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y is love so confusing????
ok heres the thing...i went out w/ this guy (we are both 13) and he broke up w/ me a week later because he said it felt akward because we were really good friends before that. ok so ever since then ive gone 3 places w/ him...the mall twice and the movies. ok at the mall the first time...he held my hand but we arent going out...ok at the movie he held my hand once then let go then put his arm round me and the held my hand again after that. ok and then tonight i went to the mall w/ him and some other guys and he held my hand again and started huggin me a lot but he tells everyone we are jus friends...does that make any sense? i mean he broke up w/ me and i didnt like him anymore but now i like him again because of all this but its gonna make me sad if he doesnt like me and i dont think he does but all mine and his friends say he does. how can i know why he keeps doing this?!?! sry its so long! ill rate good! thanx
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well your only 13.. not to sound like im degrading you. this most likely isnt love. if it bothers you that he only wants to be your friend and hes holding your hand.. tell him to stop. tell him that you have no problem being his friend but when he does sweet things like hold your hand and puts his arm around you that it makes you feel like theres something more there and if thats not what he wants then you dont want him to do that because you dont want to feel like theres something else out there for you two.
goodluck--lovemucho
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hey,
he might just think that u are a really nice gurl and that you guys are really good friends, so i think he wants to be friends with benefits with you, so talk to him and see what he says.
good luck.
xoxo amore
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You guys seroiously need to consider being friends with bennifitts!!!
*katt*
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He keeps doing this because you are friends.You can hang out with friends and not be dating them.Even if they are boys.Stop trying to read more into his every move and just be his friend.By the way, boy's are always confusing.They probably think girls are confusing too.Just talk with them and that part will usually get better.
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Hey. Ok so i think that hes sort of leading you on or hes just using you. Maybe he just holds your hand and stuff so that people think that your going out. Tell him how you feel and if he says he doesnt like you then dont let him hold your hand or ne thing cuz it would create more feelings for him. Good Luck.
~Brina~
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Ask this boy whether he wants you 2 to be friends or more and if he wants you just to be friends move on because it seems like he is just using you!!!!! Stand up for yourself and follow your heart! HE may only be hugging you and stuff to make his friends think he controls you! sorry to be so negative but from what you've told us he is using you and you need to show him mates dont do that! flirt with his mates more then him! he might get the message!!!!!!!
good luck. love me xxx
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