I like fairies (thus why I am wearing fairy wings in the picture). Good grammar rocks, too. It doesn't have to be perfect but I get frustrated when people completely disregard it. I like every color except pink. I hate the wind. Sometimes, I carry around a little teddy bear I found at an antique store. His name is Robert. I dress very eccentrically. It's not unusual for me to wear a prairie dress one day and a Mod dress (think Austin powers) the next. I don't dye my hair, or wear much make-up. I think it's sad that no one puts any emphasis on natural beauty anymore. I think it's a good thing to be open and educated about sex and other issues that are considered taboo. I have a hard time seeing where homophobics are coming from.
Basically, I'm just some weird teenager in Arizona. If I haven't scared you off already, feel free to drop me a line. -Danielle
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last night i talked the guy i like. he likes me. we have a dance coming up. he asked me to it. so were going. im so excited. we have been best friends for the longest time. he is so funny. last night we talked about how much we want to be together, and how much he likes me. then he told me that he wanted me to be his first. and i didtn say it back but i feel the same way. how can i tell him htat. without sounding weird
ill rate high for helpful answers. bye
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Don't move so fast with it though... if he really likes you he'll wait until things are truly ready to go that far.
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I want to do something fashion related in college.
What type of fashion related majors are there?
I've tried looking on some colleges websites but none of them have major lists.
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Google FIDM. they should have a major list, and if they dont, try contacting them. Otis also has a good rep.
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Ok, for about 2 months now I got white stuff in my underwear, and always feel wet. I think its discarge. I haven't had a period yet but I don't know when its comming. Should i tell my mom or just leave it be? (link)
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Um...don't listen to that first girl because A GIRL DOESN'T HAVE SPERM. Wow. I really fear for humanity. Anyway!
You can tell your mom if you'd like; it doesn't really matter. You're getting discharge which means getting your first period should not be too far off. Make sure you keep an extra supply of pads around the house and maybe carry one with you in case it comes unexpectedly and then you'll be prepared.
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Ok, first of all my girlfriend and I are both sophomores in High School. We've been together for just over two months but we've known each other for almost four years and everything is going okay. But i'm in the middle of a depression right now and its making me reconsider a lot of things. For your information we don't have a typical on-off high school sort of romance. See we've determined that we are soulmates and intend to marry when we can (we even made these cheap little pretend rings to wear until then); in short, we're very serious for teenage romance. My question centers around the speed of the relationship. We've basically done everything aside from sex and being a guy, I feel I should try to get it to that point, you know? But for some reason all I really want to do is slow down. I feel if I tell her this, she will think I'm not ready for the kind of relationship she wants. And if she does, she might want to find someone else. My question is should this relationship take a step back or stay where it is now? (link)
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Biologically speaking, I'm sure your depression is not exactly helping your sexual drive. Explain to your girlfriend that you don't want to slow down because of not being ready, but more because you are. By doing this you show that you are very mature and not the typical boy looking to get laid. Make sure you let her know that this isn't you rejecting her, and that you still think she's beautiful and sexy but just want to wait for the perfect time to come. Besides, if you're planning on being with her a long time you have plenty of time to wait for that stuff. It will only make it that much better when it happens.
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Does anyone have any sites that have sad, heartbroken, teen love quotes? (link)
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hmm... The only one who is worth your tears won't make you cry.
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what's myspace? everyone is always talking about it at school! (link)
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It's the devil. Please don't get one. seriously. It ruins lives and only encourages people to be more self absorbed and vain than they were to begin with.
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ok so im still young and im allowed to start wearing makeup.. i wanna know know tips that will help me look pretty and not slutty and is good for a 13 year old.. i have pretty pale skin but not that pale. i have blue eyes and light brown hair. thx i really need some help cause i have no idea how to wera makeup.. omg please dont ask me to ask my mom lol (link)
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You know, a lot of people I know go to a make up counter like Mac and have the people there give them tips, and they tend to be pretty good at it since it's what they do for a living. I suggest getting some tips from them, and then they can show you how to put it on and how much is too much.
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I'm writing an essay for english on this quote from "The Hours" :
"It had seemed like the beginng of happiness and Clarissa is still sometimes shocked more than 30 years later that it was happiness;that the entire experience lay in a kiss and a walk, the anticipation of dinner and a book"
What does it mean?
All I have is that happiness is not measured in the amount of money you make or the car you drive, but the little things that make you happy. Life flies by so fast that you never stop and realize how great the little things are.
Is that on the right track?
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Looking back at her past experiences, Clarrissa is astounded by the fact that such small, simple things caused her to be happy. She realizes that her happiness was very fragile and could have been broken at any moment, and it likely makes her wonder if the happiness was really genuine.
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does anyone know any REALLY REALLY good songs about missing someone and loving them but more about missing them and all that? thanks. (link)
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I actually have a cd that I made for someone a long time ago when I had a long distance relationship.... hope this helps!
bon jovi - bed of roses (seriously, read the lyrics, they're awesome- its my favorite one)
evan and jaron - the distance
dido- here with me
Incubus- i wish you were here
skid row- i remember you
dave matthews band- the space between
michelle branch- here with me
the calling- wherever you will go
hanson- i wish that i was there (before you judge just listen to the song. it doesnt sound anything like you think it would)
badfinger- no matter what
any cover of "leaving on a jet plane"
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me and my boyfriend hardly ever get to hang out and he is my age but im a senior and hes still in 10th grade. He doesnt have his license and everytime we possibly get to hang out his grndma has to know everything. And at school he does stupid stuff with his friends that's somewhat immautre and it kinda embarasses me. I want to break up with him because I see him more as a friend but I don't want to hurt him. What should I do? (link)
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Either way you'll probably hurt him, but just break up with him. There's no need to stay in a relationship you're unhappy in for fear of causing someone to hurt for like.. a week.
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well i met a guy hes 2 years older then me but thats okay.we have been dating for over 2 months now and me and him have had sex a few times now. (don't worry we used protection) but the only things is my old boyfriends (we don't like then word ex because we still mean alot to eachother) is coming to town to see me over spring break! i am so exited but i don't want to hurt his feelings because he means so much but im not ready for those long term relationships. what should i do when he comes?
xoxokristen (link)
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Sleeping with him would be a bad idea. Just try to keep it platonic.
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Does neone know, it there is a way to find out if a female has a disease like by symptoms. She didn't go to the doctor, so how can she tell if she has a vaginal disease? (link)
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There's really no way to tell for sure, unless you have a bunch of sores oozing with puss around there or something, in which case you'd REALLY have to go to a doctor. If you think you might have something, I'm afraid your only choice is to go to a Planned Parenthood/gynecologist/doctor to find out.
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I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone tonight and just casually he guessed what his gift was and he didn’t sound all that pleased. What makes it worse is that he asked if he had guessed right and I blurted out No, just because I was scared and upset!
I’m a little panicked. I thought I had a good idea but he sounded really unimpressed…
I’m totally lost as to what to do now! Should I try and get something else? Or just go with it and admitted I didn’t tell the truth?! (link)
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Just give him the gift you got him. He should understand that you lied because it's supposed to be a surprise. I hate to break out this cliche, but it really is the thought that counts and he should suck it if he is really that disappointed with a gift from his girlfriend. He should be happy you're getting him one at all!
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Ever since sophomore year in high school a group of friends and I have always gone to South Padre for spring break. We're all sophomores in college now so this year is going to be our 5th. Well I have another friend that isn't apart of our group and she's going to Italy for spring break this year and asked me to come along.
Now, I'm not sure who to go with. I know what you're thinking though, "Italy, what an opportunity" But, I just went over the summer so it's not like a big deal. So should I just say no and go to South Padre?
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I'd go to south padre. Italy is a place to go with someone who you are romantically involved with anyway. Trust me on this one.
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I have been divorced now for almost a year and still I find it hard to approach or pursue women I find interesting. How do I let a woman know she needs to be aggressive without sounding like a jerk? How do I get into a game I haven't even considered for ten years? (link)
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Try to find out what she's interested in and go with that. Start talking to her about her job, what she likes to do for fun, compliment her outfit- anything- just make sure she knows you're interested in what she has to say and her life and it's not just about getting laid. If you both seem to click casually ask her out on a coffee date or something. Dinner seems like too much and meeting for coffee doesn't last so long. Just take it slow and don't come off as cocky or too aggressive, but still have confidence enough to carry a decent conversation and look her in the eye. Some people try online dating services and it works for them, though I'm not into that idea very much. Just try what you feel comfortable doing! Good luck!
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Dear Advicegiving people,
Yeah.. that subject was REALLY retarded. But yeah.. ok.. my LOVING boyfriend and I have been going out since July 8th & he's really sweet & all & I know he loves me because he tells me all the time & like.. I just DONT want that right now. I DONT want a serious relationship. And he's not the cutest thing ever, but he IS sweet & would give me the moon if I asked, like he's like the perfect boyfriend, but I dont WANT that. I want there to be rough times & I actually want him to disagree with me from time to time, but he treats me like a princess & thats just not what i want, but i dont want to be treated like crap either.. I just dont know right now. I want to break up with him, but i dont want to hurt him! HOW can I? Is it even possible? He's 15 by the way & so am I.
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I was in this same situation... what happened with me was that I dumped him but I went about things in really hurtful ways. Eventually, I realized that I did in fact want him but I just needed a break from it all. Unfortunately, I realized this too late and because I had been so hurtful to him he wouldn't take me back. Be very careful with this situation or you might make one of the worst mistakes ever. Break up with him, let him know sincerely how sorry you are and that more and more you've realized you're not mature enough to handle this kind of commitment with someone and you need some time to yourself to see what else is going on because you're young. If he wants to be friends with you afterwards, don't avoid him... he'll be a good friend to have around.
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I like this kid but he went out with my best friend and everyone is tellin me to go out with him went should i doo
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Just go out with him.
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so for spanish class i have to cook some sort of spanish dessert. any one have a good idea/recipe?
i need it by tomorrow afternoonish 12/21.
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just google the recipe for flan or fried ice cream.
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I'm not allowed to date....but i have a boyfriend..but if my dad finds out he will like kill me!!! i dont know what to do!!!!!!!! (link)
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Don't let your dad find out!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I am a 20-year-old woman and have a friend of eight years whom I'm trying to break it off with. She calls me her "best" friend but lately I've realized I don't even like her -- I mostly stay with her out of habit. I mean, she is an okay person and I wish her the best, but I'm not especially fond of her and I'm tired of having to support her and let her cry on my shoulder all the time (this happens a lot, as she has a rough life and some issues with depression and cutting). She also has a tendency to get angry over very small things, and after I had to apologize for the 100th time for making some little remark which would not have offended anyone but her, I realized I didn't want to be friends anymore -- I am not getting enough out of the relationship for what I put in. I thought I could "lose touch" with her and the relationship could die a natural death, so I've avoided her for a month, not returned calls and so on. But she has come to me and demanded to know why I am acting this way.
If I tell her the truth -- that I'm not angry but don't want to talk her -- she'll never believe that. If I tell her I don't like her behavior (getting mad so easily etc), she will apologize and promise to change, I will get softhearted and forgive her, then after a few weeks she'll get mad at me again for no reason and round and round we go. (I know because this has happened before.) How do I resolve this without (A) deeply hurting her or (B) leaving me stuck in a friendship that does nothing for me? (link)
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If she wouldn't believe you if you said "I'm angry and don't want to talk to you" she'll sure as hell start believing you if you put that not talking to her thing into action. At first, she'll probably bother you a lot, but gradually it would probably go away... though, then again, she honestly sounds like the restraining order type. You'll just have to wait and see how it goes, but it definitely won't be easy to get her out of your life. Continue to avoid her attempts to contact you, is all I can say.
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