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Is masturbatin or watchin porn a sin??
Sorry if it's dumb or obvious but i'm wondering
Thankz :-D
xx (link)
Here is a very interesting site witch will help you open your mind a little bit.

http://www.truechristian.com/confessionboothx.html

give it a try and you will find some answers.


I been crushing on my best friend for 8 years now. and i finally told her about my feelings. she said she doesnt feel the same way, but she ask me why i like her. just stop me from my tracks. i stood there realzing that i dont know why i like her like that. all i know she is my very first long trem crush and first girl crush. i couldnt belive that i like her and now i dont know why. she is so annoying and so passvie and it drives me up the wall. she doesnt care too much of her self and she doesnt think for her self. when i first met her she looked very sad and unhappy. then i help her from her famliy and health issuess. so why do i like her???? i told her (lara) that the reason why i like her. this is what i said "i dont know, you just attract me in some way and its hard to put into words". she said "oh". and the odd thing is i told her three times that i like her. every night and day i think about her but i shouldnt. i need to get over her and i cant. because she is my best friend and i hang out with her every other week with our friends too. but how can i get over her? yes they say look for some one eles, or be very busy. but let me tell you this:
1.i am very busy
2.i cant look for someone else when i might move out of town next year.

that is my plan to move on is to move away but it is a maybe and my friends dont like it even lara.But they cant stop me. for now i just cant get her off my mind.
but i dont know why im in love with her?
is that love????

Bi/F/20 (link)
it might not be that you like her looks, her personality might not be the greatest, she might not be that fun all the time.

maybe its because you care for her a lot, and want her to be happy?


ok people on myspace, are like, putting people in there interests and they'll be like,

"bestfriends, movies, mall, skating, etc."


is that how you spell ETC? or is it ECT?
i spell it 'ect' but i think thats wrong.
helppppp. (link)
no the person below me is wrong
if it was spelled ect, it would NOT make sense:
etc is an abbreviation for eTCetera
et-cet-er-a is how you pronounce itt
hope that cleared it up


When i first found out that i am different than my sister that i am bi sexual. i told my sisters guy friend Jerry because he is older and he listens. i told him that i have a crush on my best friend Lara. that i always like for 7 years thats how long i know her. my sister tiffany found out that i was talking to Jerry about my isuess. she got mad that i didnt talk to her about my prombles. so i told her and she gladly listen and give me advice.
but last week i wrote a 2 paragraph message to Tiff on myspace. she said i wrote a very long message that made her tried to read it. the message was telling her that i talk to my best friend who i have a crush on that i was asking her if she felt the same way about me. the answer was no but she seem like she was lie to me. so i told my sister about it. tiff seem like she is treid of the same thing of how i feel about my friend and she thinks there is no point still going on about this.

but all i wanted was tiff to read my message and reapson to it. but she didnt she just told me she scan read it. i hated that tiff wanted me to tell her about my issuess to her and then when i do she just ignors it and just thinks of her self. i know i write alot but i have to explane the details. do you think it was right for her to do that? or i shouldnt care to much about it? (link)
"When i first found out that i am different "

You got it wrong girl...you are no different.

You need to fix that.


I was wondering if anyone knew how to make that costume where it looks like an old lady is giving you a piggyback ride...

Any ideas? (link)
Just guessing here...

Buy one of those huge bags that campers use.
The ones that are really big.

Thow a black cape over the back...like the old lady is dressed in black or something.

Get an old womans mask. and have it sticking out of the bag and cape.

Use a sweater filled with something tied around your neck.

And for the legs...dont know...the legs can be filled stockings hanging off the cape.


15/F
Ok so over the summer, me and one of my guy friends were acting like we were dating but we wouldn't officially go out cuz our other best friend liked him too. Well towards the end of the summer, we stopped. But a week later, I find out that the guy & my best friend are dating. That hurt me sooo much. But now, for other reasons, I really can't and don't want to talk to the guy. And me & my best friend just recently made up.We've benn friends for 10 years. But I still hardly ever get to hang out with her cuz of her boyfriend. She's literally always with him. And the only time I can hang out with her is if they get into a fight. I don't want them to fight but I want to hang out with my best friend. What should I do? (link)
I think that you should talk to her about it, tell her that her boyfriend is okay and everything, but you just want time alone to spend with your best friend. Then make a definet date, time, and location. Try to plan before hand so that it isnt last minute and she doesnt already have plans. GoOd LuCk!!!!


I need to find a song that has lyrics deal with money problems or bad economy, does anyone know any good songs about that? (link)
many songs by
Fear and U.S. Bombs.


Okay, i know this is going to sound really comceted, but theres this guy in my school, who really likes me! But i dont like him, and he follows me everywhere, and keeps asking me on dates and stuff, and me being a softie, make up an excuse! Then he asks again and again! But i really don t like him, and all my friends say that im all he talks about, and that he likes me! Hes always coming to my locker to hug me, and puts his arm around me, and i like this other guy and the other guy thinks that i like him and i DONT! its really frustrating! I need advice!
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If a guy is giving you his time, then give him your time! This guy really likes you! At least give him one date. Don't be selfish; even though you don't like him, he likes you! Rejecting him will break his heart, so give him once chance at least. A lot of girls die for a guy falling for them. Give him a try!
DON'T BE SELFISH AND GIVE IT A TRY


i like this guy and i think he likes me back, but we only talk online. we go to different schools (freshmen)

how can i ask him to get together without sounding to anxious? or how can i get him to call?

please be as detailed as possible!!! (link)
Sound like your interested in him. Be interested in his world. Your talking online, so you shouldn't be embarassed or anything! If a weekend is coming up, just ask him what he's doing and then comment that your doing nothing. Sound available!



15/f

i'm sorry i'm bothering you, but i've i already asked him "what do you mean" but, he NEVER responds when i ask him. And i've asked him almost 3 times now within 3-5 months. But, after that day we were talking he changed his myspace name to, "I WANT U EXCLUSIVE GIRL"..could he be talking about me? and i know his display name is from that band song with P.diddy, but like what does it mean?

THANKS IN ADVANCE~! (link)
He seems kind of shady if he won't answer. If he actually has a thing for you he should come out with it and not beat around the bush like that. He's old enough to know better. I suggest, be a little flirty with him just to see if he's being real. Don't take it too far and try to just make it playful so you don't end up getting hurt. One day you can just random like ask him how his girl life is going.


Can anyone tell me how to completely delete all the history on Mozilla. besides just going to history and deleting it day by day. (link)
Thats close, but this is a little better way

go to tools -> options -> privacy. and at the bottom in the privacy date section, check both of the 2 boxes. (always clear... ask me before...) it will have a little pop up every time you close firefox that will ask you what you want to delete you can delete basically all the information from when you went on. and it asks you every time you close so it doesnt get in your way, really quick and easy.


ok, so i was at my neigbors house and was looking through my pictures on my camera and his dad goes, "dont take a picture of me" and i said "im not" and all of a sudden he came and knock it out of my hand and it landed on the wood. AND IT BROKE. its all messed up now. and he told me it was already like that, its my camera, I WOULD KNOW. and it wasnt like that. so besides that im really angry about my camera being broke for him being stupid, i have the fair next weekend and i wont be able to take my camera. AHH. help me. but please dont tell me to buy a new one, tell him how i feel or something along those lines. I want something that might actually help me.

pleaseeee!
-staci.

btw, i didnt really know what category to put this under, sorry about that. (link)
Its really immature for a grown adult to break something number one, and then not take responsibility for his actions. That seems like what a five year old would do...
Talk to your parents about it and see what you should do. He should probably replace it because thats the legit thing to do.
And if he doesn't you could always sue him haha... like if this was a good camera worth $200+ you'd probably win the case


Okay is it true if you dont eat that your body will retain more weight even if you excersize? (link)
its extremely unwise not to eat. you can lose so much wait with eating. look at people in sports. basketball, cross country, track, wrestling. they eat very healthy (cross country eats like pigs) and they're really thin. (well wrestlers skip meals sometimes, but thats for other reasons).


so theres this boy and he told my friend he likes me, but not to tell me.
???
and hes sending me mixed messages so idk. we dont go to the same school, so i havent seen him in a while.

what do i do?? (link)
if he told your friend, and is still sends mixed messages, maybe he is too nervous to tell you. it depends on who he is. maybe he was hoping that your friend would tell you anyways, just to see what would happen. he could be afraid that he comes on to you too fast and is afraid of how you look at him.

its a lot of what-ifs. but if you like him, you should try getting closer, deeper conversations, make sure you ask him how his day was. you know, the little things that let him know you care.

if you dont like him, dont be rude and stop talking, just dont progress your relationship any further. leave it as is.


ok, so i was at my neigbors house and was looking through my pictures on my camera and his dad goes, "dont take a picture of me" and i said "im not" and all of a sudden he came and knock it out of my hand and it landed on the wood. AND IT BROKE. its all messed up now. and he told me it was already like that, its my camera, I WOULD KNOW. and it wasnt like that. so besides that im really angry about my camera being broke for him being stupid, i have the fair next weekend and i wont be able to take my camera. AHH. help me. but please dont tell me to buy a new one, tell him how i feel or something along those lines. I want something that might actually help me.

pleaseeee!
-staci.

btw, i didnt really know what category to put this under, sorry about that. (link)
You need to talk to your parents and explain to them what happened. It's ridiculous that an adult would act that way. Even if you were planning on taking a picture of him, he shouldn't have knocked it out of your hands. Don't buy a new camera until your parents talk to him because he owes you for it.


does anybody know where i can guy ninja turtle boxers ? like actual boxers, not boxer breifs, preferrably in stores. thanks. (link)
I've seen them at Khols, I'm sure! Khols has a lot of those prints.


Okay is it true if you dont eat that your body will retain more weight even if you excersize? (link)
No, you will lose weight. But what happens is your metabolism gets slowed down. So, when you do start eating again, you'll gain weight pretty fast. I hope you're not planning on doing this. It eats away your muscle and makes you look just, bad. Losing weight the healthy way is the best. :) Plus you'll look much better than you would if you starve yourself.


mmk i don't care if people say it's out of style i like them.
anyway what kinds of shoes whould look good with them? would flats? and i have this jean skirt wit a little puffy ruffle at the bottom would that look ok with leg warmers?

and thanks!! (link)
I think some people can pull them off and if you think you can, then go for it. I think heels usually look the best with leg warmers, makes me think of the 80s :) The skirt however, might be too much with the ruffles. You need something plain if you're going to wear leg warmers. The ruffles are there to draw attention to the skirt, if you do that it'll take the attention away from the warmers which you don't want to do because it will throw your look off and not look good. Try a plain denim skirt.


15/f

i liked this 18yr. old around the beginning of the yr. [dec.-feb] he broke my heart but, we never fooled around or had a relationship, it was more of an emotional thing. but yea, he ended up breaking my heart in the end. from time to time we talk, like probably every other month over myspace. well last nitght, we were talking and he asked me how did I break your heart..and i told him how. then he asked if we can move on together?

what does that mean? and should i still talk to him? (link)
Best thing to do, ask him what he means. Because it could mean one of many things. It could mean that he wants you to get over it so y'all can be friends or he means it as, getting over it so you can pursue a relationship. You don't want to be wrong in your guessing so it's be very wise to ask him.


You should however, be very careful. He may be playing with your feelings to get something out of you. I'm not saying this is actually what he's doing, just watch out and don't give in to things easily. He broke your heart once, he can do it again. Good luck :)


Okay, i know this is going to sound really comceted, but theres this guy in my school, who really likes me! But i dont like him, and he follows me everywhere, and keeps asking me on dates and stuff, and me being a softie, make up an excuse! Then he asks again and again! But i really don t like him, and all my friends say that im all he talks about, and that he likes me! Hes always coming to my locker to hug me, and puts his arm around me, and i like this other guy and the other guy thinks that i like him and i DONT! its really frustrating! I need advice!
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I had to learn the hard way that you need to be straight forward with guys. They don't get "hints" you need to tell them straight out. Next time he asks you out on a date or puts his arm around you simply say, "Name, I don't mind talking and hanging out with you but I don't think it should go farther"


Learn to be nice, yet affirmative, it's the best way to deal with guys. Good luck :)




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