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how can i stop careing about what people think of me
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Believe in yourself and just not care. There are people who will always care about you and there are people who will make fun of you or something to make themselves feel better, which makes them really low. Just let it roll off your shoulders and once you tell them off and they know you don't care what they think, they will probably respect you more.
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you can't really
you just have to fortify your faith in yourself
become something you yourself would never want to change
and you'll find that you care less (read: you'll still care a little) about what other people think
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well you have to really love yourself and tell the other people to back off!
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Trust in yourself all that matters is what you think about yourself
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Well, it all starts with you being content with your self-image. You gotta look in the mirror and literally think to yourself what you like about yourself and why. A lot of people are filled with malice only due to their jealousy or impulse. In other words, people may not genuinely despise you. It's things in their own life that they might take out on you. Be confident and know there's always going to be someone somewhere in your life tormenting the attributes that accumulate to who you really are. The more you care what they say, the more you will feed their ambition to agonize you. For your better interest, you must not care what people think.
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Awe hey sweetie.
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you must have confidence in yourself.
It takes time.
Life is short. act crazy. be a dork.
if you have major self esteem issues a conselor would realy help.
But no one can bring you confidence only you can. It has to come from the inside.
♥ always;;Lauren
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You need to gain self confidence in yourself. If people pick on you because you're "fat" or if you're "skinny" then try & fix it. Or if it's something to do with your hair/makeup! Then change it, just try different looks for yourself & eventually you'll be able to stop caring what people think of you.
When I was overweight, everyone picked on me - family & best friends. I never had ANYONE there for me, when I finally lost weight I still cared what people thought of me, but eventually grew out of it. People are going to talk shit about you no matter what. TO your face or behind your back. You should grow to realize that no matter what, you're never going to be able to change peoples' perspectives of you, you just have to live with their stupidity. Seriously, if they make fun of you it isn't even worth it, they obviously have so much insecureities about themselves that they have to pick out the negatives of others.
As you grow older, you'll seriously stop caring what people think, take it from me. I KNOW. + People are going to grow out of their immaturity & realize how pathetic they are. (:
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The thing is, people will always have something bad to say about you no matter how beautiful, nice, outgoing or whatever you are. They will be many jelous people and you just have to learn how to ignore them. You know that the negitive things they say about you, aren't true and you have to ignore it. I used to care a lot about what people thought about me. Now, I could care less. I have friends and I have family members who love me for who I am and there is no reason why I should try to be different for them. Be yourself, and don't change for other people. Ignore them because you know they are wrong.
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You want to know a little secret!! People are always going to think negative thoughts about you no matter what. You might as well IGNORE them. I know it's easier said then done but for every time you get called a bad name or you think someone keeps talking behind your back just SMILE to yourself and say hey I'm pretty lucky to have a fan club.
They actually care so much about me to take a minute out of their busy lives to think about me. Then I must be doing something RIGHT!
REMEMBER: you're only a somebody when you get noticed!!
If you keep those thoughts in your mind I'm sure you'll get over it! It helps me!!
♥ maria ♥
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hey ! Well to tell you the truth. You'll ALWAYS care what people think of you. No matter how much someone says they dont care what others think about them, they do, TRUST me. But that also doesnt mean they take it to heart. People will always talk shit about others and every year you grow to be more mature about it and realize stuff they say you cant let bother you! Be strong, and think of all the GOOD qualities you have, the friends that love you, and the family you have. People talk about other people because they have nothing better to do with their time, so dont worry and move on with life =)
hope i helped, write back with what you think ! xO
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omg i used to be like that...every step i make and i use to worry about what will people think or even my friends think of me.
my advice for you is to be yourself...just be free say whatever you want or like. you dont have to fit in...thats how i did it...i just let myself go and by this way im happy with myself.
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