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Guys and Flirting


Question Posted Monday October 22 2007, 11:44 pm

My bgf is a flirt and i know that. But he doesnt at least i guess not. In our bio. class he talks to a bunch of girls and kinda flrits with them and i know he flirts with other girls. Or 'overly friendly' as he calls it. Well not exactly hes just like 'im just talking to them' and im like 'sure' *sarcasm* haha But he says he likes me and acts like it so my question is do guys just naturally (well some of them) just flirt without even realizing it? i kinda do but im kinda aware of it. It doesnt bug me tho which is weird because i can get pretty jealous but i guess its because i know he cares about me. :D he does it right in front of me and then next pd will be totally flirting with me! Does he just not realize it? just like a habit? my friend was like you may not be happy but i heard he was flirting w/another girl and i was like i know he does it right in front of me so im sure he does it in front of other girls. haha but is it just sumthing certain guys do a lot? Cause hes def. not the type of guy to hook up w/random girls or anything like that. Hes very good haha. thanks!

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mandy3232 answered Tuesday October 23 2007, 6:41 pm:
okay well this happened with me and my mannn! okay i talked to him about it and he said that he doesnt think its flirting and i was talking to his best friend and he was like nope alex (my bf) doesnt think its flirting he thinks hes just being nice. and i was like okayy welll yeah i will have to talk to him if he is constantly doingg this stuff. so i was talking to him and he was just like "im so sorry i didnt mean it as anything, i just thought that it was being nice." and i was just like "okayy" and now he kinda stopped or he doesnt do it as much. he talks about his X constantly but he stops when he looks at me. hes like "sorry i mean lets just talk about something else" and yeah. if he keeps doing it you can just talk to himm. but yeah i guess guys just think flirting is something different then what chickks think! :D

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Razhie answered Tuesday October 23 2007, 6:41 pm:
Lots of people, girls and guys, ten year olds and eighty year olds, flirt without really knowing it. They are, as far as they are concerned, just being friendly.

Some people just learn early on that life is way more fun if you are just nice to everyone! I'm dating a guy who openly 'flirts' with every decently attractive waitress we have. I don't get offended, in fact, I think it's pretty great. These girls get to see me with a totally charming guy...

Don't let it get to you. If he says he is into you. Believe him.

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