Do I want to go?" If you want to go and feel sure that he won't, then go ahead, but if you really think that something will happen because he still likes you, I think you need to stay, my opinion, you should stay, because he still likes you, but this is probably more of a thing you need to decide.
-TheTeenGirl
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