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Hey Guys! It has been FOREVER! :(

But I'm back! (as of October 08) If you don't know or remember me my name is Ashley :) Currently 16 years old and a junior in highschool. I don't complain much and you'll always see a smile on my face.

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ok well for school we have to wright a persusive essay about something we feel strongly about adn i choose to wirght about abortion..well i was thinking that i dont really no that much about it but that it kills an innicoent child adn what it says on the internet..but i really need peoples opinions about why they are for or against it...i really need this nad its due tomorrow yes i no stupid to do things last min. but you no i forgot..

so whay would you be for or against or both on abortion?
please help!

Lemme say right off the bat, I'm not against abortion. I'm not saying girls should run around getting pregnant then getting an abortion but there are other reasons too. What if a girl was raped and got pregnant, it is not her fault she is pregnant and should have the choice to get the abortion. Everyone is saying it is killing a poor innocent child and I don't disagree but the baby is BARELY formed already. Well thats pretty much all I have to say. Good Luck on your essay!

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Im in 7th grade, and my friend in 8th smokes. she isnt a bad person at all. well, at the end of the school day, we hugged and everything, when i came home,my mom smelled smoke on me and i think she thought i was smoking,even though id never do anything like that. she does know abt Jenny and everything, but how do i convince them that im not smoking or anything?

Have her smell your breath and not just your clothes, because if you just hugged her then your breath wont smell like smoke and obviously it would if you smoked. Good Luck!

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i have these like marks on my boobs, i thin their stretch marks..when do the go away?

15/f

They don't go away, they only lighten up. Just go to a store like Walmart, K-mart, or drugstore and get a cream which will make them fade even faster. I don't have any names to give you though sorry.

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Do any of you have any ideas for what i can put on my aim profile its not those profiles on the websits but the one where you jus check it its only writing you know ... well i need some help on what i can put as my heading !! thnx for the help i will rate high for goo answers !!

Cute phrases, shoutouts, hearts, your name in a wierd font, just be unique.

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can i change my colors on aim cuz i dont like them if yes how and where do i have to go !?

On your buddylist go to Setup, then preferences, then font then change it to what you want =]

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how can i stop careing about what people think of me

Believe in yourself and just not care. There are people who will always care about you and there are people who will make fun of you or something to make themselves feel better, which makes them really low. Just let it roll off your shoulders and once you tell them off and they know you don't care what they think, they will probably respect you more.

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i drink diet coke all the time. my friends say it will give me cancer. is that true? becuase i dont want the calories and carbs and sugar from soda or juice but i dont love water either.
sooo is diet coke cancerous?
what are some healthy alternatines? (i dont like milk)


thanks!

I thought that was one of those myth things but after I read the person's answer below, I thought differently. Stick with that answer it sounds really accurate. =]

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Hey .. does anyone know some good websites where i can just listen to music ? Not from xanga or anything .. most of them dont work anyway. But please if you can give me some sites thatd be awesome ! Thanks ..

I go to www.aol.com/music because it's free and it has countdowns and all that. Hope I helped!

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hey ok is gonna sound really dumb especially to me cause music is my life...but what EXACTLY is r&b??? xoxo thanx no smart a answers

Rythems & Blues

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i need to know how to do this math question :

the smallest of three consecutive integers is 32. What is the mean of the three integers?

32+33+34...then divide my 3

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What is the minimum age requirement for adopting a child? i s it same for all countries?What is the minimum age requirement for adoption in India?

I'm not sure about India but I'm pretty sure its 18 and older because you have to be and adult. Sorry I'm not much more of a help.

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my bf gave me a hickey on tuesday and it hasnt lightened at all or anything..i mean its VERY noticable. its like very dark. i can wear my hair down the rest of the weekend and to school on monday. but for cheerleading i have to wear my hair up so idk how im going to do that without my whole squad seeing it cuz trust me they will. can anyone help mee!?

5's for any bit of help

The only way I know to make it less noticeable is to wear foundation on it. Good Luck!

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how do you set a myspace to private?? thanks! ♥ !!

Go to Account settings, then to Privacy settings then change it to whatever your looking for. Hope I helped!

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hery girls umm i just got my period and it sucks but i wanted to know how many days u have ur period in a month

kk ty

It varies for each girl, because all of our bodieds are different. I would say on average 5-7 days every month.

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okay kids i gota ? do you think paola (or the americanized version , paula) is a mans name ???

Typically I think of it as a woman's name

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Ok so my parents keep on asking me what i want for chrismas!!! I dont know what i want
I am 13 years old....tom boy...i DONT want grly grl stuff...i dont wear make up!!!
The only thing i know i want is a pair of shoes that are shocks!!!
Can you please think of some thing i could like for chrismas
EVERYBODY who answers will get a 5!!!
Even if i dont like that stuff!!!

+ ipod
+ clothes (tomboyish)
+ movies
+ cd's
+ hats
+ TV?
+ gift cards
+ last year i got this credit card type thing that had 75 dollars on it. you can spend it anywhere and on anything so its just like a creditcard but not your money and once you spent all the money on it you simply throw it away, i loved it, but im not sure where to get them =[

HOPE I HELPED!

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HOW DO I GET RID OF DEPRESSION? I ve tried but I cant. Please give me some suggestions. Thankz bye.

Go to the docter and get medication is the best soloution

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So I've never really had to buy my girlfriend anything because my mom always took care of all of that. But last year, my gf found out that I don't personally buy her presents and she got all upset. Now, she wants me to go out and buy her her present this year by myself. My mom refuses to help me now. I've really never done this before and you don't have to believe me but it's true. Anyways, this is what I have so far:

100$ Abercrombie card (her fav. store)
50$ Hollister or Forever 21 card (her second fav.--I'm not sure which yet though)
And these earrings her sister helped me pick out. They're pink sapphires with pearl on top they're pretty nice.

But I can see my gf's face when she sees these..."oh gift cards...thanks babe..." She might like the earrings more though...I don't know. I'm already spending 250$ on all of that--I'll put in maybe like 75 more. Does anyone have any ideas?

OMGG if I was your girlfriend I would love getting all of that. spending more then 300 dollars on a gift shows a lot, plus getting her favorite stores is sweet too. I would definately get her the earrings and ONE giftcard then get roses to send to her and a sweet card. Good Luck!

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Im not popuilar, im not pretty, im not cool. I only have a few friends and i want to be cooler and be popular. Any ideas?

For being popular- Just be more outgoing, walk with new people to your classes, sit at a new table at lunch, talk to some guys =] join some activities to make friends.
For being pretty- Im sure your very pretty, your probably just self concious [sp?] which everyone is. I can't really tell you what to do because I dont know what you look like but make sure you smile because a smile is ALWAYS prettier then a frown, wear some makeup, and dress cute and Im sure you will be prettier then you already were.
GOOD LUCK!

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What does it feel like when you get your period? I got eeverything prepard but what will be the sign that says "Go to the nurse"

I ratea 5!

For the most part cramps but up untill your period actually starts there is no other way to tell =[ it sucks. You might have backaches. Besides those you can't really know. Just be prepared [which you are] then you will be fine. Sorry I couldnt help much more. Good Luck!

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