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this boy... i like this guy and i think he likes me back, but we only talk online. we go to different schools (freshmen)
how can i ask him to get together without sounding to anxious? or how can i get him to call?
please be as detailed as possible!!!
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Sound like your interested in him. Be interested in his world. Your talking online, so you shouldn't be embarassed or anything! If a weekend is coming up, just ask him what he's doing and then comment that your doing nothing. Sound available! ]
i was in the same situation before.just ask him to go somewhere really casual like a movie you guys both might want to see and pizza afterwards.you wont sound anxious,as long as you dont jump down his throat if he cant make it.play it off as casual as possible and hell like the lack of pressure being put on him.just because your asking him doesnt mean your desperate.usually guys your age an be really shy or awkward in those situations and dont know how to ask.just take control and be yourself. ]
My recommendation is to talk to him, even if it's online, and let him know how you feel about him. Or you can ask for his number and tell him you have something you need to say, and let him know on the telephone. I think face-to-face is always better, however, since you go to different schools it is probably a lot harder to do that. ]
Well, just be upfront with him and tell him how you feel! Then the time you guys will spend together will eventually come, with time. It takes time for a relationship to grow. (you may have heard that from the suite life of zack and cody, lol) My point is that you have to make your move! Dont wait for him to do it, becauase most guys are real shy at our age (Im a freshmen too) Except for a few, theyre just immature, lol. Let me know how that goes for you! ]
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