Im in 7th grade, and my friend in 8th smokes. she isnt a bad person at all. well, at the end of the school day, we hugged and everything, when i came home,my mom smelled smoke on me and i think she thought i was smoking,even though id never do anything like that. she does know abt Jenny and everything, but how do i convince them that im not smoking or anything?
hco_babe answered Thursday December 1 2005, 7:19 pm: just tell her. be like, "mom i would never do something like that, im being honest, i dont care if you believe me or not but i know for a fact i dont smoke." then you could just tell her the smell is from your friend. you really cant do anything else but tell her the truth! [ hco_babe's advice column | Ask hco_babe A Question ]
orphans answered Wednesday November 30 2005, 8:10 pm: just tell her be like mom i want you to know that i would never smoke drink or do drugs because i am smarter than that, and i know right from wrong [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
xxoBriannax answered Wednesday November 30 2005, 6:39 pm: Tell her that if you were smoking, wouldn't you need one a lot during the day even when you are at home. Tell her to smell your breath, your clothes, your hair, and whatever else when you get home everyday. Have your friend tell her that it was her that hugged you and you don't smoke. [ xxoBriannax's advice column | Ask xxoBriannax A Question ]
pickme111 answered Wednesday November 30 2005, 5:02 pm: i think that you should stay away from her for a little bit until your mom belives you or just try talking to her so she can at least almost bielve you. Also i would try to get your friend to stop smoking because drugs are very harmful. Another thing is that u could not like hug her anymore so your mom does not smell smoke on your clothing
JustAskAlli answered Wednesday November 30 2005, 5:53 am: Tell your mother exactly what happened. You hugged her, and now she can smell it. It's not all that big of a deal, just let her trust you.. thats all. :)
HOPLESSxROMNTC answered Tuesday November 29 2005, 7:57 pm: Have her smell your breath and not just your clothes, because if you just hugged her then your breath wont smell like smoke and obviously it would if you smoked. Good Luck! [ HOPLESSxROMNTC's advice column | Ask HOPLESSxROMNTC A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Tuesday November 29 2005, 7:18 pm: If she didn`t make a big deal out of it i don`t think you should either hun.. Maybe if she asks you tell her.. but i`d think if she didn`t ask she must trust you.. ♥ Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
Ask_Kayla answered Tuesday November 29 2005, 7:12 pm: i have had that happen to me befor but it was from my boyfriend cause his mom smokes in the house so his clothes smelt liked smoke but i gave him a hug and all and when i got home my mom was like have you been smoking and i said no and that it is gross...she belived me my dad on the other had i really had to tell him stright in the eyes that i was not smoking..at the end it al worked out but you just really have to tell them looking in there eyes and dont look away when you tell them
hope this helped
<3 kayla [ Ask_Kayla's advice column | Ask Ask_Kayla A Question ]
xHC0Barbi3x answered Tuesday November 29 2005, 7:11 pm: ♥ Hii babe.
You have to tell her the truth. &&if she doesnt believe you then idk what. she should believe you if she trusts you.
♥ Lauren [ xHC0Barbi3x's advice column | Ask xHC0Barbi3x A Question ]
alleycatt726 answered Tuesday November 29 2005, 7:09 pm: Simple, just tell them you dont smoke and you have no desire to. Tell them that you have a friend who smokes and u dont even have to tell ur parents about you friend. just say that some kids at school smoke, but make it clear that you have no interest to ever try cigarettes. after that they probably wont worry as much. [ alleycatt726's advice column | Ask alleycatt726 A Question ]
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