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"i make mistakes, it's what i do. i speak without thinking. i act without knowing. when i drink, i drink so much that i can barely walk. i'm a fantastic lover though. & an amazing friend. God knows i mean well."

i'm kari sue rose. obviously.
i'm a graduate at pound high school & i'm 19 ;)
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My best friend *lets call her Megan* just recently told me that she got raped by her brother and cousin. Her brother was removed from the family but she didn't tell the police. I'm very worried for her. I wanna tell an adult but she said she'll kill herself, so i didn't. I guess what I'm asking for is whether I should consult someone. Please help.

Thanks in advance (link)
rape is a very serious problem, and sometimes the most someone can do is just send the person to jail, but sending someone to jail is not going to make her pain go away.

if you feel the need to tell someone, then you should.
but it will probably make her more upset.

just be there for her, let her know you are her friend & let her talk to you about it.

if something happens from this rape, like an illness, or pregnancy, then yes, tell someone.

telling someone is the best idea, but letting your friend know that you told through good intentions


Hey everyone! On Tuesday my whole grade is going to a theatre to see a Christmas Carol. We are supposed to dress nice because we are representing our school, except nobody actually told us how nice we are supposed to dress. So my question is, what type of clothes should I wear so I look nice if people dress up but I don't look too weird if people don't dress up. Thanks in advanced &hearts (link)
usually when my school goes to a theatre i wear just like a nice shirt & dress pants.
no blue jeans.
no comfy t-shirts.

wear like black dress pants, brown dress pants & a nice shirt.

don't go over the top, so if people don't dress up, you won't really stand out.


Okay so, I'm 15 and female...and I've never had sexy before.

I always thought your hymen was a few inches into the vagina but I recently found out its on the OUTSIDE O_O

If thats the case then I dont have one...and I dont remember it ever being broken...I've used tampons since I was 11 and I never broke any kind of barrier..I dont remember any kind of bleeding down there that isnt period related...

Is this weird? It isnt possible that I just never had on is it? LOL I'm just really confused, can someone explain to me whats going on? I dont remember any kind of pain down there either...its just doesnt make any sense to me. Do most girls my age already have it broken without knowing? (link)
your hymen is inside your vagina.

some girls are born without one.

your hymen can be broken during almost anything.
running, jumping, stretching, swimming, etc.


I updated it.

Check it out if you wish

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mkayyy. i shall :]


14/F

please help! okay so 2 nights ago i masturbated for the second time and again felt absolutley nothing. i mean i felt it but it didnt feel good or bad it didnt feel like anything. i stuck my finger up there and nothing happened. whats wrong with me!!

my way of masturbating really taht feels good is making a fist and doing a hitting pounding motion on my bladder lower area. it feels really good.

whats wrong with me. any ideas why i cant feel anything and why the "hitting pounding" feels good!!!!! (link)
this is normal because during sex, a guys upper pelvis area hits/pounds against a girls clitoris(which is near your bladder) & causes a girl to orgasm.

don't fret dear, it's normal :]


I come from a small town with not to much to do. Everytime I come home I spend a few days with my girlfriend and for these few days all we do is watch movies and have sex. There must be more to a relationship than that but i dont know what else we can do. If anyone has any suggestions on other things a couple can do I would greatly appreciate it. (link)
in my opinion your relationship is so much better off without sex.

having sex all the time, takes away your true feeings for this person.

try talking to her about her interest, play around, and start avoiding sex.

then later on, when you do have sex again, it'll be very romantic & so much better


Alright so, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and we've started having sex. We usually use condoms, but I was wondering.. how effective is the "pull-out method" i know a lot of people think it should be shunned but, i know a lot of people who have done it a lot and have had nothing happen. What do you guys think? (link)
it's not as effective as condoms. but i've done it & didn't get pregnant, but that doesn't mean that you can keep on doing it & not get pregnant.



i love my boyfriend a lot and i lost my virginity to him, its just that when we have sex he only lasts about 5 min! EVERYTIME! and its usually always the same position, i want him to last longer and be more spontaneous/wild in bed.. yet i cant say anything or else ill make him feel bad!! how can i get him to loosen up and try different things!! please HELP! (link)
if you guys are comfortable enough to be having sex, then you should be comfortable enough to talk about it.

ask him to try different positions just for the fun of it. some positions reduce the sensation for guys, which cause them to not finish as fast, & so do condoms.

try going from the back, it reduces the sensation for the guy & increases for the girl.

same for when you are on top (but if thats the position you guys are used to, then try him on top.


whats an erection? (link)
e·rec·tion (-rkshn)
n.

The firm and enlarged condition of a body organ or part when the erectile tissue surrounding it becomes filled with blood, especially such a condition of the penis or clitoris.
The process of filling with blood.


mainly this means, when a guy/girl gets turned on physically/mentally. blood starts rushing to their vagina/penis, and makes them 'horny'

yes, girls can have erections. its not just a guy thing


i heard a girl can only get pregnant 2-4days out of a month. if it is true? how does someone tell when those 2-4 days are? (link)
okay girls are MOST fertile, for 2 weeks straight, 2 weeks after their period.

like say you have your period, then right as you get off of it, you aren't fertile for 1 1/2-2 weeks, but then when those days are up, you are fertile until your period starts again.

& you can usually tell when you are fertile, because you begin to 'ovulate' & you cramp pretty badly.


is it true that when your ears ring it means someone is talking about you?

my friend said it was true..but i dont believe it. (link)
i've always heard that if your ears burn, then someone is talking about you, but it's just one of those fun supersticious things to believe.
(not really true)


hi is there anyway to tell who reads your blogs on myspace? (link)
if you have your blogs marked as 'friends only' then your friends read them.

if they're 'public' then everyone can read them

but there aren't any ways to tell who 'exactly' is reading them.


so .. this might sound stupid but i know its natural it just seems that most guys have there penis's circumsized.. i dont.. does this effect anything at all .. it would be sweet to have a girl around my age to answer this question because iv look this up on the internet so many times and i still dno what to think and i stress about it ALOT thanks :|

15/m (link)
sadly, not being circumsized really does change the look of a penis.

guys who are circumsized have a ring around the head of their penis & guys who aren't, don't.

some people say it changes the size, but i'm not quite sure if thats true.

it shouldn't really bother a girl, if you aren't circumsized, but if it bothers you, you can always go & get it done.
no matter what age.


i got a tampon in for the first time about an hour ago. it was ok at first and i didnt feel it, but now its beginning to hurt, mainly if im siting down, it burns. is this normal since its my first time using one? ive tried pushing it in/pulling it out a little to see if its not in properly, and that helps for a few seconds but then its just back to the burning. whats goin on? (link)
you may have inserted it wrong, or not far enough up in there.

if it continues to burn then remove it.

but if you have other pains anywhere, i would recommend you to see a doctor, for Toxic Shock Syndrome.


ive been fingered, ive masterbated, and ive worn tampons. so my hymen is most likely broken right? (link)
your hymen can break from many different things, i.e. running, swimming, dancing, sex, gymnastics, strechting, etc.

if you've bled doing something of the like, then yes, your hymen is broke. but if you've not, then more than likely it's not broken.

but the only true way to find out is to visit a doctor.


I've recently started dating this great guy. The problem is, he's black and I'm white. I'm against racism to the full extent and so is my mom, but my dad and brother don't feel the same. I know they won't accept this guy and I'm afraid to bring him home. My dad will look down on me and I hate feeling bad for liking such an amazing guy. What am I supposed to do? (18/F) (link)
you are 18 years old. you are allowed to make your own decisions now.

your dad & brother should learn to accept him for him & not the color of his skin.

let them know about him & then ask them to get to know him, and try looking past the fact that he is black.


Ok, I'm a bit confused. Are condoms 90% effective or 98%?? And are they very easy to break?

Thankyou!!!! (link)
i have been having sex & using condoms now for about 3 years.
i've used the cheap ones & really good ones, & i've never had one break, & i've not gotten pregnant yet.

so i'd say they are about 95% effective if used right.
& pretty tough to break.

they are less likely to break if they fit the guy right.


The other day I was thinking, and if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend and you kiss a friend. Like the person is totally just your friend and nothing more.. is it still cheating ? (link)
friend or no friend.
kissing someone else while you have a boyfriend/girlfriend is still cheating


Heyy.
does anyone know any myspace codes?
like ANYTHING? i know how to bold stuff and make it big, but i know theres some other stuff. sites are good too

(link)
go to google & type in HTMLs; the results are awesome :]

but if you don't feel like looking up sites then here are some simple ones first

[REM0VE THE STARS TO MAKE THE CODES WORK]
TEXT HERE (this makes your text bold)
TEXT HERE (this underlines your text)
TEXT HERE (this italicizes your text)
TEXT HERE (this strikes out your text)
TEXT HERE (this moves your text across the page)
TEXT HERE (this makes your font big)
TEXT HERE (this makes your font small)
TEXT HERE (this changes the color of your font)
TEXT HERE (this changes your font size to whatever you'd like)


if you'd like some more, i have tons.
just ask me in my inbox =]


I have a friend but she likes the same guy I like what do I do. (link)
i hate situations like this.

the sad thing is, the best thing to do, is for both of you to agree on not dating this boy, so it won't cause any hurt feelings.

eventually one of you guys will find a new fling of the week :]




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