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Is he a player?
Hello :).
Today my friend called me and told me that this guy asked for her phone number and to hang out.(We don't really attract a lot of guys so when we do, it's big news).
Then she asked my opinion on him. And from how he talks, he doesn't seem like the greatest guy.
She met him because one of her friends in real life told her to add this guy on facebook because he dated one of her old friends or something. The last few weeks or so he has been commenting on a lot of her status and stuff. Just the other day she was at the mall and she saw him but didn't say anything. She then goes on facebook and says like, Hey I saw you at the mall, described herself blah blah blah. And, the then tells her, 'oh, yeah I saw you and was totally checking you out', yeah, real smooth. Anyways he then asks for her number and says that they should hang out. She told me that she has no interest in meeting him, but, she gave him her number? When I asked why she said because it was flattering?
I don't get it. I'm not trying to be to noisy so.
I didn't know what to tell when she asked what I thought.
What do YOU think?
Is she intersted in him?
Does he seem like a player?
Should she go for it?
Btw, she's 15, and she's thinking he's around the same age.
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I don't think he's a good guy. If he were genuinly interested in her for the right reasons, or at all, he would have spoke to her while seeing her in the mall. She should definitely drop this guy, my guess is he's only after sex if he is after her for anything. I thinkt hat your friend is seemingly interested in him because of the attention he's giving her, but it's not a good kind of attention I don't believe, so I think that she should drop him fast.
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I think your friend likes the attention and although she told you she isn't interested in him, I am sure she doesn't mind seeing where this goes. He does sound like the flirtatous type but I don't know enough to go ahead and say he is a player. As far as you telling your friend your opinion, you should tell her what you think there is nothing wrong with you expressing your opinion on something especially since she asked. You may want to explain that you don't want her to get hurt and recommend that she not take him too serious and just see what he is about since he already has her number.
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