when my boyfriend fingers me he uses 1 finger...im a virgin and hes the first guy whos fingered me so i'm guessing that was a smart move to start things. but i don't orgasm from being fingered...even when he rubs my clit...so my questions are
1.) if he uses 2 fingers would that make a difference? in a good way?
2.) is there anything besides rubbing the clit that will give me an orgasm? he tells me to lead him but i honestly don't even know myself.
LagunaBabe answered Tuesday September 1 2009, 12:14 pm: I can't say too much on this subject on Advicenators, however, I will tell you that it is okay if you do not orgasm -- sometimes it takes women longer than others to orgasm and some women do not always orgasm, so that is totally normal.
#1 on your list is a good thing to try, it may help you more. But again, it is normal for women not to orgasm sometimes, so please don't be worried. [ LagunaBabe's advice column | Ask LagunaBabe A Question ]
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