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Here’s the information you need to know before I tell you the problem.
-The people who are involved are me, my brother, and our friends M and G.
-Our parents are on a benefit basketball vacation because we all play.
-I give my brothers team there plays
-M is on the opposing team and my brother and G are on the same team.
-M asked me to the formal before all this happened.
Day 1) okay well it was the Friday my dog got put down, my brother had a basketball game, and I went into a crying fit so M and G tried to help. then I went over to Gs and I went home afterwards and M came over to be with me because it was storming.
Day 2)I made the winning shot at my basketball game, M gave me a hug before I could get to G, and I broke away from him to get to G. we went out to lunch, I walked home with G, just the 2 of us. M got mad. I got home and before I got there, my friend called and told me that M said yes to this girl for the formal. so I flipped on him and ran outside and then he came after me and said he wouldn’t have said yes if he knew i liked him, cuz he thought I wanted to go with G. and then I told him he hated me and he said no, i love you. so I dont know.
1 and a half weeks later)another bball game, for the boys. M got a technical, and so I said, its ok M. and he was like, I love you, and he yelled it to me and the ref thought he was talking to him, so he said ok that’s it get out of here. and then M was like, why I was talking to my gf. and he was like right, I am sure she’s your gf. so he came over and gave me a really long kiss, and G got upset. So the ref resigned the technical. But that doesnt matter.
I don’t know what to do, at all!!!
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A guy loves you girl, be very happy!!!! He wouldn't lie to you about loving you, especially since he even declared it in public. This shows he really has strong feelings for you. However, you haven't said if you fancy M or if you fancy G. If you fancy M, the world's your oyster. Sit him down and have a serious talk about where you go from here. However if you fancy G, you will still have to talk to M and explain that you value his friendship very much, but that you don't love him in that way. Let him down very gently and then give him some space to get used to the idea. Then you have to talk to G and tell him how you feel. It sounds like he really likes you if he got upset at you and M's kiss, so I think you have a very good chance.
Good luck. Hope everything turns out for the best and that you get your dream guy. YOUR SO LUCKY!!!! you have two guys after you, so enjoy it while you can girl.
Claire xx
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Forget about them, and find a nice girl.
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ok, first, this whole story sounds a little exaggerated. i mean, its very detailed and some sounds made up... i'm not saying it was, it just sounds that way.... and second, what is your question? you just told your story, but it seems like there is only a general question.... which i still cant figure out. write to me with a specific question and i will do the best i can to answer and help
thnx
Em
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well if i were you i would explain to G that you are going out with M and that he shouldnt be mad. But it also seems that both of them are jelous when the other person is around you and you have to try to get that to stop. I cant say that i know this will work but it is worth a try and that is all you can do is try. I havent been in this bad of a relationship with one of my friends and my b/f so i dont know how well its going to work. all i can do is give you some little bit of advice and if you try it out and it works that is great. i know i wasnt much help with your question but i gave the best answer that i could. good luck. and i hope this problem gets better for you and you find some sort of solution. good luck with you and your b/f too.
thanks for asking us.
signed: ~DeS~
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you need to find out who you like most;it sounds like you like m the most. so you should go out with him and tell G you wanna be friends or less you want it the other way around.(go out wit G and tell m u wanna be friends)but it sounds like M really likes u! i hope i helped! please rate!
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So you break away from M to get to G to hug him. This would be pointless to mention if you didn't have feelings for G. But then you get pissed when M decides to take someone else to the formal. You never said that you said yes to him to begin with.
Through this whole thing, you didn't once tell us who you liked, or if you felt that way about either of them. How am I supposed to give you advice about what you should do when I have no idea how you feel?
If you like M, date M. If you like G, date G. If you like both of them, figure out which one you like more, and what you really want from each of them. There's no way I could possibly know that. If you don't like either, then don't date either.
Either way, if they are so upset that you are with the other one, it's not really your friendship they're interested in.
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