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if a girl has an orgasm from getting fingered, what happens? like how does the guy know shes having an orgasm?
oh and i can't seem to get off from being fingered, even when he rubs my clit...but when we dry hump i orgasm...is that normal? (link)
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Yes, that is normal. Everyone has different things that turns you on.
As far as the guy knowing, the only way they could really notice is if you tell them (sometimes they cannot tell for various reasons) or if you may shiver or shake, as that sometimes happens during an orgasm, etc.
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Apparently Michael Jackson's recent death was labeled as a homicide. From what I understand, his doctor, Conrad Murray, is being held responsible for Michael Jackson's death because he administered lethal dosages of the drug propofol. If this is true then why isn't it referred to as murder? I mean, wouldn't they be the same thing? I'm seriously missing something, I think. Could somebody clear this up for me and let me know the difference between a homicide and a murder? Maybe they're the same thing only there's two different words for it..? (link)
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This article correctly explains the differences for you. =)
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/73160/homicide_vs_murder_the_differences.html
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Hello :).
Today my friend called me and told me that this guy asked for her phone number and to hang out.(We don't really attract a lot of guys so when we do, it's big news).
Then she asked my opinion on him. And from how he talks, he doesn't seem like the greatest guy.
She met him because one of her friends in real life told her to add this guy on facebook because he dated one of her old friends or something. The last few weeks or so he has been commenting on a lot of her status and stuff. Just the other day she was at the mall and she saw him but didn't say anything. She then goes on facebook and says like, Hey I saw you at the mall, described herself blah blah blah. And, the then tells her, 'oh, yeah I saw you and was totally checking you out', yeah, real smooth. Anyways he then asks for her number and says that they should hang out. She told me that she has no interest in meeting him, but, she gave him her number? When I asked why she said because it was flattering?
I don't get it. I'm not trying to be to noisy so.
I didn't know what to tell when she asked what I thought.
What do YOU think?
Is she intersted in him?
Does he seem like a player?
Should she go for it?
Btw, she's 15, and she's thinking he's around the same age. (link)
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I don't think he's a good guy. If he were genuinly interested in her for the right reasons, or at all, he would have spoke to her while seeing her in the mall. She should definitely drop this guy, my guess is he's only after sex if he is after her for anything. I thinkt hat your friend is seemingly interested in him because of the attention he's giving her, but it's not a good kind of attention I don't believe, so I think that she should drop him fast.
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If I mix tanning lotion, the kind that is used for tanning beds, with sun screen will that help me tan? (link)
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If you choose to lay out then it may help you, however, I am not sure mixing them is the best idea as they both have different chemicals in them that may not mix well.
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when my boyfriend fingers me he uses 1 finger...im a virgin and hes the first guy whos fingered me so i'm guessing that was a smart move to start things. but i don't orgasm from being fingered...even when he rubs my clit...so my questions are
1.) if he uses 2 fingers would that make a difference? in a good way?
2.) is there anything besides rubbing the clit that will give me an orgasm? he tells me to lead him but i honestly don't even know myself. (link)
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I can't say too much on this subject on Advicenators, however, I will tell you that it is okay if you do not orgasm -- sometimes it takes women longer than others to orgasm and some women do not always orgasm, so that is totally normal.
#1 on your list is a good thing to try, it may help you more. But again, it is normal for women not to orgasm sometimes, so please don't be worried.
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Ok i just remembered a scene from a film but i dont know which or who was in it ok hope you can help.
The guy is sitting on a chair layed back and he offers a ciggarete to some one and he leans forward and kinda like squints his eyes and puts his hand forward but he way he does it is like he slowly but cooley.W8 i think its from SEMI PRO but i need help????? (link)
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I have seen Semi-Pro quite a few times, and I believe that is a part in the movie.
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Okay here goes...
*icon question*
i got a lay that has a module for icons but doesn't have any icons in it... how do i get the icons that i have saved on my computer in there???
*musik question*
how do i get music on my site
i've tried so many different things im gonna cry
((tear rolls down cheek))
thanks (link)
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I think I can help you with your music question. Take a look at this website, I think it will help you out. =)
http://www.lissaexplains.com/fun4.shtml
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my brothers go on websites that have viruses on them & they are really bad and they broke our computer even, & they still do it, and my mom won't listen or doesn't really care or understand, whatever. Anyway, is there a way to block certain websites?? (link)
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Yes, go to "Tools" and click on "Internet Options." You will then see a tab titled "Security," click on it, then click on "Restricted Sites." You'll see a "Sites" tab, go there and write down the list of websites you'd like to block.
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i've always wondered if getting a brazillian wax and like bikini waxes and stuff was weird? Haha, like they're all up in your business and what if you have discharge and stuff, is it me or does anyone find that getting these types of waxes is a bit personal? lol (link)
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Of course everyone thinks it is personal...because it is! Don't worry, I am just about positive that everybody feels this way, however, for the ones who do it, it is what they want or feel they need -- which there is nothing wrong with that, while there is also nothing wrong with not getting one.
The hair actually helps the vagina, it keeps all the bad bacteria out of there. However, many women feel best without it, though it's important to know regardless that the hair is healthy for the vagina and totally okay.
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I just want to know whats still in and if neon and colored skinny jeans and Plaid scarves around the neck are still in too. (link)
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Plaid scarves are definitely in, the colored skinny jeans are not (but the regular skinny's are still in), and neon is always cool. Anything plaid is in. =)
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Is it just me or is it weird that my husband who is 31 years old sits on his mothers lap when we go to visit, or cuddles up next to her on the couch?
Maybe its just me, but i find it odd that a 31 year old would even want to do that. I mean I feel like maybe he does this because of unresolved issues from his childhood.
Unless I'm wrong, and this is completely normal and I just have no feelings. (link)
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Well personally, I don't think it's the most normal thing I have ever heard and sounds a bit strange, however, maybe it's just because he's a momma's boy. Does seem very odd though, maybe you should talk to him and ask him why he does it, and see if there is a specific reason.
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Recently I have been getting 2 periods a month. Like at the end on the previous month I get it around the end, and it goes several days into the next month.Then I would get it later in the month.
Well now, I will litterally get 2 in a month.One at the beginning and one at the end.What Im wondering is if this is normal, and if not what I can do to fix it!
Thanks
-xoxo; (link)
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I had the very same problem, and it was bothering me because it's so exhausting and mine were very painful. It's normal to an extent, since you're period is just irregular, however, it isn't good for your body or you because of how it makes you feel.
I went to a gyno and they put me on birth control, just to regulate my period, and it works and I only have one a month now. So I would definitely suggest that, and if you're worried about seeing one, don't be. Nothing to worry about, and if you aren't sexually active, they don't even have to do a pap smear (they didn't have to do one on me).
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I really want to get the LG Xenon, but I dont know the prices or what I would have to pay every month.I heard by many that it's very expensive and I was wondering if it was worth it!
Thanks! (link)
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Here is a review, along with the price. =)
http://reviews.cnet.com/cell-phones/lg-xenon-black-at/4505-6454_7-33573213.html
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Alright so I'm 18/m and I want to take up a new sport before it's to late. I have played Rugby since I was 7 or so and am getting quite bored of it.
Some things that might help in finding something new:
I am around 5'9
I weigh 152 lbs (link)
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Soccer, b-ball or even swimming: all three very good spors.
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What are some bad things about the sims 3? What are the good things about the sims 3?
Thanks,
Onebirddog2000
Please respond ASAP... (link)
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I have not personally tried this one out yet, however, here is a review of the pros and cons that I think may help you.
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1602913/the_sims_3_pros_cons_and_review_from.html
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i lay outside to tan but i dont get very tan on my sides.
my mom said that if i lay a white towel under me it would reflect on my sides.
are there any other tips?? (link)
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Your mom has got a good idea, that should really help. Also, try laying on one side and keep your arm pulled away from your side. It sounds uncomfortable, but if you take a pillow and curl up to it, your side will be exposed, and you should get a good tan on your side.
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I'm looking for wesites where I can find storyboards of clothing or outfits already put together. Sites that show outfits and then also include where the articles of clothing are from would be great. My style is a mix of casual, sporty, preppy, and girly, things along those lines, although i also like more dressy stuff and western, hippie and boho styles. The only types of outfits I'm really opposed to are goth/punk type clothing as I already went through that phase and don't wish to again lol. Thanks so much for help :) (link)
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http://www.glamour.com/fashion/2008/10/10-days-of-cool-outfits
http://modaxpressonline.com/scripts/prodList.asp?idCategory=15
http://www.kaboodle.com/choxigurl/complete-outfits.html
Hope these will help you out. =)
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ummm....sumtimes when i slime its chunky.....why? (link)
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I'm not quite sure what "sliming" means, however, I have a good guess. But I do recommend seeing a doctor regardless, it does not sound normal.
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if you go skinny dipping with a guy and you fool around and he cums can you get pregnant? or will the water kill it, what about ocean water? (link)
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The water will not kill sperm, however, if he only came in the water (meaning, NOT inside of you), then you really do not have anything to worry about. It is possible, however, chances are very very slim. I'm sure you're fine, but wouldn't recommend doing it again, just so you do not get worried or risk it.
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where else besides victoria's secret do people usually buy cute bras? (link)
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*Aerie
*Wet Seal (UBER cute bras!)
*Forever 21
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